I have one divorce and a few meaningful relationships behind me, together with the numerous one night stands, fucks at swinger parties the very rare escort meet and a number of successful and unsuccessful tantric massages and ‘happy ending’ massages. Probably similar to many other guys. The one thing that always stays with me is that after time the lady I am with generally loses interest in sex. I thought it was just me but guys I have spoken to have similar experiences. So I was thinking that is this just a natural phenomenon or can it be ‘cured’. I do also know quite a few couples who don’t suffer from disinterest because they have found things which ignite them, or certainly the ladies. So as we were going through a ‘dry’ patch in my current relationship I wondered what I could do to reignite desire in my wonderful partner. Now she was having some issues with her endocrine system due to too much iodine. We thought, brought about by supplements. Anyway that wasn’t the sole reason as her work is very demanding and stressful. Which is enough to turn anyone off the idea of sex and the effort required to ‘follow through’. So I had an idea ….. now my partner cums mainly through oral sex, although we do sometimes (rarely) benefit from a joint penetrative orgasm. I have no problem with that as I could spend hours devouring her beautiful pussy and provide as much pleasure as she needs. I don’t need penetrative sex for satisfaction, although I don’t deny that cumming in her pussy is high on my list!. Once she even, jokingly, said that I should start a business providing non reciprocative oral ecstasy for women, she believed I would do well servicing any needy women. So I took this idea and mixed it with her fancy for role play and bought a white doctors coat.

So the idea had formed and now I needed to finalise an effective plan for execution. I wondered about discussing the idea with her but was convinced it would be defeated by nervousness and laughter, no, I decided to be direct and adopt a role play attitude as though we had agreed it and the right time was important. Now she is a lady of habit and takes a shower after work on her longer shifts at work. This, I decided, was the best time. Firstly she was the most relaxed she could be and she was always naked under her bathrobe with the intention of just relaxing. So as she went into the bathroom to shower I prepared myself. I had a T shirt on my thin tracky bottoms, no underwear, flip flops and the immaculate white doctors coat.

I waited until she was sitting on the sofa watching tv and entered! …. My coat was open and the matching T shirt and bottoms were almost the same colour blue as ‘doctors’ attire. I was so fucking hard my cock stuck out and with clipboard in hand.

‘You must be Ms Jones’ ( obviously not her real name it’s role play!)……. Not waiting for an answer I continued …

‘ I am Dr Johnson, of the cunnilingus department, here to administer your first treatment’

Her face was a fucking picture and I was struggling to keep it together.

‘But I … when did … who are you, where’s John’.

I am of course John, I had a wig on and some make up.

‘John is up stairs and will be down shortly and organised all this ‘relaxation’ especially for you. You see he appreciates all the hard work you do and believes that you would benefit from from some release so I am here to help with that.

She had gone past the not knowing to cottening on and playing along …. Good girl I thought as this could have all gone badly sideways. I attribute that to the relaxing shower.

‘Ok so come long let’s not waste time’ as I positioned myself at the bottom of her outstretched legs.

‘Ok you will need to open your legs please to allow me access to your pussy. Now this was the crucial part! … because of my verbal request, inciting control, and the word pussy!!! The intended location of my treatment. So she was either all in or at least enough to go along waiting to see what happens. It was the latter, because as I knelt on the floor I held her knees and gently pushed open her legs, there was no resistance. I gestured her to move to the edge of the sofa which she did without hesitation. I looked into her eyes and there was a hint of hesitation and trepidation this is where I needed to remain in control. As I opened her legs more her bald plump pussy was in clear view. She was still looking at me wondering how this would progress, if she would change her mind and stop. I decided to continue, in control and dictating the ‘play’. Dear reader you have to realise that here were two people previously heavily sexually active but had not had contact for nearly nine months. I at no idea what was going to happen but I couldn’t stop now.

‘So tell me Ms Jones, …. Mary, when was the last time you received a non reciprocal orgasm. ‘Her face was a picture, she was fully into the role play now which overtook all the previous refusals, ‘I have a headache’, ‘it’s all you ever want’ ‘I am tired’ … her mouth was slightly open and her tongue was between her teeth.

‘It’s been a while’ she said …’Are you going to lick my pussy as if you are I would love that’.

‘Yes Mary I am’.

I moved my head between her open thighs and I could smell her shower gel and the distinct smell of wet pussy. I was now an inch away from her pussy as I looked up at her face and watched her close her eyes in pleasure as the tip of my tongue made contact with her open lips. I was nothing other than divine. I took her in my mouth and proceeded to give her a pussy licking she wouldn’t forget. She was so wet, her hand grabbed my head, her eyes were still closed not wanting to connect with me and ruin the role play, she wanted to be devoured, which she was, and she needed to cum, which she did, copiously.

Her orgasm was amazing gasps groans and lots of expletives as she ground her pussy against me. I never stopped until she finished let go of my hair and pulled my head to her and kissed me on the lips like she hasn’t done for months.

‘Oh my god John that was so wonderful … I have missed you’

It was a marker it wasn’t an answer, we weren’t cured. I sat next to her and she sucked me off in two minutes flat and swallowed the lot. We lay together just holding each other nothing needed to be said. We still have barren periods which are interspersed by amazing sex. I have also taken the risk on many an occasion to provide ‘surprise fucks’. Usually when she is bending over and not expecting it. She try’s to fight me off but I’d I have her held in place and when she feels my hard cock pressed against her arse she surrenders and by the time I have, single handed mind, pulled up her skirt pulled down her knickers, or just pulled down her tights my cock always finds a wet pussy. I slip in so easily and feel her stretch to take my cock. She allows me to fuck her as long as I need and I come copiously inside her or she asks me to cum on her arse which I love. There have been ‘failures’ life is not perfect but we have rediscovered our sex life which is enjoyable despite its scarcity.

We both found that not having sex can become the norm and we needed to find another way. It’s not the best but it works at the moment. Oh and spontaneity can be fun and Mary has found she actually likes to be ‘taken’ … especially from behind.

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