A true story, with actual copied messages.  Names changed.  That’s all - hope you enjoy and this helps anyone thinking about doing something similar.

My wife and I started swinging 7 years ago and we’ve had some fantastic experiences.  I’m not sure I’ll ever forgot the look of lust on her face at an early meet when a guy was rubbing his cock up and down her wet pussy and about to penetrate her - sheer bliss, sheer lust.  Incredible

Despite mainly playing as a couple, I, like many guys, wanted her to play alone and tell me all the details.  This fantasy came true for me in late 2025, and this, whilst intended to be a hot recollection, might serve as a warning to guys out there with a similar fantasy.

My wife is a fashion designer.  She was when we met and her creativity was, and still is, a major source of attraction.

Harry is a material supplier and has known my wife for years, way before we met.

There has always been a flirty banter between Harry and Louise (wife), and late 2025, Harry invited Louise to be his guest at a dinner and networking event in London.

A small bit of backstory; in the Summer of ‘25, myself, Louise and Harry went to a sex club and had an amazing night; I saw Harry and Lou kiss when I was at the bar and they didn’t think that I could see them, we went to a private room and had a threesome, and then met with a couple for a MFMFM - it was awesome, so sexually, and with me present and full blessing, Lou and Harry had already had sex.  Late October, they would be at an event, but I wasn’t there.

I work away during the week but “the day” was the day that I returned home. Lou had to be in London for the event that started at noon.

The day, and one that I won’t forget, started like most when I am away with an exchange of messages:

“Good morning wife!

How’s you this morning?  Sleep ok?  I was awake in the night and had to have a play just to get back to sleep 🍆💦.  Can I have a sexy/ underwear pic today please - I want to see how hot you look for your event!”

It was two hours later, when I knew that she’d dropped our son to school when I got a reply with a picture of her on the train platform:

“Hey babe, sorry only just had a chance to see this due to the morning rush!  You can have this pic now and I’ll send you an underwear pic later - sleep?  Like you, awake in the night and ended up watching some porn and not my usual girlie stuff either!  I came twice- so good!  And then slept!”

“Wow - you look so hot and I love the thought that the pic will come!  Tell me about the porn!  What’s got you so horny ….. could it be your host for the  day!!”

“I’m a bit horny, still” says my wife.

“So am I knowing that you’re with Harry today!”

“Ikr”

“Have you messaged him yet?”

“No, not had the chance - I’d better do that now x”

“Yep, think you should!  Maybe I should message him too and ask him to look after you today!”

“Lol, you can ask him if you like” she says

“Can I?”

“Of course”

“Well, in that case, I might”

“😘” was her reply

“What porn were you watching?  Was it anything to do with a woman getting taken back to a hotel from a lunch dinner?”

“Might have been!”

“Did I feature in your thoughts; or Harry”

“Maybe! 🥰”

“Ok, well please can you look after yourself today.  You know you have a free pass and whatever happens, happens, but please make sure that you are safe!  I don’t care if you even stay over.  Please just keep me updated and don’t leave me to wake at 3am not knowing where you are x”

“Hey - defo.  I love you, love you so much”

“Cool - have a great day!  And don’t forget my pictures!”

With Lou’s permission, I messaged Harry:

“Hey Harry, I hope you enjoy the event today, and the company 😂.  Are you home tonight, or staying over”

“Hi mate, defo staying over - the last train is for the weak!  What is Louise doing?”

“Well, Lou has a free pass!  What she does with that is up to her, but i do know that she’s horny and has been watching porn from 3.30 am!.  Please don’t divulge these messages.  My only requirement is that I’m told what’s happening and you treat her with respect and look after her.  Anything else for me is a massive turn on”

“Interesting news and messages between you and I mate.  Let’s see how the day unfolds! But if anything does happen, I have noted your message”

“Cool - look mate, all

I ask is that you don’t mug me off.  I’m trusting you with my world.  I hope you unserstand that.”

“Totally.”

So, the scene is set!  They both know that they have my permission to play, and I know that they both fancy each other enough to not let the opportunity pass.

Can’t lie, I was quite pleased with myself and it was only 1030!

I set about my day, but constantly wondering what would happen and when!  Of her free pass, Lou has always said that she wouldn’t cash it in and play if I’m not there.  I guess, well are about to find out!

Just before 3pm, I got a message from Lou.

“Hey babe, did you message Harry”

“Yes, is that ok?  Are you ok”

She sent me back a pic of her and Harry at the event with a few others.

