For many years I have been trying to take her arse cherry , why? More why not ! after all porno movies seem to ‘ luv it ‘

All joking aside but after 14 years of marriage, sex becomes a tick sheet so spicing it up seems logical and playing away is a no no .

After buying a realistic dildo which I thought would act as a 3rd party and lubing her up during foreplay I try her back door only to get knocked back - too rough - too big  -  you wouldn't want it etc.

you wouldn't want it struck a cord - how can I ask for something if I don’t know if it hurts etc .

A quiet day home alone , I lubed up my arse and bent in front of the mirror , viewing my brown star stretching as I pulled my arse cheeks wider - never really looked at an arse before

I took the dildo and placed it on the hole - pre cum dribbling from my cock

I pushed the dildo into the hole  - slightly painful burn- 6 inches in? - no only one inch! - I took it out re lube and lube some more -

Pushing in again - a leg on the bed and pop! it slid in easier - my cock bouncing with excitement dripping almost constant,

I removed the dildo, and re inserted it - too easy, perhaps my arse has de -formed now will I walk straight all stupid thoughts ,

I stood up straight - with tail end of dildo poking out of my butt, waddled to the wooden chair and sat down still with dildo hanging in there.

The rubber end of dildo stuck nicely to the wooden seat and I could rise and fall onto the phallic symbol as gentle or fast as I wanted   

Im dribbling now just recalling the event and thinking whether im bi or just a kinky sod .

Now this is how it started

Getting the wife to dildo my arse

She love oral , most ladies do

I lubed up my arse before play time and bring out the toys early -

Started the usual kissing and nibbles and 69 , but pushing the dildo near her, she rubs it on my balls and near my arse - so I pushed back  and it slid in a little , much to her shock , still holding it, I pushed back a bit more , she removed it and  re inserted it , I played with her clit and the more she got excited the faster she fucked my arsehole

Licking her clit , my arse in the air and dildo being hammered in my back door , till she gushes

No I have not taking her cherry yet , cant rush these things so im told

But another kink in our love life for now

Perhaps a threesome will be MMF not FFM  as I always imagined