Not sure about you but I find people's often complicated sexuality fascinating. And with so many guys on this site seeming to consider themselves bi or bi curious, I thought I'd offer my own view on the subject – and relate some of my experiences. I hope some of you might like to give me your feedback.... I'm 53, love women, have a long-term girlfriend who is my soul mate really and I admit to having a very high sex drive. Sometimes that's a good thing, sometimes it can lead me into temptation. We don't really have much sex any more to be honest, which is probably true of many couples with busy lives that have been together for many years. Talking to people in the chat room etc it seems I'm not alone when I say I had little or no interest in same sex fun in my twenties and thirties. That's aside from checking out cocks in the changing rooms at the local gym or swimming pool and being a bit too interested in the different ones I saw in porn magazines. There was also a memorable occasion when I joined a cricket club in North London in the 90s that was almost exclusively made up of black players. After the first game, I shared a big open shower in the changing rooms with them and I was frankly mesmerised by the size of their cocks as they soaped themselves. Eventually I had to hide an erection and didn't actually ever play for them again... But for maybe the last ten years or so I've begun to lose my inhibitions... I'd be really interested to know if other guys have a similar growing interest in bi fun or if the majority have always enjoyed it? Even the term 'bisexual' is a contentious one. Again, most of the blokes I talk to on the site admit they're bi or bi curious but don't really 'fancy' guys. I'm very much the same. The idea of going on a date with a guy, or kissing him, isn't what I, or many guys are after. I think that's what many people probably don't get when they say bi guys are just gays that haven't admitted it to themselves yet. I disagree. For me, it's the sexual buzz that's addictive. The kinkiness of it. I prefer the idea that we're all on a scale. If you haven't already, maybe look up the Kinsey Scale research. It's an interesting read and suggests that rather than being straight, bi or gay, we're all different. Some very straight, others with a more complex sexuality. But now I sound like I'm writing a thesis, sorry. I've done some 'fun quizzes' online and I seem to be somewhere in the middle, 50% either way, which is an interesting place to be as an outwardly very hetero bloke who predominantly likes women, sport and beer! Other tests have told me I'm definitely bi while some just say I'm straight with bi tendencies in the right situation. Maybe we're all in the latter group, but to different degrees? I find it interesting that when I was younger, around 2001-2003, I dabbled with meeting couples but didn't have any major bi urges. I met them with my girlfriend, who I finally coaxed into it after quite a lot of trying. We enjoyed it, just meeting three or four couples and mainly watching and being watched, touching, and filming each other. Sounds tame but was actually very horny and we still have the video tapes... This was in the days before the internet really kicked in and we met through contact mags like New Direction if you remember it? I did have an urge to put on panties and stockings on some of those nights but that's another story... I'd say SH got me into bi fun more than anything else! And webcam in particular. The interent is responsible for so many changes to our lives... I remember coming home one day with a pack of new tight white cotton pants and putting them on. Then I decided to try the site's chat rooms and webcam, which in those days was pretty new. Again, it will sound tame now but I remember how mind blowing it was to let a room full of guys in the bi room pass comment on how I looked, before finally taking off my underwear and showing them my thick cock, close up, from different angles, all the time exchanging messages with them. I'm circumcised with a very big glans, like many cut guys, and and I quickly found I loved them to pass comment on it. From there, I've had various webcam experiences and eventually found a local bi couple who invited me to their house in Watford. Anyone who's been in the chat room will know an invitation like that is a relative rarity and I was very excited... It was awesome, and I let the (much older) guy share my cock with his wife, taking turns to suck it, which was fantastic. Various other experiences with couples and guys have followed but my horniest was about two years ago. I got chatting to a guy in the bi room who said he was heading to Heathrow to pick some people up and could he visit me? Temptation got the better of me as he seemed so genuine so I agreed as long as we could have a phone chat first. It always sorts the time wasters from the more genuine guys. We had a good chat on the phone - he was a professional guy, lived in Surrey, married with kids, similar age to me and looking for some bi fun - nothing too heavy... Perfect. It's always risky letting a guy know where you live I guess, particularly if you're living with someone, but I decided he was unlikely to give me problems. I told him to arrive with a box of tools to make it look like he was here to do some work. Just in case the curtains started twitching... Again, this won't sound exactly hard core but it was great when he arrived to just sit on the sofa, briefly chat, then get naked and watch porn on my laptop – both feeling unbelievably horny, wanking our big cocks. His is enormous, uncut and thick, which is one of the reasons I couldn't resist. I then asked if I could suck him, which is something I'd never tried. I got down on my knees on the floor as he sat wanking, and took his cock in my mouth – my very first time... I surprised myself at how much I enjoyed it. It felt so natural. I even asked him to take some video on my phone which I still have. In fact to be honest it was all too much for me. I was the horniest I've been in years and I could feel my orgasm approaching fast. I remember saying "Oh God, I'm going to cum," then got back on the sofa at the side of him, wanked myself hard and shot more spunk than I have in years, all up my chest and even into my face. He was loving it and soon followed my lead, shooting his cum all over his belly. A really horny and erotic experience. which made me wonder why I'd not tried it before? There's plenty more I can tell you of my experiences if you're interested. Just thought I'd give you my thoughts in the hope that some of you might offer some views of your own – whether you consider yourself straight, bi, gay or a bit of everything!