At posting my recent ‘Callum & Judi’ update, I received several emails AND one SH reply post…questioning my concerns with wife’s behavior…if I’ve attempted to address the issues… Some SH members even wonder…’IS there even an issue…!’ In my reply I’m posting this perspective about my wife and me going back nearly 20 years…may help understand our sexual activities & ‘boundaries.’ I met Judi when she was turning 25…she was close to marital engagement with another gent…having regularly dated him for almost 2 years! The lad worked with my wife at Nordstrom’s. It didn’t impact with me…I wanted to sexually engage Judi! We ‘dated’…dinners, some shows, and several local parties. She accepted my invites…I presumed her tie to the guy couldn’t have been all that strong. At my end, I had been “dating” primarily married ladies…a few years older. Looking to good fuck play, most of my ‘married dates’ were either bored with hubbies…OR found pleasure in extra sexual variety. Rare any emotional link…my dates were either 1 on 1 plays or on occasion, party GB’s. In Judi, however, I was more emotionally attached. We dated 4 months when I decided to ‘go for it’…I wanted her. Judi also signaled availability…don’t think she was all that pleased with her ongoing work-place romance. I asked her out to a local party…one with strong swing sex behavior. I also extended an invite for 2 close friends…more for party-assist… if required. I could tell Judi was uncomfortable with our environment…at least I thought so. Several counsel colleagues…a mix of single and married men and ladies…pretty much scoping out the extent of fuck play for the night. BTW, the swing environment eventually led me…and my future wife… to distance the scene, even though we often play with related members! I knew Judi could be quick to seduce…a little wine and party weed traveled a long way back then. I guided Judi up to one of our host’s guest rooms…Eric and Bethany followed. With little time required, I began to play with Judi…removing her blouse, bra and skirt…leaving her bikini panty intact…for the moment. Eric & Beth played with each other, BUT watched for any cue I might make for their involvement. Judi and I kissed long moments as I played with her breasts. I moved down to her Titties…large then as they are voluminous today…albeit now more pear shape than her youthful, hardened uplift. I played with her nipples…massaged beneath her breasts eliciting moans of satisfaction. I then worked my way down to her muff…then as today…cunnilingus my favorite activity next to an old-fashioned shag! As I began to finger, manipulate Judi’s vagina…tongue probing her slit, I hadn’t realized Eric and Beth took positions on either side of the bed. As I worked more deeply into Judi’s pussy…keeping her lips spread as my tongue and fingers plied their way…Judi’s pleasure moans went silent. Looked up…and to my amazement…a sign of the future and how my wife truly enjoys fuck play! Eric’s cock…bare and hard…nudged Judi’s face. Judi’s right hand went to hold Eric’s cock…as she guided it into her mouth…and began to lick and suck on his tool. I looked at Beth…she was approving…as she began to disrobe. I went back to working Judi’s pussy. A few moments later, both Eric and Beth spoke up…”enough with eating her out…time to fuck her…!” All spoken in earshot of Judi…though at that stage I doubt she heard a word…she was well into sexual stimulation and capture. I removed my slacks and shorts…cock already hard…fitted a condom…and within moments began to gently ease into Judi’s vagina. No objection…no friction…simply smooth entry… be in this woman for the first time. I picked up my pace as I missionary fucked her…while Eric went deeper into her mouth. I didn’t last long…not more than 7 or 8 minutes. As I flooded the condom, Eric withdrew his cock from her mouth…BEFORE spunking! As I pulled out, Beth moved her face and tongue on and into Judi’s pussy…taking serious liberties eating out my date. I enjoyed the scene…Eric cheered his woman on. I went for some drinks…and when I returned…again, another surprise…! I couldn’t have been gone more than 5 minutes. As I re-entered room, Beth was smiling as Eric was positioning his sheathed cock into Judi’s cunt. No gentle entry…rather, Eric rammed his deep into my lady…2, 3 4 times…then withdrew. He pulled off his condom, and plunged back into Judi’s love canal with fury. While banging Judi, Beth came over…held my hand…massaged my cock. She said…”This time you need to fuck her good…don’t worry…she’s protected…saw