A 'mature' (I hate that term...makes me sound like a piece of cheese or bottle of port) gentleman. Cheeky and twinkly would best describe me, love the company of women...men are such bores. A professional designer...so the least you would get from striking up a friendship is free design for your home. Have no taboos but accept others limits and preferences.

Enjoy writing and lecturing (professional papers) and use these talents(?) in erotic scribbles and exchange with two or three 'girlfriends'. No pressure or commitments ...just similar minded friendships...if it grows fantastic...but you won't know unless you write..give it a whirl.