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willxx69
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 62
Bisexual Female, 59
0 miles · Wiltshire

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Evening All,
I've been meaning to come and open the old bar up for ages. I think it's been a while.
How lovely to see my old friends Mr & Mrs FC in here last night! :shock: So sorry I missed them - it would have been great to have renewed acquaintances :rascal:
So then, what can I get you all? Think I'll have a large glass of red (some Portuguese on the go at the moment - just for a change) while I think of a cocktail to mix. If you have suggestions for a cocktail then please let me know. I'll try anything once innocent
Will :cheers:
Vodka & RB it is.
Can I help with your lab report? My A-levels were Physics, Chemistry and Biology. Mind you, that was a little while ago.
Will xx
OK, I know it's a little late for a Sunday evening, but I've been meaning to open up the bar for a while now.
I have some chilled Sauvignon Blanc and Rose (White Zinfandel), we have some Merlot breathing and there's plenty of spirit (if you know what I mean wink).
Tonight's house cocktail is a Sand-Martin (1 measure each of gin and dry vermouth with a teaspoon of Green Chartreuse).
Now, who would care to join me?
Will
First time I've stuck my head round the door of The Forum for weeks, and what do I find? A thread on John Cage. Firstly it shows what a wonderfully eclectic and occasionally rarified place The Forum is...
However, it also gets me started on a personal bete noir of mine. 4'33" is NOT music.
Sorry, in case that wasn't clear. 4'33" is NOT music!!!!!
I've had this discussion with musician friends of mine, many of whom don't agree with me, but I still can't help thinking there is more than a touch of "The Emperor's New Clothes" about this.
Now don't get me wrong. I absolutely accept that silence can be a part of music. There are numerous examples of where a moment's pause in a piece of music can be extremely effective and highly dramatic. Imagine a Shakespeare soliloquy without any pause or punctuation. It would lose it's dramatic impact and be reduced to a meaningless string of words (if anyone is tempted to say that Shakespeare IS a meaningless string of words - I suggest you don't!). Changes in pace and even some silence are the punctuation in music. But JUST silence?
I mean, no musical talent is required to either 'compose' it or to perform it. Somebody with absolutely no musical training or talent could come onto the stage of any concert hall in the world, sit at a piano stall without moving for four minutes and 33 seconds and then, what? Leave to a standing ovation and tumultuous applause? It's bonkers.
Still, on the positive side, as a trained pianist and organist, this is the only piece of music of which I can give a virtuoso performance on ANY instrument. From viols, shawms and sackbuts to drums, bass and theremin I am absolutely bloody note perfect! :smug: Which kind of proves my point. No talent needed.
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Will - rant over, I promise to behave now!
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Bolton: no sign here yet and I'm doing an anti-snow dance to keep it away smile

Now that I would like to see - and it has nothing to do with wanting to keep the snow away :rascal:
We've had quite a bit of snow here (Wiltshire) this morning. Enough to settle, but not enough to stop us doing anything. About to take the little ones out for a walk in it - but the skies look as though there more to come. Sappho will be staying here in the warm I expect.
I too have bought everything home from work in case I can't make it down to Soutampton on Monday.
Will
Do you know, I've never been certified - and I'm quite sure I'm certifiable.
Will
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<snip> It kinda makes "nurture" a huge factor in their upbringing. If they were to act in an identical manner they may feel that they had to compete for your attention, but by acting completely differently they are able to split your attentions equally ...
Clever children ....... and by the sound of it .... good parents lol
It all made sense to me ....I think I could carry on writing for rather a long time on this particular subject wink

Well, they have been different since a few weeks old - long before they could have worked out how to do it to get attention - though, of course, that could be instinctive.
Then, of course their little brother is only 17 months younger than them so has been brought up alongside them - and he is very different again!
In short they are all little inidividuals and it's fascinating to watch their personalities develop.
I suspect we have years of interesting challenges and developments ahead of us.
Will
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My husband smile :) :)
Wasn't expecting to see a post from you just yet. Hope yesterday was fab - and seeing you on here has made me smile!
Will
Mmmm, interesting thread (as many of Lost's are :thumbupsmile.
I agree with Foxy when she says that it's a mixture. The argument about siblings being different is sometimes explained by the 'nurture over nature' supporters by using arguments along the lines of you are more experienced with your later children and therefore more relaxed etc.. This means that, unintentionally, you bring them up differently. I have even heard that whether it was a 'good' or a 'bad' pregnancy can make a difference.
Being the father of twin girls I can utterly refute this. Importantly, they are non-identical twins, so genetically they are merely sisters. However, being twins, they obviously had the same pregnancy in terms of 'good' or 'bad' and levels of stress etc. From a purely practical point of view they have been fed precisely the same food at precisely the same times and had exactly the same regime when it comes to bathtime, bedtime etc.. In short, they have been brought up identically and yet they are totally different - and have been since they were only a few weeks old.
One is totally pink and fluffy and as girly as a girly thing can be and seems to have no interest in books and reading - despite this being a very bookish household. The other is passionate about books and writing and simply refuses to wear a dress or skirt under any circumstances (we have had to buy her grey trousers for school). Where does that come from? Their own personality and, as parents, the greatest thing we can do is to let them be themselves.
Of course we DO impose certain values on them. They are brought up to be polite and considerate and tolerant of others, because those are the values that we believe are important. That is a deliberate policy and represents the 'nurture' part of the equation. We know we are imposing our chosen values on them and that is our right and responsibility as parents. We also need to give them the freedom (within those boundaries) to develop as human beings and to become their own people.
Recently, they were at 'Rainbows' (a junior version of the Brownies) and it was decided to plaster them all in make up. Our tomboy-ish twin refused (and we were not even present at the time) because she simply didn't want to do that. She was the only girl who didn't want to be made up and at only 5 years of age that showed a level of individuality that I had to admire. Her pink and fluffy sister jumped at the chance. That's part of their naure, not their nurture.
Who we are is a combination of our own inate personality and the environment we are brought up in and the values that are instilled in us at home and at school. So a combination of nature and nurture.
Will
We would really like to get into the club scene (or at least try it out) but haven't managed to yet. Therefore, for us, the ideal way is to meet up for a drink and a chat and see how we get on. If we seem to click then we are likely to arange a further meet with something more devilish in mind. Playing at home would be fine for us if we could make arrangements for the children to be away. Failing that then visiting someone at their home is fine - unless we all decide that an hotel is preferable.
Will
Home alone with the children today - so definitely in need of a cheeky (if only virtual)drink.
Anyone care to join me?
Will
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He's too busy worring about BJ's!! :giggle:

