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well_busty_babe
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 46
Straight Male, 61
0 miles · Staffordshire

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i am going to put a disclamier in my sig.
not responsible for wasted days off or missing assignments! lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
i believe that the court made the right choice.
firstly, it is not the same as her already being pregnat and him expecting her to have a termination, he allowed it to be done for FUTURE use, had the only option to him been for it to happen straight away, then he may not have agreed at all.
so he was not agreeing to make a baby , he was agreeing to have the option of making a baby in the future! rather than being like asking soomeone to have a termination, its like someone agreeing to get you pregnant, then not turning up on the day you are fertile! a whole different situation.
they made an agreement that they would have the embryos frozen for future use, and that either of them could back out at any point.
she went ahead knowing that he ( like her) had the choice to change his mind. you can not agree to something whilst it suits you, ut then expect the rules changed because they dont suit you any more.
the reason the embryos were frozen was so that they had the option of having a child in the future.
had mr johnston been told at the time that he would not be allowed to change his mind, then there is a big chance that he would not have gone ahead with it in the first place, so of course he has the right to change his mind.
i liken it to any man sying to his partner "lets have a child together in the future" and then them taking steps so as to not rule out them being able to do it. no one would then say to a guy walking down the street "oh, you are out of order for changing you mind and not going and impregnating you ex girlfriend" so why should this man be treat differently, just because his ex was gojng to be impregnated in a different way.
all the people who are saying the court was wrong, what about if it had been the other way round, a man forcing a woman to have a child with him because she promised to at an earlier time, i could agree to have a child with my partner and then go about making the right steps ie, coming off the pill etc, but just makeing teps towards making it possible does not take away my right to change my mind at any point up untill it happens. and should anyone ever try to take away that right of a woman to change her mind, i would imagine there would be public uproar, so i feel we should extend that same courtessy to men when they choose to change their mind.
its extremely sad for nathalie, and i have a lot of sympathy for her, but not as much sympathy as i would have for anyone who was forced to become a parent against their will. he does not have a responsibility to have a child with someone just because they have no other options and i would hope that the courts would never take away someones right to choose not to be a parent.
it is not him who has stopped her being a parent, its the illness that she had and no one can be blamed for that.
if people are saying that because he is her only chance, that should mean he has to go ahead, where do we draw the line with that?
should we all have to undergo mandatory blood tests to see if we are suitable kidney donars for people on the transplant list, and if we happen to be their only chance, we are forced to give them?
people may think that is a bit of an extreme reaction, but its only one step further than teling someone they have to give a child to someone because they are the only chance the preson has.
i dont know the man in question, i guess there is a chance that he is doing it to spite her, none of us will ever know the truth, only he will. but for the sake of all of our rights, i would rather he spited her, than she took away his human rights.
this has turned into a right rant on my part ll, sorry to anyone who has read through all of it. its just something that i feel very strongly about.
obviosly i can do upto where i am stuck at, so bribes by pm welcome! lol
sorry everyone! honest, i did not mean for you all to get as addicted as i am ! lol
i have spent a large part of two whole days trying to do this, when you fail you get sent right back to the very start, its driving me mad, but i refuse to give up.
i keep failing at question 61.
if anyone else famncies taking on a new addiction its............

