I have noticed that some people have some very bad habits sexually/swinging and wondered if it is just me or does anyone else come across them too?
Here are some of the main offenders in my list.
1. Not having a condom (at a club)
2. Assuming they can go ahead with penetration without a condom.
3. Not taking the hint and taking no for an answer.
4. Moving from back to front without changing condom.
This last one I think is particularly bad as it is a sure fire way of getting thrush, which is not particularly nice. Why are some people so thoughtless? No woman should have to tell a man that it is not wise to do this and yet I seem to have to do it regularly.
What bad habits have you got or found during your swinging experiences?
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venus68
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Quote by Drnwalls
I appreciate anyone who puts effort into their dress, be it to conform to their gender or not. However, I am totally turned on by masculinity and do not find men dressed in ladies clothes at all erotic.
However, I do quite like men that wear a little make up and the new romantic look is very sexy. I would quite happily be bitten by a vampire if he were attired like (An Interview with a Vampire) type costume lol.
I'm afraid I don't like pink much on male or female.
Watch out Simon le Bon, lol!!!!!!
Ohhhh noooo I'd rather rake my eyes out that screw him. I don't fancy Brad Pitt either, I think I must have a very unusual taste in men lol
Quote by keeno
Keeno seems to have gone and hidden in the closet, or he simply can't decide what to wear, that's what happens when you get far too in touch with your feminine side hahahaha
Back again. Not hiding....working.
In the closet, out of the closet. I'm not sure.
I admit that I actually find I have a bit of a quiver and a tingle when I've seen the pics of certain TVs on here but don't find the pics of men do anything for me.
I certainly don't confuse the desire to wear femine clothes with being homosexual. I believe that you can get pleasure from dressing without desiring someone of the same sex.
It is interesting that the fems here don't find men x dressing terribly acttractive.
That is possibly one area you are getting confused. I do find some cds/tvs very attractive, but only in the same way I find other women attractive. I do appreciate the beauty, effort and style they make have, but... as a straight woman, it will never turn me on unless they are able to keep hold of their masculinity while doing so.
I think it is a sad reflection of how people feel let down by society today and having been abused feel that they have to take matters in their own hands.
Surely it is more a reflection of how confused the world is and how having so many grey areas just doesn't give out the right signals.
I blame 'Human Rights' for stuff like this. You can't punish the bullies because it will infringe on their human rights, so the bullied lose the will to live and lose their right to feel happy and confident.
People are scared to react in case they get labelled as the 'bad one' and their is too much red tape and too much talking. When people abuse other people they should be dealt with, it should be nipped in the bud and people should be supported to get their life back on the road after being subjected to bullying.
The Mother? God knows what was going through her head, but I think she obviously needed help and I doubt she got any.
The other thing that concerns me. Often what you see happen in America, sooner or later it happens over here. I wonder how long it will be before someone misguided, unsupported and let down by the system will attempt such a stupid solution here?
Surely it is more a reflection of how confused the world is and how having so many grey areas just doesn't give out the right signals.
I blame 'Human Rights' for stuff like this. You can't punish the bullies because it will infringe on their human rights, so the bullied lose the will to live and lose their right to feel happy and confident.
People are scared to react in case they get labelled as the 'bad one' and their is too much red tape and too much talking. When people abuse other people they should be dealt with, it should be nipped in the bud and people should be supported to get their life back on the road after being subjected to bullying.
The Mother? God knows what was going through her head, but I think she obviously needed help and I doubt she got any.
The other thing that concerns me. Often what you see happen in America, sooner or later it happens over here. I wonder how long it will be before someone misguided, unsupported and let down by the system will attempt such a stupid solution here?
ven? ven? when did I become ven? Hib? hehe
You may call me Vx
They are also too short lol. Even when creating a video in my mind they are too short. By the time you have shuffled around and got a sexy position it's stopped! I say make it bigger and make it longer!!! And I'm not just talking about willies!!!
You may call me Vx
They are also too short lol. Even when creating a video in my mind they are too short. By the time you have shuffled around and got a sexy position it's stopped! I say make it bigger and make it longer!!! And I'm not just talking about willies!!!
I appreciate anyone who puts effort into their dress, be it to conform to their gender or not. However, I am totally turned on by masculinity and do not find men dressed in ladies clothes at all erotic.
However, I do quite like men that wear a little make up and the new romantic look is very sexy. I would quite happily be bitten by a vampire if he were attired like (An Interview with a Vampire) type costume lol.