What are those? Can't remember :giggle:
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[Will, I come here quite a bit..... pay attention!

Sorry redface surprisedops:
I guess I ought to come in more often then! :doh:
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I would prefer them not to, given that I would then not see the cum shot.
However, for the sake of not been considered selfish, on many times they have.
Some can, easily. Others, can't however hard anyone tried. Guess it's one of those damned individual differences again.
Blow job game, anyone? :-)
Blimey - where did you spring from? :shock:
How lovely to see you back in here kiss . The average IQ of the forum has just shot up! I must say, seeing your name on a thread brings back some very happy memories of when I first joined. Hope to be seeing you in here for some time to come.
Will - who now has a strangely warm glow (oh, and apologies for the hijack redface)
I think many ladies (though not those posting on this thread, it would seem) under-estimate just how much us guys love being on the receiving end of a great BJ.
Personally, I think it is one of the essential parts of foreplay. Not only does it feel wonderful but watching it, especially when there is eye contact with a naughty glint, is hugely erotic.
Oh, and to answer the original question, yes a blow job can certainly be enough!
Will
Blimey, I wasn't expecting a scrum at the bar :shock:
FB - You know I can refuse you nothing, so a LARGE glass of White grenache coming right up (I never see the point of small glasses of wine)!
Snowballs with cherries? No wonder they call you Flower! :giggle: Only teasing - coming right up - oh and it's Advocaat with a special kick to it wink
Tweeky - teas are in the cafe round the corner! rolleyes lol
DG - one LARGE glass of beautifully chilled white. What do you mean 'you can't give it away'? You haven't even asked (like you'd have to) :twisted:
Foxy - A Baileys and a small, dainty plate of assorted pralines. Enjoy.
PK - Of course you can have a cocktail. Any particular request? (PS Getting nervous yet?)
Now then, who's next?
Will
It's Saturday night, I have my laptop back from the repairers (picked it up this morning :happysmile, so I think a celebratory libation or two may be in order.
Now then, who can I tempt first?
Will
PS Honestly, this isn't all I do, but it seems to be expected of me and I do enjoy it.
I would have done Friday drinks, Sarah, but my laptop died last night! evil
So I took it down to the tender mercies of the local computer shop. It's not a complicated job, but I don't have the right disks here. Very annoying. To make matters worse, I'm away on business all week. Four nights away from home - and no laptop! T'riffic! Though it might give me the opportunity to while away a few hours a member or two from here. innocent
I definitely think that a drink is called for.
Glad you poured yourself a Cahors flower. I have a large G&T with ice and lime. Now what can I get the rest of you?
Will
Hi All,
I will be in the Southampton area all next week (18th to 21st October). If anyone would like to meet then please get in touch.
look forward to hearing from you.
Will
Normally I skip breakfast. Yes, I know I shouldn't but at the moment I have a one and a half hour journey to work so I usually just get showered, dressed and go.
Sometimes, if I'm feeling peckish I will get a bowl of museli and milk from the coffee shop at work. On a Friday, I will sometimes have a bacon or sausage sandwich instead (or, if I fancy a real treat a bacon AND sausage sandwich).
Weekends, either nothing or Weetabix with dried fruit instead of sugar (oh, don't I sound healthy, lol).
Christmas Day - I'm with funcouple, we always have smoked salmon and scrambled eggs, though I have to admit that we have a glass of champagne instead of OJ (Sappho has a Bucks Fizz). Hmmm, that's blown the healthy image :doh:
Foxylady - one of the twins loves leftover crumble for breakfast too. Must be a girl thing!
Will
Feeling peckish now - must be time to check the roast beef :P
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...and where do you think you're going? That was just the starter, now for the main course!! :rascal:
Will :twisted:
How about Sauvignon Blanc poured over your breasts and sucked off your nipples....
...errmmmmm, perhaps we should take this somewhere private! :rascal:
Will
A nice bubbly hot tub it is then - and some other bubbly to go with it!:rascal:
Will
Sorry - I'm fraid I can't stand it. However, I usually get drawn into each year because Sappho and Sappho Jr are ardent fans and there is only so far I can go to avoid it.
The worst bit is the terribly cheesy choreography. Frankly, most of X-factor offends my musical senisibilities.*
Will
* Though there are saving graces in the form of Danni Minogue and contestants like Leona Lewis and Alexandra Burke :twisted:
Ahhh, my most reliable customer passionkiss
Now, then what can I get you? A nice Malbec, some chilled Sauvignon Blanc or a cheeky little cocktail?
Now then, how about a nice massage or a relaxing time in the hot tub?
Will
* Will warms up his hands in anticipation *