We are not quite the same as most other married couples, my wife has lovers and I know about it in fact I now encourage it but it wasn't like that at first Jill had been having an affair with a man that she used to work with I did know him slightly when she worked with him, he left and I never heard of him again,what I didn't know Jill had started seeing him before he moved on to a new job, the affair had been going on well over a year be fore I got any hint some thing was going on, and that was only because she made a couple of silly mistakes and at the time they didn't mean that much to me,it was only when I heard a bit some gossip did I start to put two and two together but still didn't come up with right answer at the time, with hindsight all the clues where there It wasn't till one night Jill had an accident in her car not her fault but the other driver was drunk and the police got involved, that made a case of it Jill was a witness so was the the man in her car, now this took some explaining It was all on her statement how it happened and other witness it was a very miner shunt for the car but a major crash for her There was no real way of explaining Mr James Right it even had his address, she tried to explain him away but it didn't hold water, as you can imagine the row and upset that flowed which came to a head and a confession, it was then what to do next I am going to skip all that to much to go into,some weeks later we got to the stage of talking about the situation calmly, we discussed the options, this may seem strange but I started considering Jill's affair could carry on, this was after she had convinced me she didn't love him and it was only the excitement of another man in her life After a lot of thought and discussion we came up with what was a problem for me it was being deceived Jill going behind my back So that is how this started, it started with a few ground rules mostly about keeping this quiet and discreet that was the big worry and still is, as thing developed thing changed not with being discreet but the way we go about it and what happens James was the learning curve really for us, as I said Jill been sleeping with him for over a years so they where comfortable with each other but with me on the scene that did seem to upset that a little, Jame's was worried I get get jealous and where that may lead So we ended up all three of us sitting down and talking about, well that was a strange thing for me talking to the man that had been shagging my wife and most likely know as much about her in bed as I do, all that really worried James was he was also married and he thought if I got upset I tell his wife once we got over that problem he seemed okay So things with Jill and me where out in the open no need for her to sneak around, on that basis the first time she was going to See James she was getting ready dressed in front of me, that surprised me it got me aroused, that first time she went to see him I wouldn't say was easy for me the waiting for her to come home, I had most likely done it loads of time with out knowing but I did that time it was strange I tried to imagine what they where doing and that was starting to turn me on in a weird way Jill got home that was another strange experience for both of us, for her she was coming home know I knew where she been and didn't have to hide the fact and lei about where she been, all the same she looked sheepish almost neither of us knew what to say at first I think I said something silly like, did you have a nice evening, we jest looked at each other then we both laughed, she hugged me saying I love you, that broke the ice Upstairs Jill said I will jest have a shower,I don't know why I said this I said no get into bed, she questioned why but I insisted, once in bed I hugged her there was a smell of sex on her, my cock became rock hard I put her hand on it, I think it surprised her She said you don't want to, do you, I could hardly get it out but managed yes, my hand went between Jill's legs and what I found was as very wet and sticky pussy, I guess in the past some how she always managed to clean up before getting into bed,at that point I don't think she could of stopped me from fucking her I was that horny and went I did slipped into her and that would be the best way of describing it, she was loose and very slimy inside I will admit I liked it and enjoyed it my first sloppy seconds you could say With me doing that it surprised my wife but she did say afterwards she enjoyed it I always think that was the beginning of where we are today, also we started to talk about things, I was very curious about James I knew where there relationship started and a fair idea when but it was the other details I waned to know about and what was the attraction James held for my wife to have such a long running affair with him, I would guess most affairs are over in a short time or it be a roll in the hay a one night stand This wasn't that it been going on to long, to start with Jill wasn't saying to much I sure she thought it would upset me or some thing like that, bit by bit I started to find things out, the first thing was where did that have sex when she went out, that could be any where from a car to a cheep hotel mostly it be James house as his wife worked shifts at a hospital and a few time here in our bed when I was away which I some times do with work It had all been covered up very well and if not been for a drunk driver I most likely never known Things carried on for the next couple of months, I was wanting Jill to go and meet James it had become very exciting for me, her getting ready to go the waiting always aroused me and the sex when she came home, well we where both into that by then and I was sill getting little bits of information about him which seemed to add to my excitement Then a hitch a problem it was James wife she went onto days so his house was out of the question,they had a few times in the back of a car, not good, it coincided with me being away for a week with my job, it was me that suggested they came here, I am quite sure they made up for lost time when I was away, there problem hadn't gone away it was back with me coming home, I could see Jill wasn't happy, I shoulder known there more to it she was missing her sex in comfortable surroundings,we where talking about it one day and I got the impression she want to ask something, I pushed to find out what it was, Jill said would I be at home on Saturday afternoon, I asked why, then she said James can get out and if you agree he could come her in the afternoon,, I didn't know quite what to say, she went on maybe you could go out, this was a new ball game After we talked about it I did agree to go to the pub, there was footy on sky down there So I did go and James came round, well I don't know if they forgot about the time but I came home and he was still there and they where still upstairs, I couldn't resist I went up,I walked into our bedroom, I didn't catch them doing any thing they lay on the bed naked talking, it did course a very awkward moment for all of us I even felt a tad embarrassed, it was really strange seeing my wife in our bed with her lover Out of all of us Jill seemed the calmest of all of us, she didn't try to cover up James did and looked worried, any way it was a little unreal but some sort of conversation started,, I said to James do you know what the time is, Christ he said I have to go When got out of bed I think I could see what my wife's attraction was to him he was slack but Jesus he been in the right place when dicks where handed out, I am Mr average nothing exceptional in length or width he looked as if he could be on both counts with a matching pair of plums, by me going in the bedroom was the start of another change in our life