Hi we’re new to this and looking for advice.

In three weeks time we’re going on holiday to Lanzarote for my wife’s 64th birthday. While we make love we often talk about different fantasies to spice up the session, but it’s always been just talk. The last couple of times my wife has been telling me about a friend of hers at work and what she and her husband get up to on holiday. He lets her have a bit of fun , sometimes on her own and other times with him watching.

My wife has suggested she would like a bit of fun on our holiday, this has resulted in a couple of great sex sessions at the time. But i’m having reservations about it in reality, and secondly how do you go about finding someone.