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24 Dec 2004

Quote by JandPUK

Hi Dawn
It's not necessarily just for guys. Only that we might enjoy the massage in a slightly different way

Hmm... I'll take your comment in the most charitable way that I can do, and presume that you mean that you're embarassed that you might get an unintentional erection from the massage. *IF* that's the case, a good masseur or aromatherapist will ignore it, because a) it will be of no interest to them and b) they are professional people who have spent a long time being trained and want to practice what they have learned.
Phil.
Phil
Please feel free to take my comment anyway you wish and don't be discouraged from entering any amount of hmm's you like.

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24 Dec 2004

Quote by cu3b4ll
Your best bet would be to look >> here
Edit: there are 177 on the list for your area.

Thanks very much for your advice and the time it must have taken to come up with that. However, I'm tryaing to avoid lists in favour of personal recommendation. Thanks again smile

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24 Dec 2004

Quote by MikeNorth
It just seems to be a curious place to be asking this question - a swingers' site! There are quite a few more "mainstream" Yorkshire chat or info sites if you need a personal recommendation. I'm in your area, but I'm afraid I can't help.
Mike.

Hi
I am on the swingers' site because I'm a winger but, as per a number of posts, I posed a non-swinging related question. Is this a crime?

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24 Dec 2004

Quote by Calista
As an aromatherapist I would be very wary of recommending anyone if your motive is sexual. Aromatherapists and massuesers are very different.
If you clarify your ultimate intention then possibly someone can help.

Hi Calista
Please read my reply to Steph. My motive isn't sexual - there are more than enough outlets for that. I simply want a stress relieving, relaxing aromatherapy massage and I wonder if anyone her has a recommendation.

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24 Dec 2004

Quote by Sexysteph
A more serious question tho is why specifically an aromatherapy massage?
What is it you actually want the massage to address?
Is it for sexual preferences or a medical condition that you want treatment for?
Any qualified aromatherapist would ask these questions before looking at you as a case - if you want more than just therapy you need to be honest about it before the aromatherapist has to discontinue your care as such as it is not ethiical for them to engage in sexual deviation from their therapy role.
If it is sexual then you dont actually need a qualified person just someone who is into the aromatherapy scene?
Many questions I am sorry but they need to asked!!!!

Hi Steph
I enjoy aromatherapy because I find the essential oils beneficial. I used to have an aromatherapy regularly until my therapist retired. I find it helpful in dealing with stress. In any event, it's a very relaxing experience.

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22 Dec 2004

Quote by Dawn_Mids
Just out of curiosity, why is this question for just guys?
Dawn :silly:

Hi Dawn
It's not necessarily just for guys. Only that we might enjoy the massage in a slightly different way redface

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22 Dec 2004

Quote by Happy Cats
A sense of humour, maybe?

:D :D :D
Well done for coming back - a sense of humour always helps
It was a strange first post though!! wink

I agree - seems to have grabbed some attention though :D I'll try and think of something even more original for my second one if only for entertainment value :D . Welcome your amusing comments anytime :D . I wonder if I will ever get an anwer - I can live in hope. :cry:

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22 Dec 2004

Quote by zootle
A sense of humour, maybe?

:D :D :D

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22 Dec 2004

Quote by Happy Cats
Are you looking to be rubbed up the wrong way?

Hi Happy Cats
I can see what was meant as a serious question turning into quite a humour trail biggrin

. Quite funny though and the answer would probably depend on what your definition of 'the wrong way is.' Liked the link to your ad by the way. Have a good Christmas.

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22 Dec 2004

Quote by zootle
Well, for a first post, it's different.

Thank you Zootle for your illuminating observation. Have been on SH for a couple of years now before finally deciding to join the forum. I have acquainted myself with both sets of rules but still am unable to find any mention of a convention for first posts. Am I missing something?

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22 Dec 2004

Hi
Firstly, thanks for reading this post. My question: Can anyone recommend a qualified aromatherapist/massage therapist in my area. I would rather depend on members' recommendations than working my way through a list from yellow pages.
Appreciate your help and have a wonderful Christmas
Unclesilas

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