We have been married for 6 years. Danielle had a strict upbringing in a religious family. Sex was good if a little formal and predictable. Our relationship was very rewarding in other ways. No matter how much I tried to introduce variety in lovemaking she just did not respond. She never suggested sex, rather waited for me to initiate "that side of things". I am 34 and she is 2 years younger. I have often felt she has built up repression and her reluctance to try something different is rooted in her thinking I might enjoy it at the time but later think of her as "cheap". As my frustration has continued I have trawled the web for people with similar experiences and found this site. The number of men who seem to want to see their wives with another man astonished me, but it also made me consider that Danielle might need a carefree, spontaneous encounter to get her to enjoy the fact that men do find her extremely attractive. She was a virgin when we married, and that has probably reinforced the one dimensional situation. I have agonised over bringing up the subject because I feel she would consider it perverted. Then I got one hell of a surprise 3 weeks ago. She said she was going into town one Thursday night with Jane for a drink, was that ok, I said of course. She declined a lift saying she would take the metro. Ben and Jane were long time friends who lived about 12 miles away, and after she left I ran Ben to ask if he fancied a beer, and I could not believe it when he said he and Jane had people coming over for dinner but was up for it over the weekend. My mind raced and I paced about all evening. I got a phone call just after ten from Danielle saying Jane and another friend were trying to talk her into going clubbing. I nervously asked her if she wanted to and she said maybe for a couple of hours. Although I went to bed at midnight I could not sleep. Finally she arrived home at 2.30. I feigned sleep, and she did not put the light on, I mumbled something and turned away from her. She proceeded to undress and I could see her reflection in the dressing table mirror, my eyes had been adjusted to darkness for over 2 hours and I could not believe as she peeled off her dress she was not wearing a bra. She NEVER went out without a bra!!! When she got into bed I turned over and asked if she had a good time. She said the club was good, great music and dancing. I asked if she had been dancing and she seemed quite eager to tell me that a few guys, all considerably younger than she was had asked her to dance. She had been dancing a lot. I asked how young these fellas were and she said about 23-25, except for one who was 30. When I asked how she knew he was 30 she said one of his younger mates had been teasing him in front of her. She said I also know he is a Rod Stewart fan as his mates were giving him hell about that. She told him she was a massive fan too. He told her he was going to see Rod on Sat, his wife was working in Germany at present and none of his mates wanted to go. Predictably he asked if she wanted the spare ticket. She told him she could not accept as she was married and it would not be right. She snuggled in and gobsmacked me by asking if I wanted sex. I said this was a first and I would love to but I had to get up at 6.30. and it was 3.00.already, so would it keep till tomorrow night. I asked why she was up for it and she admitted the attention from young men was enjoyable and the fact that I was not jealous about it had got her randy. I tried to get to sleep but she was very restless and I said I was going to the guest room as I had to crash. That room is sparated from ours by the bathroom. I was lying in bed with a raging erection and a confused mind. I went to the bathroom but before I put on the light I heard her next door, short breaths and a faint slapping sound, putting my ear next to the wall it was the unmistakeable sound of her masturbating. The rhythym increased and as she climaxed there were restrained whimpers and moans. I could not do anything but go to bed and jack off as my imagination went ballistic. I got up at about 6 and while having breakfast I noticed her handbag, something made me curious, I opened the bag and there was her bra rolled up neatly and a phone no scribbled on a piece of paper. More to follow.