My husband enjoys sharing me, and I enjoy pleasing him. He's very good to me in return. I'm submissive and love giving up control to him, but only to him. With others I take control. We have a good, very fun, very sexy thing going. I love to play with submissive women especially. But what really gets me hot and bothered is when he has men earn the right to be with me. It can be simple things, like having the guy paying for our drinks and a hotel room. Or something small like making them shave their beard or cock and balls. It proves they are motivated. Others are sexy things like offering his wife for both of us or just my husband to enjoy while making the guy wait to have me until after. That has been a lot of fun. The hottest thing for me though, what really gets my kitty purring, is when the guy wants me so badly, he will do things he wouldn't normally do. Once I got to use my dildo on a guy who had never had that done to him before. It was not typically my thing, but it was fun. Another time I had a straight guy down on my husband and get him hard to be with me. I loved that one so much. I would love to have a man pay good money to be with me, but it seems too risky and I would prefer my husband to be there with me so I'm not sure that would work out. I've been thinking a cuckold scenario might be a fun one, where we get to really dominate the guy make him our helper while we enjoy his wife and he acts as helper if he wants to have any fun. We've slowed down our play since COVID, but I think he's working on a new adventure right now.