I'd always reckoned I was slightly bi, liked looking at the guys in the showers etc but, married, and happily, never did anything about it - i'm now 49. But, now , briefly, working away at times, I have access to a flat - and decided to make a move. I put an ad in the personal column of a local advertising paper - along with a load of similar. " First-timer looking for gay or bi man, inexperienced, tel: ......". Got a txt almost immediately - "Bob would like to meet " and we fixed up for a few days later, early evening. I thought i would be a little unsettled but was excited rather than tense - yippee. Bob turned up on time, and he looked like he was- a local office type. He was a bit younger than me, medium height, full head of hair ( me too), slim. Average looking really. I was nervous now though, and he picked up on this. He told me he was married too - but predominantly gay and was in a regular relationship with another ( older) man. Sensing my obvious and mounting discomfort he suggested I give him a minute and he would undress in the bedroom next door and that I could then go in, and if I wanted keep my clothes on , and "massage" him. I managed about 30 seconds and entered. As promised there he was- on his stomach, and comletely nude. I started on his shoulders and worked down! I stopped at his buttocks and skipped to his legs - no one said a word. When he turned over - just what I wanted, nicely trimmed pubes, 5 inches or so of limp uncut cock with a long foreskin lying to one side accross his upper thigh. I casually brushed against it with the heel of my right hand and then rolled back his prepuce and began slowly wanking him . Soon he was in my mouth and rock- hard, and around 8 inches.He lasted about 5 minutes before he grabbed my head and came in my mouth with what felt like about about half a pint of salty semen. Bingo - i'd done it. He lay there panting and, still fully clothed, I lay down beside him. Not wasting much time he asked where the shower was and walked in. After about 5 minutes he yelled for me to join him- now there's a surprise. I have to say i was a bit reluctant - whilst fit i'm not well- endowed, and only around 5 inches fully erect, which I now certainly was. But you know he took not a blind bit of notice as we dried ourselves off. I was surprised by what happened next though. He pulled me back on the bed and we 69'd until both hard as a rock and then he pulled out a condom and lube slipped it on me rolled me onto my back and mounted me. I'd never reckoned on this and certainly not the feeling, because I entered him with hardly any give and, ok i'm not big, but i thought there might be a bit of resistance - but none of it. He moved up and down slowly, picking up speed gradually, pulling almost all the way out, then right down to my balls, then began to kiss me, tenderly at first, then snogging. His large cock was now again stiff as a pole and, with a bit of help from his hand we both came together, him over my chest, me inside his sloppy anus As we showered( again) he apologised for not being " tight" but said his boyfriend had a huge manhood and that, he reckoned, was the reason. But he said whilst he loved looking at his lovers big penis he preferred smaller cocks for full penetrative gay sex - and could we get it together regularly? This was all about 6 months ago and we have intercourse around twice a week at my flat . He' s had the tip of his cock in me a few times but he prefers being shagged. Suits me!