her purse meds…wouldn’t be surprised she was looking for this kind of action tonight…”…all with a sly smile. (What I didn't share...I was already aware, there'd be NO preggo risk... Unless Judi had operative corrective procedures, no risks involved...to this day...!) Within minutes, I regained…just as Eric began to jizz Judi. He kept his cock in her hole for at least a minute before withdrawing his softened tool…his cream oozed out of her slit. I again went missionary…Judi didn’t seem to realize I was banging her again…her eyes either closed or glazed over…moaning louder. Her vagina was totally lubed…my bare cock went deep…to the hilt…close to 8 inches into her…fucking the woman I’ve wanted to fuck for several months! This time…on regain effort…I lasted well over 20 minutes…slowly rocking in and out of her cunny. Her hands were spread out on the bed…NO objection…NO refusal…just as her legs were spread and inviting. I finished…bathing her cunt with my spunk…as Eric and Beth stood aside smiling. However, still…one more surprise for the evening…something that clearly suggested how and why my wife…here 20 years later…still enjoys being fucked by more than one stranger…all in a single evening of sex…!! I sat to the side…sipping my drink…when Beth opened the door and invited another gentleman…a friend from work. Marcus was in his early 30’s…married…wife at party as well…‘satisfying’ someone else. Eric said…”Thought you might have some fun with this one…Arli introduced us…wanting to pleasure the lady to the fullest…” I’m NOT sure that’s what I implied when I invited Beth and Eric…BUT too much into the evening to be concerned. Marcus undressed within minutes…worked his way around the bed…from the near side. Judi still lying flat on the bed…though at this stage she realized there was another man in the room. Marcus moved onto the bed…positioned himself sideways…perpendicular…to Judi’s figure. His cock was a raging hard-on…veins accentuated…an instrument knowing what it wanted in this lady… He moved on top of Judi…right hand positioning his cock at Judi’s love entry. Judi realized what was about to happen…she attempted to repel the stranger…to no avail. Marcus’ left forearm positioned on top of Judi’s chest…quite close to her throat. It was effective…he pressed Judi back down as his cock slid into her. Once inside Judi’s love hole, a characteristic my wife has never proven wrong, she instantly transitions into sexual satisfaction…openly accepting her partner’s shagging. Marcus’ fuck position was interesting…at an angle…penetrating deeply…putting pressure in Judi’s cunt. Even if Judi wanted to object…there was no room for any struggle. This gent had practiced his maneuver often…I’m sure NOT only with his wife… I watched the “entertainment” with Beth and Eric. 15 minutes went by before Marcus creamed Judi… He got up…thanked us…and left with nary a word. I realized then, I wouldn’t be the only ‘partner’ for my soon wife. For nearly 15 years, Judi and I have kept our trysts relatively low profile. My wife knew pretty well who I was fucking…though rare I would be familiar with my wife’s tryst pairings. That has changed over the last 18 months…Judi’s group fucks…HER group fucks…have become a bit more open knowledge to me and others. Several friends have suggested…she’s going through a stage that will mature over the next year or two. Of course an issue for me…this advice is coming from some of the very men fucking my wife…on a regular basis. Add to that, my wife’s propensity to be available to younger colleagues…sometimes strangers…who arrange gang bang dates with her. “Business” can be rationalized…sometimes…to warrant her availability. I often use “business” as my excuse with another lady! However, there comes a time…lately…that it appears my wife simply wants the “extra sex!” Yes…we’ve talked…nothing totally reconciled except for understanding. Yes…I know there are risks to her…can’t always control…though have to be honest, I often enjoy watching her fucked! I know a few of the husbands to my tryst partners often revel in watching me bang their wives, be it in seduce mode…OR watching me fuck their ‘innocent’ partners… I hope my wife maintains some sense of caution to her play times. Beyond that, I tend to believe she will ‘outgrow’ her need for volume. I know “volume” sounds ludicrous…BUT in effect that’s what it’s all about…her sexual activities provide Judi personal satisfaction…as well as the occasional business interest that’s inextricably tied to her fuck play…