The question that I would like to ask is can a happly married man who like to swing but wife does not. Can he find couples to play with if he is straight with them and tells them that he is married ? I repeat that I am happly married and would never leave wife but we have different sex drive. This is main due to pills taken for depression cause by birth of son now 7. Finding a couple is hard when you are a single male, so I welcolm opinions and advice.