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It was the moral element that I was deliberately trying to address which is why i started the new thread although we have strayed into the area of the previous thread. I was trying to make the point that when deciding whether to meet someone or not, a moral decision is made albeit subconsciously and it is a quesiton of finding some who either shares your moral point of view or does not have a problem with it. It certainly shows a high level of debate which is always enjoyable!
A considered reply - thank you - but the notion of "cheating" implies another moral judgement that clearly the married men on this site - including me - do not either agree with or do not have a problem with. Surely the notion of swinging, dogging and other such activities redefines traditional boundaries of what is and is not acceptable within either marriage or a committed relationship and as such bringing to bear these traditional concepts within a modern and more liberal moral setting perhaps is confusing old and new thinking.
Tricky one this - I'm told by endless people to "get myself known" on this site but clearly inviting people to send you PMs is not seen as the right way forward. There is no way of knowing whether people on here are genuine or not - yourself included - but without trying, how can I tell? And if I found the information on the internet, everyone else can so I'm hardly breaking a huge confidence. And if the place is genuine, how come I've already got replies from people on this site who have placed many, many posts asking me politely and humourously for information?
I think the problem is that you are looking for "success" perhaps suggesting you view this site as a competition with the top prize being a meet. It also implies that you feel the site owes you something and if nothing happens, it has failed. The common reply from people seems to get "get yourself known" and this site has got to be a better way than sititng around in car parks wondering whether to walk up to a car or not.
A lot of discussion about married and single men being involved in this site...surely this is a case of mismatched morals? Those people who complain about single men wanting a quick f**k obviously disagree with that man's moral outlook of wanting sexual fun with no strings. Those who complain about married men wanting extra-curricular fun obviously believe that sex with other people is only permissable when both partners agree but the married men clearly believe there is nothing wrong with it.
Surely as well as trying to find like-minded people who are into similar sexual pursuits, the challenge on this site is to find like-minded people who have a similar moral position?
Surely as well as trying to find like-minded people who are into similar sexual pursuits, the challenge on this site is to find like-minded people who have a similar moral position?
