I've just been given some super-duper pain killers off the doctor, the kind that make you go dizzy so I'm actually looking forward to next month just to see if they really do work!
Sad I know!
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snowcpl226
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 70
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None of our friends and family know about us being swingers......oooohhh no!
We do use it to our advantage to wind each other up and have a joke around though. Things like mentioning swinging, heaven and peoples nicks while surrounded by friends and family always makes the other one laugh and nobody has a clue why! ......Unless they're secret room users too :doh:
We do use it to our advantage to wind each other up and have a joke around though. Things like mentioning swinging, heaven and peoples nicks while surrounded by friends and family always makes the other one laugh and nobody has a clue why! ......Unless they're secret room users too :doh:
Are there different mods for different people or somat?
We've been here a while and I'm sure by now we've at least said hello to them all. We have never yet found a mod that hasn't been friendly and helpful. At the N W Much II Steveg_nw and Vicky_Uk went out of there way to make us feel welcome and it was very much appreciated.
So instead of using this as an opportunity to say if you dont like it then leave I'm going to use it for a much better purpose and thats to say
THANK YOU MODS
We've been here a while and I'm sure by now we've at least said hello to them all. We have never yet found a mod that hasn't been friendly and helpful. At the N W Much II Steveg_nw and Vicky_Uk went out of there way to make us feel welcome and it was very much appreciated.
So instead of using this as an opportunity to say if you dont like it then leave I'm going to use it for a much better purpose and thats to say
THANK YOU MODS
Not trying to go against your feelings on what matters most but I feel I need to let you know what I find attractive in people. (this is the fem side lol)
I would not be fazed one little bit if a guy I was chatting to had horns and three eyes, the looks of the person are not important at all. it is the inner beauty of the person that attracts me - if you are a good person inside it is possible to see past the exterior which of course is only there to help you identify one person from another.
I cant imagine what it would be like to have great looks. How would you know for sure the person you thought was great isn't there purely because you look good on their arm? That has got to be an up side of being just an average looking person, you know they are there because they like you.
I'm not trying to say you are an average looking person One of the Damned, to me you are a very attractive man, just dont forget it was your inner beauty I met first.
I would not be fazed one little bit if a guy I was chatting to had horns and three eyes, the looks of the person are not important at all. it is the inner beauty of the person that attracts me - if you are a good person inside it is possible to see past the exterior which of course is only there to help you identify one person from another.
I cant imagine what it would be like to have great looks. How would you know for sure the person you thought was great isn't there purely because you look good on their arm? That has got to be an up side of being just an average looking person, you know they are there because they like you.
I'm not trying to say you are an average looking person One of the Damned, to me you are a very attractive man, just dont forget it was your inner beauty I met first.
the other posts from us have been from the fem half of this couple i guess its my turn so here goes my twopenneth worth.
having read all the postings mingers hall of fame i have seen some very valid points of veiw,
But fellas just for once in your lives get intoutch with your fem side you are all so competitive its not a footy match,
Who cares if there are winners and losers,
Just ask yourselfs why are we all here i think that in the main the reply would be to enjoy a small part of our normaly boring hum drum lives,
Or would most of you prefer a night out at the pub get steaming pissed have a takeaway get your head caved in on the way home or just the odd pavement pizza for decoration,
we could all do well to take a leaf out of Judy-TVs book i am what i am,
All the people around you are friends you havent met,
An epitaph i read sometime ago,
stop and look as you pass by as you are now so once was i as i am now so you shall be take up your staff and follow me.
You can find real friendship if you look( we have) be nice to eachother ttfn. J
having read all the postings mingers hall of fame i have seen some very valid points of veiw,
But fellas just for once in your lives get intoutch with your fem side you are all so competitive its not a footy match,
Who cares if there are winners and losers,
Just ask yourselfs why are we all here i think that in the main the reply would be to enjoy a small part of our normaly boring hum drum lives,
Or would most of you prefer a night out at the pub get steaming pissed have a takeaway get your head caved in on the way home or just the odd pavement pizza for decoration,
we could all do well to take a leaf out of Judy-TVs book i am what i am,
All the people around you are friends you havent met,
An epitaph i read sometime ago,
stop and look as you pass by as you are now so once was i as i am now so you shall be take up your staff and follow me.
You can find real friendship if you look( we have) be nice to eachother ttfn. J
One of the Damned - hiya!!
I really do find it an honour that you think so highly of me but come off it, Mary Poppins??? lol I can only wish I could fit that much stuff into one bag, sing like a canary and make a house tidy itself.
There is no way you are deluding yourself. You are a really nice guy and I hope we are friends for a very long time to come. Its nice to see how we've made such a good impression on you by just being ourselves, just one last thing before I go......
...........what do you think you're doing setting up mingers hall of fame? You're way too good looking to be doing stuff like that.
I really do find it an honour that you think so highly of me but come off it, Mary Poppins??? lol I can only wish I could fit that much stuff into one bag, sing like a canary and make a house tidy itself.
There is no way you are deluding yourself. You are a really nice guy and I hope we are friends for a very long time to come. Its nice to see how we've made such a good impression on you by just being ourselves, just one last thing before I go......
...........what do you think you're doing setting up mingers hall of fame? You're way too good looking to be doing stuff like that.