if you get past 61, let me know!!!!
as this had been "bumped" i may as well add to it lol
if anyone said they can maybe come, and knows they cant, please let me know , also, if you are def able to come now, please let me know.
its at the stage now where i am doing the ".... weeks till we fly out, ... weeks till the wedding day and ... weeks till the reception" thing, i am ever so excited,i am also more organised than i thought possible.
i know this is a lets meets up, not a diary, but its my thread and i am going to tell you anyway lol.
we have bought nearly all the wedding stuff we need to take away with us already, all the paperwork and stuff is sorted, flowers, photographer and stuff for abroad is sorted, all flights accomodation and fees for overseas have been paid in full, most of the reception stuff (not the food - that would be silly wouldnt it!!!! lol) have been paid for and or picked up/delivered. most of the littlefiddly things i have to put together/make/find have been done.
guest list is full of fab peeps lol
its all great! i am happy, the sun is shining.
as you were! lol
i often daydream about ways to inflict pain on a person i hate ( and i mean hate).
i would offer some suggestions, but i think you would all steer clear of me afterwards lol.
i admit that i can be a bitch at times, i dont mean to but sometimes things slip out.
the only thing i can say in my defence is that i dont normally mean it, and if i do, its because i have a reason and in those cases would happily tell the person to their face anyway
wbb
x
i am on holls
:happy: :smile2:
so have had quite a productive few days, anyway, i soent this morning organising and ordering tonguey to open packets of love heart sweets ( something to do with the W occasion lol) and sorting them out. anyway, we had way over bought and found we had loads and loads spare(maybe a couple of hundred).
there are only so many sweets you can eat without being sic so i neeed to think of a use for them.
i thought about making them up into sentences and sending them instead of letters, but with the new royal mail prices, that may not be cost effective lol.
i need to ask you geniuses for some tips and ideas.
if anyone thinks of something outstanding , you will be rewarded greatly( with love hearts lol).
WBB
xxx
mine came today, i opened it on the way out to work and had a surprise as i was not expecting it.
was something to vheer me up as i was travelling through the rain though,
i got the orange truffle one. have to see i dont overly rate it, but choccy is still choccy aint it.
me for sure!!!!!!!!!!!
ooooh this is so exciting!!!!!
i will bring some lush massage bars and some choccy.
( maybe some batteries too :twisted: )
no, i am not excessively noisey, but my bed does squeek, so ........
.... i might not hear the doorbell! lol
i wpu;ld love a cup of tea with you, just hope the kiettle boiling is not too loud, or i might not hear the doorbell!!!!
its my day off today, but we have a few deliveries coming so i cant leave the house!
i cant listen to music as - i wouldnt hear the door bell ring lol
i could read but i normally fall asleep when i am relaxed reading - so i wouldnt hear the door bell!
i could have a nice relaxing bat, but the bathroom is the furthest point from the front entrance, - so i wouldnt hear the door bell.
i could chat on the phone, but guess what................ i might not hear the door bell!!! lol
#so, you lot will just have to put up with me!!!!
i am in two minds what i believe tbh.
i have never experienced it myself but have no reason to disbelieve other peoples experiences.
i think if it was me though i would be frightened.
the only spirits in my house live in bottles on a kitchen shelf!
i just might be able to make this!!!!!!
do let me know the night and area, and i will see about persuading im indoors to give me some cash and a lift there!
we are not jealous, no were not, not even in the slightest! nope, not us!!!!!!!!!!!!
g;ad yu are having a great time
xx
i just went to vote on this, and i was already voted!
can i be the first one to bring up vote corruption? i thik mallock or dawn have hacked into peoples accounts and voted for themselves. evil mad :shock: surprised
well i have a theory that the loudness of the scream would be in direct proportion to the number of hairs ripped out, so i think your plan would work.
right, i have been thinking, we should do something fun here.
and you all know me, i dont like to do things by halfs.
i have decided to do a competition, no idea what the prize will be yet but it will be something better than nothing lol.
i need some ideas for how it will work though, one of my ideas was to guess the amount of pubes on tonguey or something, to make sure it was fair i would count them myself and pluck each one out as it was counted to make sure it was only counted once!
any better ideas?????
Quote by Corrie2007
Send out a list of food you want proveded and I will make sure I bring right things along - thats not a problem WBB - sure others will too xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
and Marcuso is soooo not normal lol :lol: :lol:

no worries about the food babes, am gonna get it all sorted the couple of days between getting home from my honeymoon and the party, but thanks ever so much for offering.
xx
kiss to sarah, i THINK i have had an idea what i can do with it, i might have it made into a skirt and top, so they can cut the length from the middle iyswim.
its not ideal and its sad that it wont be the dress i wanted, but its better than nothing i guess.
am going to try and get an appt for somewhere next weekend and see how much they charge and what they can suggest, otherwise i might go with my idea and get the motherinlaw to help
thankyou everyone for your help
hyah, its me again.
we really are overwhelmed by how many of our friends want to come to our party. we really cant wait to see you all there.
the only thing is, the venue we have hired will be way too full if we have anymore , so we have to say no to everyone else now, sorry.
also, you are all greedy feckers and we cant afford to feed more than 80 of you lol lol
thanks everyone! thankyou for trying to think of ideas to help. i have emailed a pic of a very similar dress to the people who have asked, so if anyone can think of an idea, then i really would appreciate it. when you see the shape and detail, you will see where the problem with it being altered may come in.
i know people prob think its stupid to be so upset over a dress, but i am just feeling really down and sad right now and this ontop of it all has made me really emotional, so i am sorry. kiss
xx
i would not exactly call it a fettish, but i did have a penchant for silver gel pens, have grown out of it now though lol :lol: