When i was married, the ex-wife and I played for a number of years. Most of our experiences were with other couples although we did once play with a single friend of hers and managed to organise a gang-bang. I have posted my particular favourite meets on here. Since being single the only group fun that I have managed to enjoy has been the occassional threesome with my mate and women that one of us have pulled when we've been on a night-out. I seem to be the one who instigates it, my pal doesn't appear to enjoy the group thing as much as me. Well now I have met a woman, someone I've known for years however have just recently started seeing. We have spoken about my previous swinging experiences and she loves the idea of participating in some fun herself however due to weight issues she is fairly insecure, so much so it's only now that she feels comfortable enough to be totally naked in front of me. At first it was just some roll-play and sex talk during sex. she gets really turned-on with the idea of satisfying many extra cocks. She loves it when I'm verbally abusive to her when we're fucking, at first it was me calling her a whore, slut, etc however this has lead to some physical pain such as; hair-grabbing, rough handling, light-bondage, spanking and the occassional light face-slapping. I must admit I've never really been into administering pain however I am willing to explore it further as she enjoys it so much although I'm not quite as confident with it as I would like to be, no doubt it'll get easier with experience. Any advice would be much appreciated. When we're out together I actively encourage her to flirt/grope with other guys but so far that's as far as we've got. Our main fantasy is to eventually allow four, or more, other cocks to enjoy her while I punish her but until we get to that point we shall begin looking for other guys to take part in group sessions. I am still encouraging her to fuck other guys on her own too, I want her to truly be a cock-hungry whore. So wish us luck and any comments would be greatfully received. ggowscot.