My wife Erica , we have been married for many years , experienced many different trials and tribulations, from my crossdressing to Erica's trips away with her friends. Our intimate relationship is practically non existent now , not sure but I think when she found out I crossdressed it took a downward spiral rapidly ! And to be honest I'm more interested in mincing around in girlie lingerie than being a macho husband . Recently admid all the events of the last year and now slipping out of lockdown I accidentally discovered that my wife was enjoying extra marital activities with other men and women . In all the time we have been together she has never admitted to any out of marriage activities , never . I have encouraged her , because it turns me on , wearing girlie lingerie turns me on especially in front of other people . The other evening my wife as normal was sitting in front of the television watching her early evening soaps and I noticed that her phone was pinging away , as normal . I never comment but always wonder what the messages are . With her having a new iPhone the security she uses is her thumb print , making my attempts to look at her phone impossible . Last Tuesday football had just started and as usual Erica was glued to her phone , around 15 minutes into the game an Amazon delivery driver appeared at the window , with that Erica got up , throwing her phone on the seat next to me , as soon as she left the room I picked it up before it automatically locked , at first couldn't find anything untoward until an email pinged . Hastily I looked before she returned , it was from a website called slut milfs . I obviously couldn't open it because she would know , but I saw the start of a message , saying , you have a new message from Kieran , that's all I managed to see , at this point I heard her coming back. I put the phone back and in she walked , picked her phone up and proceeded to examine her phone . She didn't batter an eyelid , just continued to tap away . I had an amazing feeling , excitement and shock , this is what I have always wanted . Tonight Saturday June 26th she has arranged to meet her friend in a restaurant in Peterborough . She's told me it's Christina but I know that she's away in Scotland with parents , I spoke to her at Tesco's garage last night , as they were filling up with fuel for the epic trip . The plot thickens . I will write again tomorrow on how she was dressed and any other dirt .