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tallnhairy
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 51
0 miles · Surrey

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Quote by Len n Emily
Thanks for the lovely welcome Guys
Look forward to posting more and getting to know everyone
Maybe even attending one of the Munches eh ?
:love: Emily :love:

And whats all this 'might' attend a munch ;) we will get you there by hook or crook and you will have a great time.
Welcome to the forums, I hope you have as much fun from here as I have. With sexysteph as your guide you can't go far wrong, and this place just grows on you in no time.
Be prepared for many late nights tied to the keyboard smile
Wondering what christmas would be like in my first 'real' school... (I would have been 6)
Quote by MikeyMann

It is NOT in the terms and conditions of when I signed up that my PMs could or would be monitored
Gem. x

I have no doubt that as this site will rely on a database to work -so anyone with access to that database (i.e. programmers, etc) will be able to see all your posts, PM's and personal details including the IP address you access from.
I run a simple forum on a site elsewhere (nothing to do with swinging) and I can look through the database if I'm so inclined...
Although I am sure there are legal implications of doing so... I am sure our site owners would not dream of invading peoples privacy on a whim. Automatic update scripts of the sort in use in my view do not infringe privacy as no one is reading the private comms.
p.s. I spent most of today getting the board software that SH is based on installed locally on my PC. Mainly out of interest as to what is in the back end. The feature to ban certain words is part of the underlying software, so no snooping was needed.
Here is the text from the admin page:
Word Censoring
From this control panel you can add, edit, and remove words that will be automatically censored on your forums. In addition people will not be allowed to register with usernames containing these words. Wildcards (*) are accepted in the word field. For example, *test* will match detestable, test* would match testing, *test would match detest.
Must disagree this time Silk n Big G... I fully understand the sites stand, they are concerned about people canvassing for another site, even a free one, using their services. I think this is fair, and anyone canvassing the for any other site (free or otherwise) that Mark was not happy with would no doubt be stopped.
I also think that this other site has no desire to poach members. This action actually protects them and people on there from any accusation of poaching members. This could be a useful thing, many people are members of far more than one swinging site anyway. (I think I am on 3 or 4 myself although I live in here) Last thing I want is anyone thinking I am only here to poach the sites membership or use their popularity for a bit of free advertising.
The filters on other sites addresses (and other words whatever they may be) does not stop me talking to my friends. I use phone, MSN, and indeed email for that anyway. It just ensures I am not accused of using the private PM system, which is free but still not mine to use for anything I want. Like the whole site I do so at the offer of the owners, whoever they may be.
Hmm rambled a lot there, sorry smile
Hugs
TnH
Welcome to the site smile Sure you will fit in in no time ... watch out for the SH quicksand, longer you stay, harder it is to leave...
I will be here, Mrs TnH is outta here at a work do... Still think a few others off tonight.
Nips to check lets meet up
Quote by Him'nHer
Am i still allowed to say fuck?

Oh thats ok then cos it can be such a desriptive word smile
Verb, adverb, etc etc... So versatile ;)
only 2 :inlove: :inlove:
I can do better that that :twisted: Shuffle over here a little ways...
Quote by Jags
*Runs in and jumps on TnH...* hehehehehe...can I join in? :twisted:

Join in all you want Helen - you're more than welcome.
TnH... just move your left hand down a little and to the right! Now, fluff there please.
:inlove:
Mmmmfpppfmmmp mpfpmmfmpm mpmfm mfmpf
(Or dont worry babe, I know my way around... :twisted: )
Rog you deal with the action stuff, I will take care of all the ancillary stuff... Sure there room for you too Jas :twisted:
Well if asked I would be all for it as well, still it would be nice to hear about these things (not all the details) in advance or as they happen.
Feeling a bit left in the cold by our new owners. Mark was not here all the time, but I always felt he would pop in and keep us up to date.
Hands... LadyFeeBee....
I think I need a quick lie down and a cold shower in liquid nitrogen
confused
Quote by Jags
Fech nar Jags :rascal: kernak t'k pe rotflmao
lhk

I've googled this phrase and comes back as 'light of my life Jags, I would walk over hot coals to bring you love and peace and joy in your life. fancy a shag'!
:happy: :happy: :happy:
vaj tlhIngan Hol Dajatlh 'e' DaneH!
Quote by KitKat
Woohoo... where is the beer fridge smile

woohoo - is not an expression of joy which translates into Klingon, the nearest I can find is"May your enemies die in bloody terror" -
K'tack mar ke ne - chat te par beer kaaaach

Kapla, or Success in Kilingon...
Damn told the girlies now :shock:
I know a number of couples who use cams for confirming who they will meet. However most seem to go for the phonecall between the ladies approach.
End of the day it is your choice, if you feel unhappy about a meet then you should ask for what will make you feel happy to go. If they are unhappy you asked, then I suspect they were not the right couple for you.
My thoughts on it smile
Quote by Deviated Prevert
I guess I wouldn't be alone on here as a player of roleplaying games, live action roleplaying, wargames, and strange boardgames (try if the weirdest you can think of is Monopoly or something mundane like that). I'm also a recovering first-person shoot-em-up addict, as I've realised that however much I like fragging people for hours on end, my tennis elbow doesn't agree with me. :cry:
I go sailing with Mrs. DP when I can (approx. once a year at the moment)

Well DP you not alone, although I am currently an X LARP player (Vampire the Masqurade mostly) and Role Play (Slay Industries). I am also an X model pilot, but I have a new kit and radio gear itching to be built, and an x sailor (dingy and larger sail boats)...
Other X hobbies include Scuba diving (3 years), Magician (Professional), Kung Fu, SJA, Mountain biking, scout leader (3 years), and web design...
Nowadays I do Aikido, read, watch DVD's, fly Flight Simulators, just starting to mountain bike, and work as the 4x4 driver in a rescue ambulance at Motor cross. Loads more I want to try, but being the wrong side of 30 I just find there are not enough hours in a day. (although my kids have somthing to do with that, you could say they and my wife are my biggest hobbies smile ) Oh and I also cook biggrin