I have jest seen a posting that is a bit like the situation I have ended up in I am married to my lovely wife who at the times was 39 Donna is a very good looking woman always dress well she is a professional I will not go into what job she do myself well I over ten years older and run a small building company more hands on,so quite different in our work situations A little more about Donna and her work it entails some times out of hours entertaining ot meetings in the evening she will some times arrange a evening out with girl friends all quite normal things I am used to The lovely thing with us we can talk to each other about ant thing, we always honest with each other if one had a problem we tell each other we are very open with each other all the time and have always been like that, that is why we get on so well together This was three years ago now I remember it like yesterday, that evening I had bought a lot of work home I was pricing a job, I was in the dinning room and Donna came in she sat at the table and said I want to ask you some thing, I was very busy and you know what its like when some wants to talk to you, she said you know I told you about that Gordon I had to think and said oh yes that guy that made a pass at you that evening she would always tell me things like that if any thing happened like that She went on to say well he has asked me out, I said didn't he get the message you not interested Donna said well I thought he did I asked whats the problem, she added well his persistent he not take no as a answer, my reply was well go out with him then put him straight, she looked at me and said are you sure, at this point I wanted to get on with what I was doing, and said yes, any way she left me alone, it was in the morning I was asked again if I was sure I said some think like there is on harm in it brushed it off really The truth I never gave it another thought, a few days later she told me they where going for dinner together and once more asked if I minded and was I sure To me at the time its was quite normal thinking it be on the lines of work.any way on the evening she got ready as usual Donna looked gorgeous as she do when dressed up I spent the evening watching telly not really thinking about her knowing she be home later, she wasn't that late before twelve I guess in she came she looked happy gave me hug a peck on the cheek, I asked well what was flash Goren, I think I called him, like oh he is very nice, she was then a bit hesitant when I said his happy now and did he get the message this time, she went on, are well he taken me out again adding if you don't mind Then said his an important client,it was a bit odd but once again it pointed to work It was the weekend on the Friday evening she said don't forget I am not here tomorrow evening, a bit surprised I asked where are you, she said I told you I going out with Gordon I am sure she never mentioned it On the Saturday Donna left at about seven as she went she said oh I may be late don't wait up, I watched a late film I guess about one forty fife she appeared, she always look immaculate she a business woman this is what she do its part of it I notice she was a tad discovered makeup smudged a tad nothing that stood out, she seem surprised I was still up she greeted me as normal On the Sunday we went for lunch, it was over lunch she said remember us talking about open marriages and you where saying its not a bad thing in some cases if people love each other and there relationship is a strong one there could be no harm in it I said that was years ago, why do you ask, she went to say well I was listing to some one and they where talking about it, do you still feel that way now a days, I said well most likely yes That was being said as general conversation no pesivects jest in conversation I moved on to the last night and asked how did that go I was told she enjoyed it and Gordon was charming she missed judge him and he is different outside a work environment I think it must of been about two or three weeks later. Donna had a meeting she told me she be home about seven and we eat then, well it was more like eleven when she came in I remember she said it dragged on but she had a sheepish look, this sort of thing started happening over the flowing month, it became obvious she had something thing on her mind One night after that that she was sitting up in bed when I got in, she said I need to talk to you, I said okay fire away, there was a pause and she asked do I love her well what can I could I say but yes I love you, she said you know how much I love you to bits before she added a bomb shell saying I am seeing Gordon I had to do a second take on that, I said sorry she said I am seeing Gordon, I said what do you mean Donna said we having an affair, that didn't sink in either I said you are doing what, she said I am sleeping with Gordon that hit me like a brick I was in shock, she was then saying but I love you there wasn't a row more a heated discussion, what came out he fucked her a few times, and she couldn't carry on doing it behind my back, the conversation we had over that lunch fell into place now It was a sleepless night, all next day it was all I could think about, that evening I was home before Donna when she came I think expecting a row, we sat down and talked she explain it jest happened she never planed it, my worry was what would happen with us My wife do what she do because she can talk she know how to talk to people in business and she was using them skills now, by going back to what was said a long time ago and other things it seemed I had encouraged her in some way, she also suggested with out saying it it be a short lived thing and I had nothing to worry about very cleverly done What she want was my permission to carry on my blessing, she played the woman card taken me to bed and given me the best sex in years in the end I some how agreed but I or maybe Donna knew what the consequent would be or are today