my wife who i will call val goes out with her work friends 1 or 2 times a month,i stay in or go to my lockal depends how i feel,one night she came home and she was a little bit honier than usual and was gagging for a shag witch i gladly obliged,as i was shagging her i asked her why she was so turned on,she said some guy tried to chat her up and for some reason got all hot and bothered but she said nothing happened and came home to me,i asked if she got chatted up a lot and she said all the time but was faithful to me.i asked if she wanted to do anything about it she sometimes but hasnt.so we came to an agreement if she meets someone she likes she can get off with them,and if she realy likes him she can jive him a wank or a blow job nothing else as long as she tells me about it when she got home,that was 4 month ago and shes met 8 guys since then and gave every one a blow job something she loves doing but she did let one guy finger fuck her witch we never agreed but assured me that was the one and only time i will let you know if any more happens.