I spend time on "cam" sites on the internet,for so long I was one of the lucky ones who appreciated "cottaging",so hard to find these days.There must be thousands of men out there now who will never be able to enjoy the sensation of having a sexual relationship with a complete stranger,it might last 5 minutes or an hour,depending on your state of sexual arousal or need at that particular moment. So you were just in need of a quick wank,you could be in and out of the toilet in minutes having found a willing hand to help with a quick spunking.You needed a session,you needed to work to complete naked,with one or more likeminded men doing things with your body(and theirs),the size of cocks never mattered,as much fun could be had with a flacid cock as with a hardon,personally I loved to suck a flacid cock,obviously in almost all cases a hardon developed in your mouth,but I have had fantastic mouthfulls of spunk from flacid cocks. All the "cam" sites in the world can't replace real flesh encounters,nor can arranged sexual meetings replace sexual encounters where usually nobody even needs to speak to each other,within a minute a movement of the head or the little cough says "lets have sex with each other. Personally from a young age I was turned on by female undies and was lucky or unlucky enough to have had the opportunity to wear them to wank in,I say unlucky because the worst moment of my young life was having my mother walk,unannounced,into my bedroom and cath me standing in front of the wardrobe mirror wearing a pair of little knickers I had (borrowed) from our next door neighbours washing line.I can still see her now,looking at my hand holding my hard cock,my balls covered by the little bit of material of the undies,it seemed she stood there staring at my hardon for ever,it was never mentioned again,she never even asked about the undies,I can only assume she knew,like she has never questioned my sexuality even though we have shared this house,just her and me for 37 years,I suppose she knew when she stood there looking at me wanking she knew I was different. I get sexy undies from a gay site on the internet and even that she has never commented on.Sorry,I'm afraid I've sidetracked a bit,back to a porn site, site or a "cam" I use them at this time of year for wanking,there are still a few cottages left but they are more for summer fun.