i have a face pic on my profile tis the same one as my avatar, the reason i have it is that i'm quite proud of it...I had it done about 2 yrs ago an a pro shoot. However after reading the comments on this post I'm seriously considering removing it, I'm not bothered about people recognising me or anything like that as i have no time for people who feel they can comment on my lifestyle with prior stereotypical judgements.. tis jus that a few of the comments have made me think that perhaps i should move into private.
Hmmm
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whiplash
3 weeks ago
Bisexual Female, 56
0 miles · Saint Helens
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Quote by blonde
Like i said was just wonderin wot ova peeps do to keep themselves busy
I am busy looking for a new budgie .......... someone, who shall be nameless, murdered mine!
:x :x 
It gets easier!Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i soooo did not murder ya budgie i jus took the rap for it
:shock:Quote by Sara_2006
'fat slapper' a bit of advice for post break up .............. get on with living for you now not some sad git that was obviously not good enough for you and also didnt realise what he would lose...... be strong and lean on your friends when you need to ..... you have my number hun use it at any time (the worst i will say is p*** off its 3am) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
thanks old tart ya a gem may put ya to the test one morning at daft o clock jus to see if you really only tell me to p*** off lol
I found myself wondering this earlier as i was doing what i do after a break up... Having been in a relationship for over 4 years i sadly find myself single.
Having done the crying n existing on nothing but cigarettes & alcohol I suddenly realised that my bathroom needed decorating lol, halfway through i realised that on previous break-ups my house has benefitted enormously...last time twas the bedroom, lounge n kitchen (geez that must have been a bad one), this time tis been the bathroom i did that in 1 1/2 days n have jus started on the downstairs loo.
So it looks like i have wot maybe another 12 hrs work (carpet fitting is not one of my forte's n neither is rehanging doors think the pops may be roped in for that one) n then i have to think hmmm where else can i tackle , maybe the kids will benefit lol.
Like i said was just wonderin wot ova peeps do to keep themselves busy either conciously or un-conciously n no i aint for hire lol
Having done the crying n existing on nothing but cigarettes & alcohol I suddenly realised that my bathroom needed decorating lol, halfway through i realised that on previous break-ups my house has benefitted enormously...last time twas the bedroom, lounge n kitchen (geez that must have been a bad one), this time tis been the bathroom i did that in 1 1/2 days n have jus started on the downstairs loo.
So it looks like i have wot maybe another 12 hrs work (carpet fitting is not one of my forte's n neither is rehanging doors think the pops may be roped in for that one) n then i have to think hmmm where else can i tackle , maybe the kids will benefit lol.
Like i said was just wonderin wot ova peeps do to keep themselves busy either conciously or un-conciously n no i aint for hire lol
i very rarely get approached when at clubs, its usually me that has to do the approaching, I dont have a problem with doing this but sometimes jus sometimes it gets a tad tiresome.
I see a lot of peeps have added to the thread that they have low self esteem or low confidence I think maybe you just think you have as as we all know it takes a hell of a lot of confidence to enter a swinging club for the 1st time so please dont put yourselves down ladies, you probably all ooze the stuff.
As for myself i had zero confidence whilst growin up as i was lucky if i weighed 6 stone wet throu bein 5' 8" this was not a good look to have but as i've got older i not only learned to live with it but realised bein unable to gain weight had its advantages. I must admit tho at certain times bein unapproached leaves me feeling unapproachable (does that make sense lol) n occasionally makes me feel like when i was young, n then i get back to 'real' life n i'm ok again.
I dont think anybody is too stunning to swing as everybody finds different people attractive, age shape size etc
I see a lot of peeps have added to the thread that they have low self esteem or low confidence I think maybe you just think you have as as we all know it takes a hell of a lot of confidence to enter a swinging club for the 1st time so please dont put yourselves down ladies, you probably all ooze the stuff.
As for myself i had zero confidence whilst growin up as i was lucky if i weighed 6 stone wet throu bein 5' 8" this was not a good look to have but as i've got older i not only learned to live with it but realised bein unable to gain weight had its advantages. I must admit tho at certain times bein unapproached leaves me feeling unapproachable (does that make sense lol) n occasionally makes me feel like when i was young, n then i get back to 'real' life n i'm ok again.
I dont think anybody is too stunning to swing as everybody finds different people attractive, age shape size etc
seem to remember a post on this topic from a few months back, think the anklet wearing re swinging is about as true as if you have pampas grass in the front garden it means you are a swinger. My other half wears an anklet n has pampas grass in her front garden so thats her well n truly outed to the neighbours if thats the case :shock:
:rose:We are a 'couple that live apart' mainly through work but also from personal choice, as has been mentioned by other people before, we like our personal space to be able to be our own person & relax in our own surroundings.
In honesty Chelle found the idea of living apart quite difficult to comprehend & still does at times, no long term plans to look forward to & plan for, although in reality we too know that we could never live together on a day to day basis without killing each other.
We see each other most weekends & try to make the most of the time we spend together which in itself is difficult with 4 children between us.
To be honest flower as long as you are both still committed to each other & love & respect that person & can be there for them when your needed then it really does not matter what label you want to put on yourselves or anyone else for that matter.
Be happy!!!
oh n btw read your 'oh bugger' post yup that happened to us after last years 'family holiday' too
In honesty Chelle found the idea of living apart quite difficult to comprehend & still does at times, no long term plans to look forward to & plan for, although in reality we too know that we could never live together on a day to day basis without killing each other.
We see each other most weekends & try to make the most of the time we spend together which in itself is difficult with 4 children between us.
To be honest flower as long as you are both still committed to each other & love & respect that person & can be there for them when your needed then it really does not matter what label you want to put on yourselves or anyone else for that matter.
Be happy!!!
oh n btw read your 'oh bugger' post yup that happened to us after last years 'family holiday' too