I'm afraid I don't like pink much on male or female.
However, I do quite like men that wear a little make up and the new romantic look is very sexy. I would quite happily be bitten by a vampire if he were attired like (An Interview with a Vampire) type costume lol.
I'm afraid I don't like pink much on male or female.
I met a lady while on holiday in Kos a few years ago and she was having a ball. She was in her 40s, grown up sons and held a professional job.
Anyway she had been using the broadsheet papers to find romance and had met two men that had developed into relationships, but hadn't yet found the right one. She was however not put off by this as she said the men were both educated and gentleman who new how to look after a lady and she did enjoy their company.
If it is a 'vanilla' type relationship she is looking for, maybe this would be a good idea for her?
Anyway she had been using the broadsheet papers to find romance and had met two men that had developed into relationships, but hadn't yet found the right one. She was however not put off by this as she said the men were both educated and gentleman who new how to look after a lady and she did enjoy their company.
If it is a 'vanilla' type relationship she is looking for, maybe this would be a good idea for her?
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Until recently I would have said a confident yes, but after seeing the story where the dad shopped his son for keeping a gun for his mates I'm not so sure.
He was sent to prison for a first offence and now had a record. I believe that he should have been punished and I believe he should have been educated as to what might have happened if that gun had been used etc, but to send him to prison and give him a record will have a knock on affect with everything he does here on in.
So... I would have to look at what I feel is the best way to deal with it and that may or may not include shopping him, depending on what he has done and how he reacts to the reality of his actions.
Sorry but with all the gun crime going on now, what other punishment should the courts give for someone having a gun fgs.
The most dangerous of weapons, for surely that gun was there for a purpose, to kill or maim. We see it almost everyday.
Tough luck if his life has been ruined, but nowhere near as bad as the person that gun could have killed.
To educate someone for having a gun is fine if it is a child, but obviously this was an adult as they were sent to prison.
If an adult has to be educated as to why he should not have a gun, then maybe a term in a mental hospital should have been more in order. As he knew exactly what he was doing by having a gun. No doubt he was an angel too. :shock:
At face value I can see what you are saying, but life is never that simple. Having seen the Father and the son who had the gun it would be difficult to believe that the son had realised what exactly he had agreed to do. I'm sure there are many kids that react to peer pressure and do things without realising how dangerous they are. He may well have had little choice if he wanted to associate with his peers or even not be bullied himself.
It was his dad who found the fire arm and could have easily handed it in anonymously, but wanted his son to understand how stupid his actions had been and get a telling off. He was not expecting what happened thereafter. Having a parent who was on the side of the law and willing to work with the law, you would think they might have found a punishment that would have done him more good that bring him closer to more real criminals.
I hope that my son is a bit brighter and wouldn't put himself in that position, but I guess you never know. One can of red bull and he changes into a human bullet on speed, so God knows what other things he hasn't tried yet might do to him.
No heating
Use legs where possible
alternative fuels where possible
brand name products
lay in wait for the cut price items that need eating and whip them off the shelf quicker than anyone else whether you like it or not.
Always go to the toilet when you're out the house.
Drink soda water and lime when out.
recycle tea bags (use twice)
Eat rhubarb from the garden
Get condoms from the clinic for free
Use van for sexual encounters instead of hotels
Take a bar of soap into the jacuzzi at chams
I could right another page full but I got distracted by free porn *grins*
Use legs where possible
alternative fuels where possible
brand name products
lay in wait for the cut price items that need eating and whip them off the shelf quicker than anyone else whether you like it or not.
Always go to the toilet when you're out the house.
Drink soda water and lime when out.
recycle tea bags (use twice)
Eat rhubarb from the garden
Get condoms from the clinic for free
Use van for sexual encounters instead of hotels
Take a bar of soap into the jacuzzi at chams
I could right another page full but I got distracted by free porn *grins*
Until recently I would have said a confident yes, but after seeing the story where the dad shopped his son for keeping a gun for his mates I'm not so sure.
He was sent to prison for a first offence and now had a record. I believe that he should have been punished and I believe he should have been educated as to what might have happened if that gun had been used etc, but to send him to prison and give him a record will have a knock on affect with everything he does here on in.
So... I would have to look at what I feel is the best way to deal with it and that may or may not include shopping him, depending on what he has done and how he reacts to the reality of his actions.
He was sent to prison for a first offence and now had a record. I believe that he should have been punished and I believe he should have been educated as to what might have happened if that gun had been used etc, but to send him to prison and give him a record will have a knock on affect with everything he does here on in.
