In our experience take it slow and let things build up and just go with it. More specifically and not for everyone but do not miss out on getting close enough to witness the moment she is first penetrated. Then sit back and relax and take it all in.

For us it actually forms part of our sex life in a way. She doesn’t really notice sometimes that a man is having thoughts about, and let’s be clear, fucking her. We could be on a train or in a supermarket but on holidays is where we find it happens the most. It’s interesting human behaviour noticing other men show more than a passing interest. We have sat with other couples we have met on holiday in hotel bars, and part of the fun is whispering ‘he wants to fuck you by the way’ and seeing her reaction. Men know what other men are thinking.