Getting over to Amsterdam for a bit of last minute Xmas shopping and after years of fantasising in the bedroom of gang bangs and watching videos I find that my wife had thought I had taken her over specially for a 'fantasy experience' when in fact I had taken her over for a bit of shopping!! - But I wondered how far she would go and so I talked aout a swingers club I knew of and perhaps we could go over there....she was up for it - although apprehensive of the quality of males that would be there - could we perhaps stand outside and see who went in she suggested. The whe slipped into the bathroom and came bak with a skimpy outfit and asked if was suitable...at that point I knew she was serious! Whilst walking around the red light district I suggested that who go to a porno theatre if we couldn't find 'the club' and that I would expect her to play with someone there. She was non-commital saying "we'll see what happens". The first cinema in the heart fo the red light district had so many vagabonds outside - I didn't like the idea of going in ...so we walked away from the ain district towards Lediseplein where there are 2 cinemas opposite eachother. Going into one of them we paid our 12 euro's and went in. She sat by the wall and me beside her and another man beside me (3 seats to that row only). It wasn't a big theatre with perhaps 20 seats in total and 8 men watching. My wife suggested she change places with me which we did. At this point the man now sitting next to her promptly got up and left! The film had finished but was showing clips of other films - plenty of my favourite action - dp! Within minutes a young man had sat next to my wife and was playing with himself - I'm not quite sure, but I think he came form the seats behind us - and obviously was quick thinking! Wy wife told me what he was doing and I just said 'help him'. She did - and I think he was expecting this - because he was soon kissing her and fingering her - she turned and said to me 'he wants me to suck him' but by this time a number of the other men were now paying attention to her snogging and playing with this mans prick - and I became very nervous of the situation - I felt the situation going out of control - I knew my wife was now so far gone she would succumb to any suggestion - but being in that situation where others might demand more from her and neither myself or her being able to fend them off was getting a little scary. So I said 'lets go'. We moved to the hallway where the young aman followed and asked us to go upstairs where there was a 2nd screen apparently - but I said no and we walked out. Now going 200 yards down the street my wife said 'we could have taken him back to the hotel' after a few minutes longer I stopeed and siad 'shall we go back and see if he's still there?' and she wanted to - so we walked back - and on the pretext of leaving my wallet behind I went in again and sure enough, the man was still there and I beckoned him over. He agreed to go back to the hotel and we walked back towards the Central Station where our hotel was. Apparently he was a 25 year old student from Israel also working - but he looked pleasant and clean. Odd thing thoug - outside the hotel he he pulled me to one side and said ' I can't have full sex' to which I just said -' don't worry -you do what you like'. Iside the bedroom and he popped into the shower whilst I told my wife to get undressed while I popped outside for a few minutes (in anticipation!). I came back a few minutes later to see him lying on the bed with my wife sucking his cock. Oddly enough, I coudl get a hard on - this was my fantasy for years, and when it happened, I wasn't particularly turned on. I took of my clothes and tried to give my wife a roasting - me coming up from behind - but I was stiff enough to penetrate her. And then, she said she wanted to ride one of us - well I wasn't up to performing - so I suggested she ride his cock - but when she tried - he wouldn't let her. He pulled her up and I thought he was fucking her whilt standing - but in fact he was rubbing himself against her cunt until he quickly came. If was after wards he explained (pathetic explanation under the cirumstances really) that he was a Muslim and wanted to keep himself 'pure' for his wife - he'd had 3 girlfriends but not had penetrative sex with any of them!!! He left without any embarrasment on any of our part - which was good - and after going for a meal - we went into a few more porn shops and selected a new vibator for my wife. It was then that the fantsy kicked in again and I got a hard on and with the vibrator managed to dp my wife and made her come fully. In retrospect, we both felt disappointed with that exprience - me because I wasn't turned on at the time of the action , and my wife because his cock didn't have a proper bell end - which she found a let down. I woke up in the early hours of the morning with a hard on and we had a good fuck with me saying 'I wish I'd seen you service all the men in the cinema' (fantasy kicking in again). The next day I asked after lunch whether she wanted to try the first cinema again - leaving the choice purely to her - we had 4 hours to kill before flying back. She wanted to - this time we had kept her vibrator in her handbag to 'help matters' - but again the question of 'quality of men' came up, to which I suggested she ask to have a quick look inside the cinema before commiting ourselves. She agreed, and sure enough the cinema owner didn't object - she went in, and came out again saying it wasn't suitable - too many old men and none she liked the look of - so that was the end of that. But she did agree that we should try one of the swingers clubs in the area - so I am looking into that. I wonder though, if the reality of the next experience will again be a let down for me - I'm sure she'll have a good time - but again, for me, the reality might not live up to the expectation.