i believe that the court made the right choice.
firstly, it is not the same as her already being pregnat and him expecting her to have a termination, he allowed it to be done for FUTURE use, had the only option to him been for it to happen straight away, then he may not have agreed at all.
so he was not agreeing to make a baby , he was agreeing to have the option of making a baby in the future! rather than being like asking soomeone to have a termination, its like someone agreeing to get you pregnant, then not turning up on the day you are fertile! a whole different situation.
they made an agreement that they would have the embryos frozen for future use, and that either of them could back out at any point.
she went ahead knowing that he ( like her) had the choice to change his mind. you can not agree to something whilst it suits you, ut then expect the rules changed because they dont suit you any more.
the reason the embryos were frozen was so that they had the option of having a child in the future.
had mr johnston been told at the time that he would not be allowed to change his mind, then there is a big chance that he would not have gone ahead with it in the first place, so of course he has the right to change his mind.
i liken it to any man sying to his partner "lets have a child together in the future" and then them taking steps so as to not rule out them being able to do it. no one would then say to a guy walking down the street "oh, you are out of order for changing you mind and not going and impregnating you ex girlfriend" so why should this man be treat differently, just because his ex was gojng to be impregnated in a different way.
all the people who are saying the court was wrong, what about if it had been the other way round, a man forcing a woman to have a child with him because she promised to at an earlier time, i could agree to have a child with my partner and then go about making the right steps ie, coming off the pill etc, but just makeing teps towards making it possible does not take away my right to change my mind at any point up untill it happens. and should anyone ever try to take away that right of a woman to change her mind, i would imagine there would be public uproar, so i feel we should extend that same courtessy to men when they choose to change their mind.
its extremely sad for nathalie, and i have a lot of sympathy for her, but not as much sympathy as i would have for anyone who was forced to become a parent against their will. he does not have a responsibility to have a child with someone just because they have no other options and i would hope that the courts would never take away someones right to choose not to be a parent.
it is not him who has stopped her being a parent, its the illness that she had and no one can be blamed for that.
if people are saying that because he is her only chance, that should mean he has to go ahead, where do we draw the line with that?
should we all have to undergo mandatory blood tests to see if we are suitable kidney donars for people on the transplant list, and if we happen to be their only chance, we are forced to give them?
people may think that is a bit of an extreme reaction, but its only one step further than teling someone they have to give a child to someone because they are the only chance the preson has.
i dont know the man in question, i guess there is a chance that he is doing it to spite her, none of us will ever know the truth, only he will. but for the sake of all of our rights, i would rather he spited her, than she took away his human rights.
this has turned into a right rant on my part ll, sorry to anyone who has read through all of it. its just something that i feel very strongly about.
i am now upto question 72!!!! its really starting to tell1 my eyes are blood shot lol
i have spent a large part of two whole days trying to do this, when you fail you get sent right back to the very start, its driving me mad, but i refuse to give up.
i keep failing at question 61.
if anyone else famncies taking on a new addiction its............
if you get past 61, let me know!!!!
anything is better than football!!!
i often daydream about ways to inflict pain on a person i hate ( and i mean hate).
i would offer some suggestions, but i think you would all steer clear of me afterwards lol.
i admit that i can be a bitch at times, i dont mean to but sometimes things slip out.
the only thing i can say in my defence is that i dont normally mean it, and if i do, its because i have a reason and in those cases would happily tell the person to their face anyway
wbb
x
i am on holls
:happy: :smile2:
so have had quite a productive few days, anyway, i soent this morning organising and ordering tonguey to open packets of love heart sweets ( something to do with the W occasion lol) and sorting them out. anyway, we had way over bought and found we had loads and loads spare(maybe a couple of hundred).
there are only so many sweets you can eat without being sic so i neeed to think of a use for them.
i thought about making them up into sentences and sending them instead of letters, but with the new royal mail prices, that may not be cost effective lol.
i need to ask you geniuses for some tips and ideas.
if anyone thinks of something outstanding , you will be rewarded greatly( with love hearts lol).
WBB
xxx
mine came today, i opened it on the way out to work and had a surprise as i was not expecting it.
was something to vheer me up as i was travelling through the rain though,
i got the orange truffle one. have to see i dont overly rate it, but choccy is still choccy aint it.
i will bring some girlie porn and chocolate body paint
14th is best for me.
wwwoooohoooooooooo
me for sure!!!!!!!!!!!
ooooh this is so exciting!!!!!
i will bring some lush massage bars and some choccy.
( maybe some batteries too :twisted: )
i wpu;ld love a cup of tea with you, just hope the kiettle boiling is not too loud, or i might not hear the doorbell!!!!
i am in two minds what i believe tbh.
i have never experienced it myself but have no reason to disbelieve other peoples experiences.
i think if it was me though i would be frightened.
the only spirits in my house live in bottles on a kitchen shelf!
i just might be able to make this!!!!!!
do let me know the night and area, and i will see about persuading im indoors to give me some cash and a lift there!
we are not jealous, no were not, not even in the slightest! nope, not us!!!!!!!!!!!!
g;ad yu are having a great time
xx
well i have a theory that the loudness of the scream would be in direct proportion to the number of hairs ripped out, so i think your plan would work.
right, i have been thinking, we should do something fun here.
and you all know me, i dont like to do things by halfs.
i have decided to do a competition, no idea what the prize will be yet but it will be something better than nothing lol.
i need some ideas for how it will work though, one of my ideas was to guess the amount of pubes on tonguey or something, to make sure it was fair i would count them myself and pluck each one out as it was counted to make sure it was only counted once!
any better ideas?????