It has been interesting reading some of the stories about female sexuality. I would like to add my thoughts and experience. My name is Susie and I have been married to a great guy for over 25 years. I am straight but I have experienced some wonderful sexual experiences with many women in the past ten years. These experiences have always been with my husband present, which he enjoys as much as me. I became bi curious when we started swinging with other couples and I enjoyed the feel and touch of another women. I think women are sexy but I could never have a relationship or live with another women that role would always be for a male and that, I believe, is the differential between straight or lesbian. That said, as I can vouch, sexuality is a complex issue and I know many would not understand how I could enjoy licking another woman’s pussy and not be a lesbian. What swinging has demonstrated to both my husband and me is the complexity of human sexuality and those with courage should enjoy exploring it without the fear or worry that society still brings upon such a topic. Labelling is understandable but theoretically and fundamentally wrong. Not least, our sexual being changes over time and is influenced by so many things, there are things I would try now but would have been horrified to do 20 years ago and vice versa. Some of the most honest and decent people I have ever met have been from the swinging community, I think that speaks volumes. Apologies for not providing a sexy story but I felt compelled to write something in response to the stories about lesbianism.