Be careful what you wish for - we worked and played hard , we loved adult fun , into Swinging , sex parties , 3 or More Somes it sounds hot , exciting , exotic , horny all these words and more but you can’t jump into this this world without discussing it with your partner . Seeing your wife being fucked by big dicked hunks or 2 unknown ladies sucking your dick or rimming your arse is not everyone’s cup of tea. I am Steve ( Ste ) and my ( then ) wife was Carol , we wanted something different , years ago we did try a 4some with 2 men and 2 girls and it was fun , seeing Carol with another woman was so fucking hot. In hind sight we should of left it there but we wanted to try sex parties , all professionally done , the 1st party we were invited to was fun with so many like minded adults who were all out there to take their libido excitement to another level . I watched Carol with 3 men , she was sucking and then spit roasted , then one of the men tried anal on her and she shouted our safe word , she was a little upset , we found a area and with cuddles and reassurance, we kissed and fucked we were ok . Our 2nd time was not as enjoyable , Carol got pissed to quick , and was very vocal , I was with 2 woman and a man , hands and mouths everywhere , the girls took it in turn to suck us off , swapping dicks as they were in full flow , I was ready to cum and like hungry nymphs they were on their knees mouths open I was joined by the other male we were wanking like crazy then I erupted on their faces , it was full on intense , there was a crowd watching I looked up and C had been watching , the look on her face was not a happy look , I went to try and find her with no look , I went for a drink , thinking she was in the loo , I went for a walk around I found her with 2 men being pleasured , lots of couples watching , I tried to make eye contact with Carol but she was enjoying the moment , she was sucking a large cock she was whispering to the other man he was using lube on his cock , he was fucking her from behind , then in the side saddle ( spooning position ) the guy fucking her I looked and he was up her arse , vocal for everyone to hear she was saying inbetween sucks fuck my arse , from spooning to doggie arse fucking , she saw me and smiled as the guys changed places even a young lady joined in , pussy licking , one guy came his load on her arse cheeks as the lady sucked up the spunk. I pulled Carol to one side , she said you don’t care wanking on those girls faces , she was “off on one” I said those guys were fucking your arse , she said I love it , more lube less pain , even in our married life we had only tried anal twice . I asked her did she want to go , with a swig of her drink she said I want to fuck more. My head was fucked , just to keep an eye on her she was openly giving out blow jobs and then joined a “ free for all “ orgy on a water bed , lady and men fucking , she was a mess of spunk maybe even piss . I wasn’t happy at all , I said I’ve had enough , she said I will get a lift to the hotel , I was fuming , I cleaned up and waited , 7 am she was dropped off , gone back to a couples house for more drink , poppers and sex. She looked a mess , she showered and then slept. I went for a walk and paid for extra night in the hotel , when she woke up , she had a bad hangover , I layed into her verbally , she said she got jealous because of the girls I was with and wanked on their faces , so she was on a mission to fuck as many people as possible , I said how about the anal , she said I knew it was wrong but I wanted to be arse fucked with you watching me . I was livid , we argued then there was the reality of it all , I was having fun , but the drink sent Carol loopy . There was plenty of remorse, but the resentment wouldnt go away , we lost our mojo in the bedroom , and married life took a nose dive , after a few months we split up , I was emotionally gutted. So yes swapping is fun but please discuss it because one bad experience......stays with you , our 3some parties were exciting for both of us the sex parties was a different vibe , some love it , poppers and too much alcohol is a head fuck . Communication is the key .........talk , talk and talk some more ........have fun .