We been married quite some time and lets say things in the bedroom department weren't as good as they sued of been we lost interest over time I think,if there is blame it be with me Lisa my wife is some years younger and still horny but I have lost a lot of my get up and go over time Lisa is and has always been the life and soul of the party she can fluit when we are out and some time ago she did stray with a bloke she meet, after I found out and the upset it was a case of forgive and forget This come out the blue after I did my best one night it was very obvious it wasn't quite that good for Lisa, she said we got to do some thing about this you when soft that had happened a few times before, I said I will see the doctor which I did and put it this way not a lot come of it he said it maybe my age No more was said then I failed twice in a row, I think in frustration Lisa said god I have to find some one that can do it, she did say sorry afterwards and she didn't mean it After that she would bring up things about when she had the affair not obviously hints I would call them, then same thing happened I wasn't performing when needed It came to a head one night I had let her down again, she started talking about when I found out about her adultery she admitted it upset me to start with but she went on saying how good I was about it after that and one of the things I had she said at the time was, it was jest sex not a relationship and there so much more to being with some one than jest the sex, I was surprised when she asked did I still feel the same way, I told her yes I think so, she didn't mention it for a few days then it came up again but this time it was are we meant to be monogamous, my reply in an innocent way was. well I think so if you have a family but maybe not if your don't,maybe we not meant to have jest one partner Lisa said when I had the affair you know it was only the excitement of some one new I never loved them, then she pointed out a couple that are friends of ours and the wife we think has a few boyfriend and her husband must of guessed we thought but we never heard he had, we often wondered what when on between them Then Lisa said the bloke Anne is seeing now is very nice. that came a shock she obviously know a lot about it and never told me,I asked who it was she said you don't know him and don't say any thing We touched on the subject a few times after that, in doing so Lisa told me that Harry did know all about what Anne got up to, and hinted he encourage her to see other blokes, known Harry I would of never thought that Over the next month or so we bumped into Anne and Harry a few time when we where out it be we maybe going out for a pub meal and they come in the pub and we end up shearing a table, I thought it was constants to start with, it wasn't till they came round they said they were passing and popped in for a coffee That is when Anne said to Lisa lets have a girls night out and why don't you lad go for a point at the same time, it seemed to get arranged with out me having much say in the matter So it came about the two wife's went out and me and Harry when off down a pub, it was on that evening as we talked Harry seemed to know a lot about me and my problem in bed Some how we ended up getting a cab back to his for a night cap, at his after a few more drinks I said I better be going Lisa will be home, he said don't worry they be late and they be coming here, if I been sober I would of known it was all planned Harry keep my glass topped up, I had far more drink than I am used to I remember Harry getting a phone call it would be well after midnight and maybe an hour later our wife's come in with two blokes, Harry introduced me to them as Noel Anne's friend and Carl, being half pissed I was shacking there hands and saying well you need a drink It all seemed normal in away, we all chatted and had a drink I had been to the loo and as I came out Harry was there and took me into the kitchen and gave me a drink and we talked I am not sure how long we where there but when I said we better get back Harry said no hang on we give the girls a bit long and gave me another drink I remember I asked why and he said Lesa don't know Carl that well in my drunken state it didn't sink in In the end we went back to the lounge and no one was there, I sat in a chair and must of passed passed out, it be about nine the next morning Harry was shaking me, I felt like shit we went into the kitchen he got me a coffee I asked where Lesa was he said still in bed,I said I get her and we go home he told me no I will take you and she can lay in That is what happened at home I went to bed I got up late afternoon and Lesa was not home I phoned her she told me Harry or Anne would bring her back It be an hour or so later the three of them arrived,, I still felt ill, we were talking and they joked about me getting drunk,as we chatted I noticed a mark low down on Lesa's neck I asked what she done to her neck, the room went quiet then Harry said to the wife's I will have a word with James, and they left, he started by saying look before you go off the deep end think, I said whats going on, he went on saying look Anne has boyfriends for some time now and its not been a problem, and Lesa has told us about your trouble in bed and we talked about it and thought that maybe the answer to your problem, I started to say some thing he told me to listen,he said last night we where going to talk to you but you had to much to drink, and if you remember I had a phone call and I said to Anne they may as well come back and we take it from there you had been pasted out before the call but when they did get back you picked up again that's why I took you in the kitchen He said you missus really had a good time last night and really enjoyed it, she is worried about you now and what you are going to say or do, that is why I am talking to you now, he added no harm was done its up to you if you say no stop it or let it carries on either way no one will ever know about it, then Anne came in to find out if I was alright and said much the same thing The out come was I went to find my wife and talk about it with out going into all of that When I asked what she thought she told me it would be a solution if I was okay with it or it would of be a one off we have to talk about Barry and Anne came to see if we where where alright then left, the long and short of this Lesa now sees Carl his her boyfriend but I now know there is more to Anne and Barry than meets the eye and things are developing as time goes on,after we talked it was obvious Lesa did want the extra sex I couldn't give her, she convinced me that was all it was there was no other involvement and it not heart us in any way, the only worry was if any one found out, she pointed out Anne had done it for years with out any one knowing So I found myself in this situation of my wife now had a lover and I had consented to it We became more friendly with Harry and Anne, my wife was seeing Carl most weeks on a Friday or Saturday it seemed the two wife's would go out with there boyfriends then go back to Anne's and Lisa would spend the night there , of course I wanted to know about Carl what was he like in bed had guessed he be good as he was much younger than me Lisa was sketchy with details, it appeared he was very energetic and that question was he well hung, all I ever got was his not bad she never say if he was bigger than me of any thing like that As I said we were more friendly with Anne and Harry, it was a few weeks after this started Harry suggested we went for a drink I said yes but only a couple after the last time, the subject of the wife's came up, and a lot of surprises for me For a start Lisa had seen Carl a few times before that night, Harry told me I had nothing to worry about with Lisa he said she been out with Carl and wouldn't let him do any thing till that night, I didn't know that, then he said Carl alright you can trust him plus he some stud, I asked what he meant by that, he told me his got some cock on him, I said you mean big he replied Christ yes it must be getting on for nine niches and as thick as your wrist his as big as Noel,if I been thinking I would of asked how he knew that He was telling me how strong his relation was with Anne and they got into this years ago and how much easier it is now to meet men using the web and not magazines He then said I hear your problem has improved, that shocked me my erection was hard of late, I asked more about Carl he laughed saying his cock gos place where yours can't go you should hear how Lisa squeals with him up he, once again I shoulder of asked how he knew So there was a lot my wife wasn't tell me, I knew when she came home she was exhausted but I put that down to a late night, I didn't say much to Lisa about our conversation Harry and me had, so the next time I went out with Harry we got talking about our wife's I asked what made him and Anne get into this he said well it was me really I always want to watch her being shagged, then I said do you watch, he said oh yes, I wanted to know if he watched Lida, he looked at me and said yes but she told me not to tell you so he didn't go into it any more, that left me thinking there was a lot more involved, there was to much to tell you now