HER: Female, 55 years old, bi-curious with zero experience. She likes to be submissive, but not specifically a sub. Loves to be told what to do and how to do it. Got a very active imagination.

HIM: Male, 48 years old, straight. He prefers to be in control. Almost dominant but not specifically a dom. Loves to write fictional stories and turn them into reality.

US: Our relationship is almost a sub / dom style relationship in the sense that he likes to be in control and she likes to be told what to do and how to do it. We like fantasising, discussing our fantasies in detail, pretty much all forms of sex and we like the idea of starting slow with meeting another couple, maybe same room fun in our hotel room. We would obviously like to really understand what we are getting ourselves into before anything happens, as we have no real experience with other people.

THOUGHTS: Absolute first time swingers. Have zero experience of this lifestyle but interested in finding out more and maybe meeting couples if we can find the right people. Happy to try anything twice, as long as it sounds fun. We are both open to new ideas and happy to discuss all forms of sexy fun. If you can think it, we are probably open to discussing it. We don't often meet up but when we do, we get a hotel and we spend all day in bed. We are also planning to head to Spain (Benidorm) for a few days at the beginning of November 2022. Initially we are thinking we would like to meet like minded couples. Clearly we are so new to this we are not yet ready to be posting photos of ourselves on the internet. But we are a genuine couple looking for interesting things to do with ourselves and others.