Well here goes, not written anything before so my appoligies in advance. First af all a little about us, i am 51 and my wife is 45 we have been married 25yrs and as my wife was a good catholic lass, there was very little sex before we married and even after we married there has never been as awful lot,twice a week if i was lucky. However it was never too dull as we would sometimes pretend she was fucking someone else which would get us both of, and it has been known for us on a nice summer night to dash out into our back garden with a blanket over ourselves throw it on the ground and fuck like bunny rabbits knowing at any time our neighbours might see us, mmm thinking back, those nights were really hot. But as the years have gone on the fizzle has left a dull sex life, she is not into much foreplay as she cum's too easily and then she just wants me to get on with it and finish,which with no foreplay this can sometimes take a while. She also is not into oral, giving or receiving which is a bummer for me as i love going down on her,when i do try its usually the same old story, "i'm not clean down there" which really does'nt bother me and i tell her but she says she cares. So sittin watching tv two nights ago, i asked her if she would do me a favour, when she replied with "depends what it is", you dont have to do it i say, but i would like you to wash your pussy so that i can orally make you cum, after a bit of thought up she went to the bathroom, she came down with her tshirt still on but a towel wrapped around her waist. When into the bedroom she went to put the light off as usual, i stopped her and said leave it on, she went to argue but i said i need to see what i am doing so she lay on the bed lifted the towel up but kept it up so she did'nt see. what i never told her was i have been reading stories from here and other sites and i read about the Venus butterfly technique to which i started, when it came to sticking one finger in and rubbed her g spot she started climaxing when two fingers were in she came like i have never seen her cum before, her arse lifted up off the bed and her tummy was rippling all over, when she asked me to stop i did but still cupping her pussy in my hand,all in all it took about three minutes, feeling her juices run onto my hand i said "i thought you dont like oral sex i've never seen you cum so hard" to which she replied saying" i don't i just done it for you because you like it", going on to say that she loves me and that she done it for me, so we talked and i asked why she does'nt like it if she cums like that she just said i dont, to which i reply but you have a beautiful tight little pussy ( which by the way was truthful, after 2 kids both adults now, and 25 of marriage she still has the tightest gorgeous little pussy) we talked back and forth so now i know she does'nt feel sexy and really never has, and that since her Hysterectomy a few years ago she hates anyone fiddling or seeing her pussy as it was on display too so many in the months leading up to it, something she has never told me. So Today i came up with a little game to try and help her out of the rut, i asked if she was willing to play a little game for a week to which she replied i know your type of game and i'm not having sex with you every day for a week, i assured her that we would not be having sex every night well not penetrative sex. she said she is not doing it for a week so i got her to go for 4 days. so here it is day one i told her i was going for a shower and when i came back down she was to be dressed in something sexy to which she replied i dont have anything, i told her anything that looked remotely sexy and so that i can get to her lovely tits and pussy without much fuss, i may as well be naked then she says, i took her in my arms and told her this is not just for me but for her, i want you to come out of your shell and feel sexy, she just sighed and i went of for a shower, ten minutes later when i came back down the curtains were drawn and there she was sitting on the settee with a black stringlet top on that just covered her ass and i could see her gorgeous pussy and seen that there was no bra either, well what could i say, i sat down on the settee near her and told her she looked sexy and that there could be other stuff too that she could wear to which she said there was'nt, well no matter baby you look so hot in that and i can see you gorgeous pussy and you know how much i love your tits, she sidled up next to me legs tucked under herself and cuddling into me, i noticed her nipples were hard to which i told her, she said it was because she was nervous to which i replied you know i would never do anything to hurt you, she turned and we started to kiss, not just an everyday kiss but deep and sensual, as we kissed her hands were roaming over my chest and pinching my nipples, when we came up for breath she moved her head down my chest and started licking and biting my nipples which she knows really gets me going, whoa girl you know what that does to me you little minx, she giggles and says i thought i might get a head start on you. "see baby you can be sexy" but just steady on whilst we go through the rules, rules what rules. I tell her for this next few nights she has to get me off every night but each night has to be different i leave it up to you how, but you have to want to do it and you have to feel sexy when your doing it as this is for you as well as me. she tells me that after this she is not going to do it again later tonight if we start this right now, ok i say we start kissing again next thing she is rubbing my dick over my joggers then she puts her hand down the waist band and starts rubbing the top half that she has uncovered, i lift up she pulls them to my thighs, so i just remove them completely, i stop kissing her and ask her to watch what she is doing see what happens when you do different things to which she does, and pulls her top up over her tits so i am now licking and sucking one tit whilst i use my hand on the other then change over( i do love her tits). After a while i ask her to turn around and sit by my knees facing me when there i pull one leg over mine and i start to stroke her pussy just very gentle strokes up the full length of her slit but never penetrating her labia although i did linger a bit around her little nub area, all this attention has juices running out of that beautiful pussy so i rub my finger up and down her slit on the inside of her labia with the desired affect she is now soaking wet, i tell her how sexy her pussy looks when it is all wet, next thing i know she has lowered her head and sucks the head of my dick a couple of times, i moan and she smiles and says someone just got very hard, i had to laugh then i told her your only meant to use one technique, she giggled and said just trying to help you along honey, i knew her hands were getting tired as she suffers from carpal tunnel syndrome so i asked if she wanted me to take over she nods and i get between her legs and start to masturbate over her she closes her legs around my thighs watching me and she is rubbing and pulling her nipples which are now sticking out like little thumbs my dick is getting dry so i spit on my hand, after doing this a few times my mouth is too dry so i stick my dick between her legs so tries to pull me in , but i stop her and says no way mrs, i rub the full length of my dick up and down her slit getting it wet with her juices to which she let out a moan, i then continue masturbating her phone goes, its a message from our son asking when dinner will be ready, when i asked what she replied she said 20 mins, so to get things going again i dip my dick back between her legs to get it wet again this time she moans again but her eyes are closed i continue to masturbate for a couple of minutes, but i think with nerves of asking her to do this and her agreeing and then the phone message there was now way i was going to cum soon so i tell her this, she agrees and tells me she had cum though, it seems when i was stroking my dick along her slit the second time was just too much for her and she came. She then smiled and opened her legs wider inviting me to fuck her, but i said this is for you baby not for me she smiled sat up and we hugged and she thanked me and went to get dressed and make the dinner. I love that woman but i want her to feel better and more sexier for herself. Dont know what she will do Tomorrow my balls will be needing empty so she will have to take a double loaded gun. One day i hope she might get into having someone else fuck her as i would love to watch my wonderful wife share her gorgeous tight pussy. If anyone has any ideas of what might help or how to progress please feel free to comment, thanks.