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It will be a good chance to meet you guys - assuimng we haven't met up before then!!!
D&Mxxx
ps we may have a venue you could you use - will email you.
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Personally on the occasion's we have 'swung' a few drinks were all that was necessary - apart from the time we hosted our first party, we were so nervous we had loads!!
In fact I had too much!!!
However there are other times when we absolutely love getting down to it when off our faces and this had included 3sums (albeit with a young lady that was very very familiar to us).
I think its just horses for course's, each to his/her own etc etc.
As far as I am concerned there is no hard & fast line with regard to this (has be a joke there somewhere!!)
In fact I had too much!!!
However there are other times when we absolutely love getting down to it when off our faces and this had included 3sums (albeit with a young lady that was very very familiar to us).
I think its just horses for course's, each to his/her own etc etc.
As far as I am concerned there is no hard & fast line with regard to this (has be a joke there somewhere!!)
Quote by Wilki
sorry Jags i didnt word my question correctly, but thanks
Do couples who want a sinle male," actually look in the males seeking couples section", or just place an ad and wait for replys?
Hi Wilki
Whilst we do not seek single men, we do seek single females and couples.
We place ads and actively search the ads.
We also make posts in the Forum for specific dates / requirements etc
Hope that helps....
We are VERY genuine and we use the ads.
And we get emailed by and responses from other genuine ppl.
However what I would say is that I feel alot of the ads on this site are from ppl that get their kicks from just being on this site and dont need to progress to actually meeting.
But I guess that's just the nature of the beast.
And we get emailed by and responses from other genuine ppl.
However what I would say is that I feel alot of the ads on this site are from ppl that get their kicks from just being on this site and dont need to progress to actually meeting.
But I guess that's just the nature of the beast.
Do not expect everyone to turn up.
We have found that ppl are very keen to come to a party until a a day or so before and then they remeMber their great aunts birthday that they just have to attend - or something like that!
The worst one'S are ppl who just dont turn up even when they have confirmed the day before.
We only hold partys for Couples or BiFems and we now insist on girl/girl phone contact for confirmation as it is a slightly better indicator that they will actually turn up.
We have found that ppl are very keen to come to a party until a a day or so before and then they remeMber their great aunts birthday that they just have to attend - or something like that!
The worst one'S are ppl who just dont turn up even when they have confirmed the day before.
We only hold partys for Couples or BiFems and we now insist on girl/girl phone contact for confirmation as it is a slightly better indicator that they will actually turn up.
Quote by redstilletto
so your opinion of why some young men find older women sexy is because
they may think were easier pray
mmmmm ok ..i guess some do
i remember grab a granny night back home
i remember young lads openly bragging about going on a saturday coz the women were all in the club for one reason....a quick shag
Yay!!!
At last......a breakthrough.
Quote by redstilletto
i think a little back tracking is going on here ...surrey
you plainly wrote
some young men might see older women as a easier option
which sounds very much like older women are easier to lay .....maybe because young men think were desperate
id rather have a mature well experianced man any day
im just saying we aint easier ...
maybe it was the way the sentance was worded but i did take slight offence
but im over it now
Hi Stilletto
No backtracking - that is exactly what I said and I think my last post made that quite clear.
What wasnt obvious to some is that I was not labeling mature women as being easy but suggesting that some young men may desire more mature women becasue they have that perception of them.
I am certainly not backtracking from the position I have held on this all afternoon.
And yes I think some young men may chase older women for the very reason YOU cited above 'beacuse young men think were desperate'
That doesnt mean that you are desperate - just that young men might think that.
Its all about the perception held by the young men and all of my posts have maintained this.
Unfortunately some ppl havent been able to understand that.
And some have taken offence unnecessarily.
Quote by Ginsters
Uhm, go, go, go.
It's annoying when employers offer more wedge as soon as you look like getting a better job.
Like you only just became worth that money 'cos you were leaving rather than you are worth it because of the work you do.
Alternatively, uhm STAY!!
Then tell the boss that if they're prepared to offer a bit more, they can beat the other offer if you are worth it. Grab him/her by the short and curlies and demand your multi million pond contract.
There you go, a nice, decisive bit of advice
I agree with Ginsters completely.
Even if you have definately decided to go it is still worth the sport of seeing how much your employer would go to!
Quote by Angel Chat
I must have misinterpreted what you mean by the statement I have highlighted. If you weren't saying it was easier to "get laid" with an older woman, what were you suggesting?
Of course I was refering to that, but not only that.
I also believe that some young men may also desire more mature women as they may assume that they are more likely to indulge in acts that some younger women may not.
