While closure would help, the matter of Judi and her "last party" (Ha...last my derriere!!) with Matt and friends remains uppermost in our relationship dialogue. Grant it, some SH members might be tormented by my orchestration for Judi's dinner with Matt...and my wife's subsequent party fuck by "the gang," the event remains an experience that ONLY my wife had complete control over. She could have witheld the amount of liquor she had at dinner...she could have said "NO" to the ladsa..!! As I suspected, Judi fell into old habits with her favored lover...very easily and voluntarily...thnking she coiuld perrsuade Matt to continue their affair. I suspoected my wife wouldn't have objected to Matt's choice of a "new lady"...as long as he retained my wife's attentions...and pussy!! Recall, Matt ended his affair with my wife...my wife attempted to parlay that by forcing me to end my relationship with Evelyn (which ahs been dead for over 3 months...unknown to my wife.) Bottomline, my wife tried to convince me it was her choosing to drop Matt!! I learned otherwise and chose to engage reply in my manner. Matt brought my wife home very late that night...after her dinner and their long, drawn fuck session. I witnessed most of her 'taking,' though Matt and Mike continued into the wee hours favoring my wife's body. Matt escorted Judi home...and set her down in our guest room, downstairs...all very quiet. BUT, I knew the plan...and let it be...until the morning. I woke Judi up...she was still groggy. I asked her, "My Lord, why are you down here...?" Judi replied that she had a terrible night. I pursued the matter. Judi said she was set upon by Matt and his friends...even though my wife was ending her affair, and she objected to the fuck party. Yeah..."objected" to the party...my ass!! I explored for details, presenting myself as the 'concerned hubby.' If I didn't view my wife's behaviour night before, I would have construed my wife's remarks as if she were raped...!! AND, that was NOT the case...! Mind you, this all came about several weeks ago. After pressing my wife for clarity AND truth, Judi subsequently took a 30-day hiatus from her CP firm to address our family issues. It wasn't a problem with her company...Judi is one of their leading revenue producers...why screw up that kind of relationship. It's the personal aspect for us as being a larger problem. Bluntly, I told Judi we have a problem requiring counseling. In tears, she acquiesced, and would seek counseling...BUT she said she wanted me to of course be present, given Marriage Counseling requirements...legal and otherwise. I replied to my wife, "Are you joshing...Marriage Counseling!! NO...you require Sex Counseling...that's your problem my dear...!!" You can imagine what fury I let loose...my wife went from almost ballistic to tearful composure... I confronted my wife with her sexual indiscretions taking precedence over our marriage. Of cource, I know I'm NO innocent...BUT never the magnitude of playing around as my wife has for the last 12-14 months...!! Christ, she's been opening her legs regularly for any number of men...and on occasion, women...though there she seems to play the dominant party on younger gals. 20 years of marriage symbolizes a lot of acceptance, in spite of our mutual sexual interludes...we've been able to over-ride and rise above the issues. BUT, for the last year, Judi has become a fuck slut wife to a lot of younger cock...Matt and his friends being the most recent. I get why Matt wanted to drop my wife. She's become 'worn' in his image...he's ready for another,'fresh' gal...!! NO shame in that admission...BUT my wife was terribly upset...and tried to again parlay her loss into an issue for me. It's about 3 weeks into my wife's 'vacation'...she's had two sex counseling sessions to date...2 more pending for November...and will likely schedule into December as well. The counselor is really a husband/wife partnership...and they understood why I didn't wish to be part of the consultation...I convimnced them the issue is with my wife...NOT me...! For all I know, the counseling "sessions" are more of the same...I haven't pursued the matter as long as my wife is accepting their treatment. I'm paying their enormous bills to her...so my wife better not bitch about it. Last week, after her late afternoon session, she had dinner with some gal friends...came home I believe around 7pm or so. I wasn't home at the time...I had another engagement. When I arrived home...it must have been around 9/9:30 or so...Judi was in her robe sipping some wine. She asked me where I was...she had apparently checked my calendar and saw an open evening. I believe my wife was hoping I'd be home to discuss her latest session...maybe go out to have quiet, romantic dinner together. I told her I had met with a friend...for drinks. She pressed me as to whom... I didn't initially answer. She asked again...appearing peeved. Either she was upset...OR once again, her drinking habits coming to the surface. I reacted...perhaps ungentlemanly...BUT I reacted in the manner I thought would close the talk...at least for that night!! I looked at my wife...reached into my suit jacket pocket...pulled out the briefest of lady's black, bikini bottom...and tossed it onto my wife's lap. I said, "I had dinner with Maya, your sales intern...a delightful young woman. Contrary to what I thought she would be upset with your party for her a few weeks back...you know...the one you, Matt and I had our way with her...?? You remember...don't you...my darling...!!" My wife's face turned ghostly white...she took hold of the bikini...handled it...moist and all...realizing I wasn't BS'ing her. She looked at me horrified...said, "Arlington, why...why...!!" I replied..."Why...? Her husband is on an extended trip...she simply accepted my invite...and one thing nicely led to another. I understand why you like her...that lovely slim physique is stunning...she's one very hot young woman. I understand why YOU like her...;) Given what you've demonstrated to me recently...I know you WON'T object. Besides, my Judi...as well as you make your choices about how to enjoy life...I will also make my own choices. For the moment...Maya is my preferred choice! By the way...she asked me to say 'hello' to you...hoping that you were feeling better...and would be back to the agency soon...she misses you..." My wife capitulated into tears...she again looked at the bikini bottom. Oh, by the way, Maya NEVER said any such thing to me to pass onto Judi...I just thought an effective way to get some added revenge with my wife and her behaviour...!! Judi's choices...I'm simply reacting the way a man should...;);)