I always post under the gay heading as my posts are about Bi sex. I still love women and if I had the choice, which I don't, I think I would go with a woman in preference to a man. My wife knows nothing of what I've done over many years of Bi-sex. My first wife never knew either. My present one knows I did some stuff when I was much younger but that's all. She knows I like to watch gay and Bi porn, she has watched it with me but prefers straight stuff. We were 34 when we met. I was separated from my first wife. It may seem hard to believe but she was a complete virgin. She said she'd had a little sex but I'm sure she hadn't. She had never even seen an erect cock let alone touch or wank one. She certainly never knew how to wank or suck one! She'd never even heard of women wanking, let alone had a wank herself. She's only ever had one wank on her own now! At the end of our first week together she knew how to do all these things except wanking herself. She was very keen to learn. She was never shy about showing me her body, even her arsehole. She had the body of a teenager, still has a good body now. What would be called petite but with a nice handful of tits. Very little hair round her cunt. She has none at all now as she keeps it shaved. As do I. She never wanted anal sex or wanted me to spunk in her mouth. Not too much of a problem as I'd done those things and still do them with men. We used to take a mirror to bed so she could watch my cock in her cunt. In those far off days, 32 years, she even let me lick and finger her arsehole. Even come on her face, but not mouth, she liked to rub it in as skincare! Over the years she's become less interested in sex. If we do have any sex it's just me doing oral on her, her climaxes are very intense, and me having a wank. On occasion we just wank ourselves. In the past couple of years I've got het to finger my arsehole, she wears a latex glove for that. I'd love her to fuck me with a strapon dildo but that's a no! Sometimes we watch porn first. It's now more than a month since we did anything. I watch porn and wank quite a lot on my own now. Lack of sex seems to be a problem with many older couples. At least I can say to her I'm going to watch porn and have a wank, some men can't even do that. I wonder how many good looking young women in their early 30s are still virgins? Would be interesting to know.