I have been a member of SH for a long time, but with breaks of several months, and years, between activities. My last break was due to my time being filled a two year extra marital liaison with a lady who I met on the train. She was also married. This should interest all your doubters as to whether it could happen to you ... Deb had a submissive side but had not realised previously how far she could or would take it and how much she absolutely enjoyed the role. And I found that I enjoyed the dominant role. We would do training ‘exercises’. We did not do this all the time, but once and a while. So it was kinky rather than extreme. The build up to it was always through text and it was clear what was going to happen. On the day in question I had set the expectations for our after work meeting. I had left the room key to the hotel ready for her. She arrived and dressed ready for me as I had requested – heels, stockings and suspenders, and a lacy top where her breasts poked over the top. We also had a collar which she was expected her to wear. When this was on she was mine to do as I pleased. Once dressed and ready she sent me a text to let me know. I finished what I was doing from the car and went up to the room. She was a good girl and was waiting as expected - kneeling at the end of the bed, hands outstretched in front of her, face leaning forward. She did not look up when I walked in. I immediately took out my blindfold and put this on without saying a word. Then I tied her hands together and moved her to the top of the bed. With a long cord she was tied securely but loosely to the bedhead. She could move but was restrained. I started slowly kissing her and licking her neck and breasts and then told her to kneel up on all fours. I then undressed, and would always make a play of unbuckling and removing my belt so she could hear. She physically bucked as I did, and i knew this always aroused her as the expectation was building. She loved that sound and responded to it. I ran my hand down her back and onto her buttocks when I asked her if she had been good, and why had she not replied to my messages quickly enough. I could see the wetness of her lips already as I moved the belt over her bum and then gave her a number of hard strokes on each side. Perfect timing there was a knock on the door. Paul had arrived. I ushered him in and introduced him to Deb still on all fours in the bed as my ‘slut‘ who he could use for the next 30 minutes. But I told him he would need to belt her first to make sure she knew who was in control and she would then be compliant. I talked to her reassuringly to let her know that I was there but he was going to use her, and gave her a couple of belts just to show Paul how hard it should be. Not soft, that was a waste, but to strike, leave a red mark and cause her buck and clench her teeth. I then caressed her hair and kissed her as he gave her six strokes of his own. He quickly undressed and was soon licking and fingering her pussy as I licked her breasts and then moved up so she could suck my cock. She said afterwards he was good with his fingers and she had a small orgasm quickly. I felt her have another larger one as she was panting hard, my cock just inside her month, as he pushed his cock inside her for the first time. He then proceeded to fuck her very hard. Mid way he stopped and I moved to one side as he flipped her over and drove into her from on top. Her legs were spread upwards but she was pulling him in. He finished by straddling her and using her mouth as he came over her neck and chin. I was stood by the side and turned her head around to cum and spurt in her mouth also. I then cleaned her from cum and sweat as he dressed, but she stayed tied and blindfolded as I lay next to her. When he left we fucked again – we were both still so turned on. And she still has no idea who he was, even to this day.