My posts on here do seem to strike a chord with some men. They want more details. I think we're a large minority that lots of people just wouldn't understand. Why do we want sex with other men whether or not we get sex with our wives? I go to my usual place and quite often just chat to other men mostly about this very subject. I don't have sex with men because they might be good looking or some other physical reason. Most are getting on a bit, like me! As long as they have a clean cock that hopefully can get fairly stiff I'm OK with that. I still prefer women. Of all the porn I watch, which is a lot, it's mostly straight. The problem with women is finding one that would just want casual, occasional sex without them wanting a relationship. Not likely to be easy!