We are a couple who have played with this lifestyle for a around 3 years and really enjoyed all the fun times we have experienced together .......Sue is a very good looking lady of early 50yrs and still enjoys the attention of open minded types on S/H..with Ben she feels safe to explore her sensuality /sexuality and with naturism holidays and a swinger cruise to Mexico (which was a blast ) we have seen many things which have spiced up our love life ..... we even had a photo session which was a massive turn on for all of us ...including the cameraman lol Sue has gained lots more confidence and it has brought us even closer together as a couple which means we can be completely honest about our fantasies and expectations without any judgement no matter how kinky they may be ......yes we have been to clubs which can be horny and it has made us more open to to many saucy situations ......Sue loves being pampered /massaged which probably was our intro to our sexy life and Ben finds the viewing a massive turn on leading to a orgasm or two for her the masseur and hubby ......a win win situation all round ...... over recent times we have been contacted by ladies and couples with the lady bi curious which has been lovely and because of taking things slow Sue has toyed& played a little and enjoyed the soft touch of a sensual female ....seeing two sexy women together is fantastic and leads on to lots of other horny scenarios ........ we talk a lot before and after and do everything as a couple .....Sue likes the anticipation & the build up to any meet we have and Ben loves it when she talks dirty whilst we fuck describing what how she felt following any play session we have had ......we have dipped our toes and took our time had a lot laughs along the way .........met some really nice people and made friends which has been great because for us we need a proper connection to enjoy fully ........so in a nutshell any one thinking of taking the plunge into this lifestyle take your time and enjoy your journey & have fun .........you might surprise yourself ............Thank You Swinging Heaven ...............Ben & Sue ....xxx