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When did you last have sex?
Has a body I'd like to play with :twisted:
So far you have answered the way I expected, so at the moment I feel I have made the correct decision.
You mean it costs a fiver?
Okay let me give this a gentle nudge as it seems to be an area that isn't getting much of a response.
I think it is about 'expectation'. I personally expect far more from a boyfriend than I do from a buddy.
A buddy is someone I enjoy being with, I can rely on and trust to be there for me as I would be for them. We are able to communicate and try to consider each others feelings while we are together, but... when we are apart I do not have to consult them in what I am doing, or be more of a friend than any other friend they may have.
A boyfriend is someone I want to spend time with, care about, may be fall in love with. I want them to be my soul mate and talk to them about every aspect of my life. I want us to communicate on all levels and be there through good and bad times, supporting each other.
With both I expect honesty and I need to be able to trust them.
So... are my perceptions wrong? Or am I roughly thinking in the same way as most?
There are loads and loads
I cry when I listen to 'wires' by Athlete and I cry when I listen to 'Changes' by ozzy and kelly.
I'm sure there will be loads more when I think a little more.
I am lucky enough to have visited a garrison where the Gurkhas cooked a curry and oh my God was it memorable. So lovely.
I know that has nothing to do with the subject, but it had to be said lol. From what I know of the Gurkhas they are extremely hard working, loyal and respectful and have made huge sacrifices for their families and our country. For that reason alone I would say they should be allowed and able to settle both themselves and their immediate families in this Country.
If there is a problem with returning home with the same financial package, then I don't see a problem in offering them 2 options depending on their choice. It might encourage more Gurkhas to stay in the UK if they are getting more here, but as it has already been stated, the money is relative to the situation. I'm sure housing is a damn sight cheaper in Nepal.
When embarking on any new relationship it can be a bit fuzzy as to what the difference is or expectations.
I'm at a bit of a quandry myself at the moment and was hoping that you might be able to lead me to a decision or at least confirm the one I just made lol.
So... for you, what is the difference between a boyfriend/girlfriend that you swing with and a buddy? This is especially in the case of a new association.
I have to pay £65 a quarter for my son to get to school and back. This also consists of 2 buses each way and he has been kicked off several times. Once for taking his jumper off as his shirt started to rise to by accident. They assumed he was going to strip (that is so not him you would not believe) and once because someone complained about the smell of his bag and fish and chips he bought to bring home with him.
Bus drivers are notorious for expecting trouble off teenagers and kicking them off at the drop of a hat. Invariably my son tends to walk as much as possible and only really uses the bus during inclement weather.
Under the circumstances I think the children where I live should be entitled to free transport as well, seeing as they are so easily thrown off.
I have loads of friends that found each other via swinging. Some are dating, some are in long term and some are living together or married. It would be more surprising to me if they didn't as it is very difficult to not get emotionally involved with someone that you spend a lot of time with and if you are attracted to them as well, things happen.
I guess really it all depends on how much time you have to commit to the person and what your predicatment is. Respect is a huge thing and this should always be shown in the way you treat people and swing. However, if two people are single and become close, why shouldn't they go on to the next step together?
Well it's been a week since I met this guy and I seem to be turning into an evil bitch. He says I'm a natural. This concerns me slightly as I always thought I was nice, but I guess I am going by his reaction, which eggs on the next comment.
He I would say at this point is the real McCoy, but of course we will see for sure as time goes by.
I also treat people the way I wish to be treated, but am generally neutral whe first meeting someone as for me respect needs to be earnt in the same way contempt does. There are very few people in this world that I hold in contempt though, whereas there are a lot of people I respect.
My son gave me my stretch marks so if anything could be done about them then I would have it done. I might have had something done to my nose when I was younger, but I can't be bothered now.
I have had laser treatment on my eyes and went from short sighted to perfect vision and have had for 7 years now. I am glad I had it done.
Needs a violet wand to join her in that picture, zap zap!
There are loads of virgins on swinging sites. Men that just don't have the bottle to ask someone they know think that women that are highly sexed are more likely to go for it.
I've actually had this scenario and it was awful as the guy didn't tell me until the point that the condom kept making him go soft lol. I must have got through a bagfull trying with determination to keep it in the right frame of mind lol.
I probably lost a stone that night and as he had no idea of what he was meant to do I doubt either of us got what we wanted.
Oh and the worse bit was when he cried at the train station because he didn't want to leave me.
Ummm... nope, not something I wish to repeat.
Has the most glorious ass I've seen in a long time *puckers up*
I think it is a factor for many people, although certainly it would not erradicate divorce if it was abolished. My marriage like keeno decayed due to not being the people we thought we were when we first got together. We just didn't like each other.
I think everything goes full circle eventually and it is bound to come back round again to be the norm, although I doubt in our life time.
Would it be better? If everyone is more open minded with it and we don't have to feel the need to keep it from our children and our parents, maybe, although as you say, the idea of doing something does add a little to the flavour of it all.