So... I would have to look at what I feel is the best way to deal with it and that may or may not include shopping him, depending on what he has done and how he reacts to the reality of his actions.
Quote by Sgt Bilko
I've got a few thousand brain cells missing from when I had a brain virus.
I've had a few moles either cut out or frozen off.
I've got a dent in my leg after a motorbike accident and a chunk of me got gouged out.
I've had a bit of my cornea lasered to correct my vision on both sides.
I have had 6 teeth taken out for when I had a brace as a teenager, but got all my wisdom teeth
I have a slight dent that you can see when I smile above one eye where a metal pole thing landed on me from a great hight as a child.
I think that is it
Are you Frank Spencer in disguise???
Who said I was in disguise? lol.
I've been called Victoria Wood all day, so why not Frank as well lol.
I do love the way threads on here and a few other sites I go on make me think about my life and aspects of it.
I have to say that I have found it reassuring to realise that actually I have given my son some life skills and he is able to do some of the things that you have said.
For instance being a bit lazy and not always having his phone with him/charged up, he does know how to make a reverse charge call at a phone box and he is more than capable of getting a friend to let him borrow one of theirs if needed.
He also feels comfortable enough at home to invite his friends back. This weekend he went to town with his friends and phoned me in the afternoon to see if I was ok with him bringing his friends back. I felt quite pleased that he was happy to do that and glad to have him home where I new he was safe.
Now, here is where I stop painting a perfect picture and actually would like to issue a warning.
Not being so sensible he drank 3 cans of red bull while he was out and was high as a kite. He is not normally the type to be affected by e numbers or anything like that, so imagine my surprise when I witnessed him bounce over 10ft into the sky and then collapse onto the floor head first.
His reaction was as though he had been taking drugs, he was totally reacting like he was going through some kind of hyper charged madness.
He knows he isn't supposed to drink it as he in my mind is not old enough, let alone to have 3 cans, so hopefully he has learnt the hard way, that rules are made for a reason and I'm just grateful I was home to make sure he was ok when it happened.
I have to say that I have found it reassuring to realise that actually I have given my son some life skills and he is able to do some of the things that you have said.
For instance being a bit lazy and not always having his phone with him/charged up, he does know how to make a reverse charge call at a phone box and he is more than capable of getting a friend to let him borrow one of theirs if needed.
He also feels comfortable enough at home to invite his friends back. This weekend he went to town with his friends and phoned me in the afternoon to see if I was ok with him bringing his friends back. I felt quite pleased that he was happy to do that and glad to have him home where I new he was safe.
Now, here is where I stop painting a perfect picture and actually would like to issue a warning.
Not being so sensible he drank 3 cans of red bull while he was out and was high as a kite. He is not normally the type to be affected by e numbers or anything like that, so imagine my surprise when I witnessed him bounce over 10ft into the sky and then collapse onto the floor head first.
His reaction was as though he had been taking drugs, he was totally reacting like he was going through some kind of hyper charged madness.
He knows he isn't supposed to drink it as he in my mind is not old enough, let alone to have 3 cans, so hopefully he has learnt the hard way, that rules are made for a reason and I'm just grateful I was home to make sure he was ok when it happened.
I've got a few thousand brain cells missing from when I had a brain virus.
I've had a few moles either cut out or frozen off.
I've got a dent in my leg after a motorbike accident and a chunk of me got gouged out.
I've had a bit of my cornea lasered to correct my vision on both sides.
I have had 6 teeth taken out for when I had a brace as a teenager, but got all my wisdom teeth
I have a slight dent that you can see when I smile above one eye where a metal pole thing landed on me from a great hight as a child.
I think that is it
I've had a few moles either cut out or frozen off.
I've got a dent in my leg after a motorbike accident and a chunk of me got gouged out.
I've had a bit of my cornea lasered to correct my vision on both sides.
I have had 6 teeth taken out for when I had a brace as a teenager, but got all my wisdom teeth
I have a slight dent that you can see when I smile above one eye where a metal pole thing landed on me from a great hight as a child.
I think that is it
I know some schools ask parents to sign a disclaimer for the whole school year, that allows them to administer first aid or take action on behalf of the parent should something like that happen. Without that disclaimer I think they are on dodgy ground to make any decisions without the parents consent. I really don't see why they couldn't have asked her if she was ok with them getting an ambulance and arranging for her to meet him at the hospital though. Seems madness to me.
