I just watched the program, and thought it was quite interesting, although I would have liked it to go into more detail about the ideas behind the various things they talked about. I'm too young to remember any of this but I found it really fascinating, if a little bit scary, the ideas of cults and mass control has never really appealed to me. I'd be interested to find out more about it, did anyone else watch the program?
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snow_white
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 38
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Quote by hans dip
i'm pretty sure most of us take a similar mix & match approach to religion as yourself, but what i'm interested in isn't so much current religious views as the religion you were brought up with, and whether you feel this has influenced your sexuality in any way?
I was brought up in a house without any kind of religious input, either in favour of or against any particular belief systems, and I found that my sexual experimentation started a lot earlier than any thoughts about spirituality did. I can remember that the same year I lost my virginity, my friends, who hadn't been particularly religious up until then but had been brought up in religious households had all started to look to religion, and most of them got into it quite seriously. It took several years before I even considered spirituality as something that might be relevent to me, and it took my friends about the same amount of time to begin to understand sexuality. I'm not implying this is always the case, but it was certainly my expirience of things. Then again it might just be because I'm a filthy pervert with loose morals
Do women fantasise about non-consentual sex? Well I'm a woman and I do, so the answer can only be yes; I can see from the replies to this thread that I'm not alone. However, what has to be remembered is that a fantasy is just that, imaginary, and nothing more. There are some fantasies that people will never truly be able to act out, and I believe to be one of these. Whether verbal consent is given during play or not, to act it out it would have to be discussed at some point, and it could never truly be classed as , especially with it being the woman's idea in the first place.
In answer to the question 'What do you fantasise about?' it is more than the old school stereotype - 'stranger in a dirty mac pulling you into a back alley'. My fantasies generally consist of me teasing or flirting with my partner or a male friend and withholding sex to a point where they force themselves on me. I know that's what I'm trying to get them to do, but I am deliberately giving them the impression that they're forcing me. I would describe that as 'non consentual' though, rather than full on . There are others but that is the main one.
In reality, the only way to act out those kind of fantasies, as I mentioned before would involve discussing it with my partner, but for me that removes part of the fun. Although, as a natural submissive I do prefer to include elements of force and punishment anyway, and I imagine that these fantasies are just an extension of this.
I'd just like to add: In no way am I condoning , I have a close friend who was a victim and I've seen first hand the devastating effect it can have. I think, as with all slightly unusual fantasies, as much communication as possible is the key if you're going to experiment with it.
In answer to the question 'What do you fantasise about?' it is more than the old school stereotype - 'stranger in a dirty mac pulling you into a back alley'. My fantasies generally consist of me teasing or flirting with my partner or a male friend and withholding sex to a point where they force themselves on me. I know that's what I'm trying to get them to do, but I am deliberately giving them the impression that they're forcing me. I would describe that as 'non consentual' though, rather than full on . There are others but that is the main one.
In reality, the only way to act out those kind of fantasies, as I mentioned before would involve discussing it with my partner, but for me that removes part of the fun. Although, as a natural submissive I do prefer to include elements of force and punishment anyway, and I imagine that these fantasies are just an extension of this.
I'd just like to add: In no way am I condoning , I have a close friend who was a victim and I've seen first hand the devastating effect it can have. I think, as with all slightly unusual fantasies, as much communication as possible is the key if you're going to experiment with it.