OneoftheDamned I love your ability to get thoughts from your head and into text without losing the meaning. I am prone to things not sounding the way I had intended and for that reason often misunderstood.
Please bear that in mind when reading this!
OneoftheDamned, you are a very dear and true friend. We havent been chatting for very long but already I can see what a nice, caring person you are and you are always there - day or night. Please dont worry that I'm going to get bored with you. Yes, I have very few friends but the friends I do have I keep very close to me and only a select few I allow into my life the way I have you.
I have seen on a few occasions you have placed a thread or a reply in the forum yet you have never named us incase you embarrass us. Please dont go worrying about that, there is no way I would feel embarrassed to be known as a friend of yours.
Take care xxx
Please bear that in mind when reading this!
OneoftheDamned, you are a very dear and true friend. We havent been chatting for very long but already I can see what a nice, caring person you are and you are always there - day or night. Please dont worry that I'm going to get bored with you. Yes, I have very few friends but the friends I do have I keep very close to me and only a select few I allow into my life the way I have you.
I have seen on a few occasions you have placed a thread or a reply in the forum yet you have never named us incase you embarrass us. Please dont go worrying about that, there is no way I would feel embarrassed to be known as a friend of yours.
Take care xxx
After reading Carrie Anns thread about being nervous and embarassed about being bi curoius I got inspired to start a problem page.
We've had plenty of Dear Deidre's lately and a lot of good advice given by forum users. So anyone out there that has a problem or needs some kind of advice regarding swinging or anything assocciated with swinging this is the place to write it down.
I can think of plenty of people out there that would make a good agony aunt or uncle - Judy tv springs to mind.
This being my first ever thread in the forum I am a bit nervous about it becoming the biggest disaster since the Millenium Dome so please dont let me down guys - please! :doh:
We've had plenty of Dear Deidre's lately and a lot of good advice given by forum users. So anyone out there that has a problem or needs some kind of advice regarding swinging or anything assocciated with swinging this is the place to write it down.
I can think of plenty of people out there that would make a good agony aunt or uncle - Judy tv springs to mind.
This being my first ever thread in the forum I am a bit nervous about it becoming the biggest disaster since the Millenium Dome so please dont let me down guys - please! :doh:
Welcome Carrie Ann!
I'm sure you will find out you have come to the right place. There are so many helpful and friendly people on here and I'm sure there are plenty of bi females that will give you all the advice you need.
There is no need to be embarrased about being bi curious. Nobody on here will judge you. We have found everyone on here to be totally supportive and some of the best friends you will ever have.
I'm sure you will find out you have come to the right place. There are so many helpful and friendly people on here and I'm sure there are plenty of bi females that will give you all the advice you need.
There is no need to be embarrased about being bi curious. Nobody on here will judge you. We have found everyone on here to be totally supportive and some of the best friends you will ever have.
I wouldnt say I prefer a big cock or a little cock. Both are great in their own way.
A bigger one definately hits more spots yes, but you havent got to be so careful with a smaller one. You can be as greedy as ya like knowing its not gonna hurt. Thebiggest turn off ever has to be when a guy pushes just that bit too far...
A bigger one definately hits more spots yes, but you havent got to be so careful with a smaller one. You can be as greedy as ya like knowing its not gonna hurt. Thebiggest turn off ever has to be when a guy pushes just that bit too far...
It's true One of the Damned's sentiments are very touching, a lovely post to wake up to.
We completely agree with the comments made by many of you regarding how important is is to have people you can count as true friends and that friendship being the foundation of a swinging relationship.
If you have friendship it doesn't seem to matter much about the sex does it? :twisted:
We completely agree with the comments made by many of you regarding how important is is to have people you can count as true friends and that friendship being the foundation of a swinging relationship.
If you have friendship it doesn't seem to matter much about the sex does it? :twisted:
We also have met someone new to us here and have been chatting for a while now he seems a great chap,
Meets might be a bit difficult as there is some distance between us but we are sure we can sort things out at some point,
And a very valid point ref friendship we wish that everyone could find some friendship in this sad world we live in if this was possible it would be a better place for us all,
So to everyone out there all the people around you are friends that you havent met yet.
So make an effort you never know what lies around the next corner,
To our new friend who might read this your great.
:D :D 
:cheers: for now
Meets might be a bit difficult as there is some distance between us but we are sure we can sort things out at some point,
And a very valid point ref friendship we wish that everyone could find some friendship in this sad world we live in if this was possible it would be a better place for us all,
So to everyone out there all the people around you are friends that you havent met yet.
So make an effort you never know what lies around the next corner,
To our new friend who might read this your great.
:D :D :cheers: for now 
Oh well_busty_babe!
You've just reminded me of an incident a few years ago when a friend of mine accidentally stole a bra from New Look.
When she was passing the undies section this bra got caught on the velcro on her bag. She carried on shopping, not knowing it was there. She actually spent half an hour walking round town with this beige t shirt bra on public display.
Oh we laughed for days.
You've just reminded me of an incident a few years ago when a friend of mine accidentally stole a bra from New Look.
When she was passing the undies section this bra got caught on the velcro on her bag. She carried on shopping, not knowing it was there. She actually spent half an hour walking round town with this beige t shirt bra on public display.
Oh we laughed for days.