And for the record - I am not saying that more mature women do acts that younger ones dont, nor am I saying that I think more mature women are easier than younger women.
That has never been my position.
What I am saying is that some young men may think that.
Surely that makes sense to you?
Quote by surreycouple2003
There is also the angle that young men might see it as an easier option - more likely to get what they are looking for.
You see, the key to all of this lies in the text.
'Young men might' - that doesnt mean all men do, or even some men do, or even I do!!
So, I did not label mature women as easy, nor did I label young women easy.
In fact I havent labeled anyone anything!!
In a thread that is debating why young men desire mature women I think it is a highly valid hypothetical.
And I fail to see why some ppl would take offence to it.
Or am I missing something here??
Quote by Kinky Lizard
surreycouple2003 wrote: I am actually very good looking.
If I was to say a combimation of Hugh Grant and Jude Law.......
Good for you mate!
Me??? If I was to say a combination of Bernie Grant and Dennis Law!
by the way Roger....I think you are slightly better than 'not bad looking'
Or maybe Eddie Grant and Benny from LA Law!!!
(Does anyone remember LA Law??)
Quote by Angel Chat
Surrey, I don't think she was pulling you up about your grammar. The way I read it, she was more concerned that you were labelling more mature women as "easy". I took exception to that as well
I completely agree with you Angel - I dont think Stilletto was 'pulling me up' either.
Nor do I think that Stilletto took exception to that post (or am I just being insensitive?).
I think that the post was valid -
'There is also the angle that young men might see it as an easier option - more likely to get what they are looking for'.
I did not say that more mature women are 'easy' - and I think you are confused or misinterpreting me if thats what you think.
Do you not think that the post was a valid comment?
Quote by redstilletto
how well you worded that surrey
i dont think older women are easier
in fact quite the oppersite....im very choosey nowadays
when i was younger id fall for any fella who charmed me .............
nowadays i have a brain and it takes a lot to turn this woman head .......belive me
Thankyou for your kind words re my grammar.
However I thought you said that you would 'run & hide' if a man came anywhere near you?
Or was that at a different time of your life to when you would fall for any fella that charmed you?
There is also the angle that young men might see it as an easier option - more likely to get what they are looking for.
Personally I used to have fantasies about getting it on with a family friend - I think I was about 14 at the time and she must have been in her 40's.
I was so convinced that she fancied me.......
Personally I used to have fantasies about getting it on with a family friend - I think I was about 14 at the time and she must have been in her 40's.
I was so convinced that she fancied me.......
The Thread is titled 'Why is mature Sexy?'
That would suggest that all mature ppl are sexy - and that just aint the case! :shock:
I would ask the question is mature sexy??
Personally I find some mature women sexy, but certainly not just because they are mature.
I find young women sexy, but not just because they are young.
I have even found that some women who aren't 'traditionally' good looking have that certain 'indescribeable or untangable' something that just drives me wild.
Its not about age, or looks, or the way they dress.
For me its that (dare I say it without feeling like a pretentious w*nker) 'Je ne sais quoi'
That would suggest that all mature ppl are sexy - and that just aint the case! :shock:
I would ask the question is mature sexy??
Personally I find some mature women sexy, but certainly not just because they are mature.
I find young women sexy, but not just because they are young.
I have even found that some women who aren't 'traditionally' good looking have that certain 'indescribeable or untangable' something that just drives me wild.
Its not about age, or looks, or the way they dress.
For me its that (dare I say it without feeling like a pretentious w*nker) 'Je ne sais quoi'
Hi there
We are a Mid 20's Couple based in Surrey.
M is incredibly turned on by the idea of a group of Good Looking Bi Males playing in front of her and then maybe playing with her.
Not sure of a date yet - thought we see what sort of a response we got.
If you interested please do get in touch - either on this thread, or PM us or we can be emailed
We are a Mid 20's Couple based in Surrey.
M is incredibly turned on by the idea of a group of Good Looking Bi Males playing in front of her and then maybe playing with her.
Not sure of a date yet - thought we see what sort of a response we got.
If you interested please do get in touch - either on this thread, or PM us or we can be emailed
Good morning
We are a good looking young Surrey couple and we are having a get together for a few couples & bi fems tomorrow in Camberley.
If you would like to join us for lots of no strings, no pressure sexy fun, (in truly wonderous surroundings) please get in touch asap.
Please email us at
See you soon
D&M
We are a good looking young Surrey couple and we are having a get together for a few couples & bi fems tomorrow in Camberley.
If you would like to join us for lots of no strings, no pressure sexy fun, (in truly wonderous surroundings) please get in touch asap.
Please email us at
See you soon
D&M
