Hmmmmmm. Debate. I would possibly suggest Witch-hunt.
Look, 2 things I should make clear;
1. I have never described myself as a swinger. You seem to suggest that I don't understand the meaning. I think I have a pretty good grasp. But I came onto this site and looked at the ads to see the kind of folks who use it. Contrary to what you would like to believe, there are people on here choosing to find fun away from home. Yes, they could be hidden scams, and maybe they don't find what they're looking for but neither of us knows that for sure. The point is that they are there and so I joined and posted likewise.
2. I have never said what I do is 'right'. Morality is subjective and we all have our own thresholds as to what we believe we should and shouldn't do. I am not 'proud' of my need to look elsewhere but have accepted that it is part of me. And there are lots of folks out there - male and female - who think the same. I do not seek your approval or your understanding. Simply to accept that its my choice and the choice of others to do this. It is not hurting you. And because I go to great pains to keep this aspect of my life private, it does not hurt my partner either.
To conclude this on my part I would like to say that I don't think you really know enough about me, my partner, or our relationship to make any judgement (and yes, I do believe you have been judging me since your first post.)
I'd also like to say thanks to those members who have PM'd me with their support.
I think we should stop this now.
TT.
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Flapjack, you are TOO funny! You must be a Daily Mail reader or something.
This might be a newsflash for you but there are some folks out there who would regard your lifestyle as morally bankrupt. But hey, its your choice, yes?! What the fuck has it got to do with anyone else?
But it does amaze me that you have the gaul to come out with that pious rhetoric when we are really not that different. We both want excitement. Hey, we both want to get laid! Yet you're lucky enough to have a partner that swings too. Some of us aren't so lucky and have to go about things a bit differently. That doesn't mean to say that I'm any less a person or that I have less right to be here. As long as i'm upfront with who I am and what i'm looking for why should you care?
I suggested that we're the same but the one big difference between you and I is that I don't judge people.
Free your mind, Flappy, and your arse will follow. =)
TT.
This might be a newsflash for you but there are some folks out there who would regard your lifestyle as morally bankrupt. But hey, its your choice, yes?! What the fuck has it got to do with anyone else?
But it does amaze me that you have the gaul to come out with that pious rhetoric when we are really not that different. We both want excitement. Hey, we both want to get laid! Yet you're lucky enough to have a partner that swings too. Some of us aren't so lucky and have to go about things a bit differently. That doesn't mean to say that I'm any less a person or that I have less right to be here. As long as i'm upfront with who I am and what i'm looking for why should you care?
I suggested that we're the same but the one big difference between you and I is that I don't judge people.
Free your mind, Flappy, and your arse will follow. =)
TT.
OK. Clearly my introduction to this community isnt going as well as it could.
I hear and completely respect your views on adultery. But its a personal choice of mine. I believe in being upfront so that the other party (jn this case, a like-minded lady) can make their own judgement call. If someone thinks it is wrong then they will not respond. Simple as that.
And my comment about being judged wasn't targeted at anyone's morals here. I just expected a little bit more open-mindedness and more of a live and let live attitude. My being caught by my partner is my issue to deal with, no one elses. I dont need to be reminded that cheating is 'morally wrong'. But I have my own reasons.
Lastly, I really think you should take a look at the private ads on here before you start accusing me of being presumptious. Yes, theres a lot of posts from ladies who say 'Hubby knows' or 'Hubby approves'. But theres also just as many that say 'Hubby is away', or 'Bored housewife'. One even there this morning saying 'Hubby bores me stupid'. Am I the only one on here thats plays away? I dont think so.
Above everything else, I'm sorry that i've got off to the wrong foot with y'all. Apart from my tendency to stray from home occasionally I am generally a fairly decent bloke and this appears to be a nicely run, happy community. Lets not fall out over this, please?
TT.
I hear and completely respect your views on adultery. But its a personal choice of mine. I believe in being upfront so that the other party (jn this case, a like-minded lady) can make their own judgement call. If someone thinks it is wrong then they will not respond. Simple as that.
And my comment about being judged wasn't targeted at anyone's morals here. I just expected a little bit more open-mindedness and more of a live and let live attitude. My being caught by my partner is my issue to deal with, no one elses. I dont need to be reminded that cheating is 'morally wrong'. But I have my own reasons.
Lastly, I really think you should take a look at the private ads on here before you start accusing me of being presumptious. Yes, theres a lot of posts from ladies who say 'Hubby knows' or 'Hubby approves'. But theres also just as many that say 'Hubby is away', or 'Bored housewife'. One even there this morning saying 'Hubby bores me stupid'. Am I the only one on here thats plays away? I dont think so.
Above everything else, I'm sorry that i've got off to the wrong foot with y'all. Apart from my tendency to stray from home occasionally I am generally a fairly decent bloke and this appears to be a nicely run, happy community. Lets not fall out over this, please?
TT.
I'm not so sure about that. The Ads have a lot of posts for folks looking for discrete meets. Seems a little naiive to think that they're all single.
And i'm not looking for a new partner so the idea of breaking anything up doesn't enter into it. But I do believe in being upfront about these things.
Again, I don't mean to offend anyone here. I thought this would be the last place someone would be judged though.
TT.
And i'm not looking for a new partner so the idea of breaking anything up doesn't enter into it. But I do believe in being upfront about these things.
Again, I don't mean to offend anyone here. I thought this would be the last place someone would be judged though.
TT.
Yes I know its a few weeks away but I thought I'd give lots of notice.
As a new member I thought it would be better to introduce myself to y'all at the same time.
I'm 33, short red hair, slim-ish build, easy-going, and very frisky. =)
My partner is away the weekend of Sat 11th Dec and I thought it would be nice to meet up with someone who could also use some company for some no strings fun.
If the idea appeals to any ladies redaing this please do email me telling me a bit about yourself. Age, size, colour unimportant. Just a desire to please and be pleased. ;)
Laters,
TT.
As a new member I thought it would be better to introduce myself to y'all at the same time.
I'm 33, short red hair, slim-ish build, easy-going, and very frisky. =)
My partner is away the weekend of Sat 11th Dec and I thought it would be nice to meet up with someone who could also use some company for some no strings fun.
If the idea appeals to any ladies redaing this please do email me telling me a bit about yourself. Age, size, colour unimportant. Just a desire to please and be pleased. ;)
Laters,
TT.
