I completely agree that this is very annoying and it’s wrong and gives all guys a bad name however, I will be honest and say the amount of messages I have sent that are completely the opposite to this and still get no response whatsoever is also very annoying so, it does work both ways.
Sometimes I feel like not writing as much as I do because I know that only the very very very occasional person will actually yes I do appreciate that some people get a lot of messages…