When I first went out with my eventual wife in the mid sixties I did so because she had a bit of a reputation, and being very attractive the combination proved a bit hit with me. What I hadn't bargained for was that after two or three months I was in love with her dispite the fact I knew she continued to see other men. When I eventually confronted her with this she said she had been permissive since she was 18 and could not at that time simply change to a monogamous lifestyle. Surprisingly, I accepted this, partly because it suited my own loose morals but also because I didn't want to lose her. She continued having occasional boyfriends almost until the time we married four years later, after which we both settled down into that monogamous theme. In the early eighties I had to work away for two and a half years only getting back at week-ends every three or four weeks. We both agreed that being without physical company for this period of time was too much and accepted that should we need to we had mutual permission to satisfy ourselves with an occasional lover. Recently whilst clearing out the loft I came across her hidden diaries for that period, just one of the weeks is duplicated below. Not as erotic as some of you would hope but nevertheless completely true: [added text for clarity] Thur 7 March 1984: .......WJ [girlfriends husband] came round to borrow mower. Cornered me in kitchen and snogged me ! Said he was sorry, couldn't resist me ! Fri 8 March : John [me] home for w/e................Took girls to Nan's for night, went to pub. Too much to drink, both horny as hell, up most of night. Sat 9 March: Felt shattered this morning.............meal with M&J at night. Made lovely love in front of fire. Sun 10 March: Took girls swimming...............Early lunch, bath and bed for couple of hours. Took John to station at five. Mon 11 March: C/N [chap she met whilst working in local pub] phoned, coming up later........ Girls to Mum's. C/N arrived at 7.30. Lovely evening, went to Tavern for meal, then back to bed with bottle of vintage Moet. Left about 6am ! Tues 12 March: Late to work........Jon [boss] asked if wanted to go to 'Mr Changs' tonight. ......WJ came round when got home wants to come to lunch tomorrow ? .....Great night, drank champagne again. Absolutely shattered and drunk but bed till 3am ! Wed 13 March: Very tired........ WJ came round at twelve with smoked salmon and wine. Drunk almost immediately, couldn't resist his advances ! Mary [his wife] always joked he had a big penis, she's right !! Absolutely brilliant couple of hours, can't wait 'til next time ! Ther are plenty of other sectios like this, wait and see what response is before submitting