“Yes, of course that’s ok.  He knows I have a free pass and he has a hotel a three minute walk away!  I didn’t want to play without you, but I’m tempted!  I don’t want to play alone as I don’t want you to want to play alone!  But, I’m really tempted”

“Why so tempted”

“Harry is very persuasive!, and I’ve had wine for the last three hours”

“Go play” was my reply. “With my blessing”

“I’m ok. I think I would want to video it, or be on a video call if we do play”

“That’s your choice babe.  Has anything happened so far”

“No, not yet.  I love you.  You are amazing.  Nothing will happen without you knowing”

“Be honest, do you want him”

“Yeah”

“I love you.  I’m ok with this”

“But I love you and would never do anything to jeopardise us”

“I know that Lou”

“Are you sure?  Sure about this”

“Yes - send me pics!  Keep safe and enjoy”

“We’re still having lunch!”

“Cool - don’t forget my underwear pic”

“Shit!  Yes!  I’ll go to the loo in a bit”

“Or just get Harry to take one”

I continued …. “Are you sitting next to Harry at the table”

“Yes”

“Any touching”

“A bit, yes”

“By you, by him, or both”

“A bit of both, but he started it.  It’s making me want to play!”

“Fuck babe - go play.  Does Harry know we’ve spoken”

“Yes”

“And, do you have stockings, hold ups, or bare legs”

“Bare”

“Go enjoy!  Don’t get too pissed and remember that I want all the details”

And that was my point.  I wanted details.  If it was going to happen.  I wanted to know everything.  I’m a very literal person.  I like detail.  I remember detail.  I can recall detail from events from years ago.  I wanted what I could relay. That’s what I needed.

About 4.30, my phone pinged.  A WhatsApp.  Lou was in a cubicle.  Stripped down to underwear; bra and thong - my selfie had arrived and fuck!  My wife looked so hot. She always does.  But it was looking like this was not for me!

“Send one of those to Harry and send me his reply”

“Sent”, came Lou’s reply with a kiss

The next few hours passed and I couldn’t stop thinking if anything was happening.  It was clear that it was going too.  Both Lou and Harry are networking junkies so happy ‘working the room’ but if I had the chance to take my wife back to my hotel that was 3 minutes away, I’d be doing that - fuck networking!

It was 1930 when I got “hey ya, I’m in the loo” from Lou.

“You still out” was my reply

“Still at the event and not seen Harry for a while!”

“Oh wow - I thought the lunch would have finished hours ago!  I assumed you’d be playing by now - are you ok”

“Babe, I’m fine. I’m pacing myself on wine and soda.  There are so many people to chat too - it’s an amazing event”

“Are you ok?”  I asked

“Yeah, are you?”

“Yeah - I’m really calm.  Really surprised you’ve not been back to hotel”

“Honest babe - you’ll know before anything does happen”

“Has anything happened yet?  Kiss, touch?”

“Only very subtle touching at the table but I told you that.”

“Ok.  Speak soon.  Love you”

“Love you too. So much”

20.18

“So, I found Harry and we decided to comeback to his hotel for an hour and then go back out.  What would you like to see?”

“What do you want to show me?  If you want to call, video or FaceTime me, that’s up to you.  It’s your time.  Do what you want but remember I want Details”

And then nothing.  Nothing at all.  No message.  No call, no video, no FaceTime.  Just me and my imagination.

I was really calm.  I expected to be more anxious.  Whenever we’ve spoken about Lou playing alone or about her prior experiences I get an adrenaline rush and start to shake uncontrollably.  It’s happening now as I type this, but at that time, nothing.  I felt nothing at all.  That wasn’t how I thought I’d be.  I thought I’d be like Woody Harrelson in Indecent Proposal; pacing.  Wondering.  Shaking.  But, I felt nothing.

2100 - dead on 9pm, I got a FaceTime call.  It was Lou’s phone and held up high.  Lou and Harry were in bed.  Lou was in his arm.  She had her bra on.  You could sense how pissed they were - more Harry than Lou to be fair, but there was also a look on Lou’s face and I knew straight away that something wasn’t right.

I said “are you ok”

“Yes” said Lou

“Fuck yes” from Harry

“You’ve still got your bra on babe”

“Yes, I just put that on”

It was strained.  It wasn’t normal - but it wasn’t a normal moment

I saw Harry get up and he said “I’m going to the loo.  We can have round two if you want”.

With him gone, I asked again “are you ok?”

“Yes, I think so”

It was so awkward.  I said that I’d go and leave them to it.  “Please let me know if you stay”

“Ok, I will, but I won’t stay”

“Be safe.  I love you” and I ended the call before Lou could say anything else.

I messaged “I hope that you are ok.  I could sense how pissed the room was!  Makes me glad I don’t drink anymore (I’d been sober for three months).  You can stay if you want but please let me know .  Enjoy round 2.  No regrets right. (Our playing motto)”. That was sent at 21.03.  The most awkward three minutes of my life!

I went to bed. I tried to imagine what had happened.  I couldn’t get an erection.  I never struggle with that. What was happening.  What had we done!

The following are the actual messages from that night.

2124

“Hey, I’m on my way home now x. I want round 2 with you”

2125

“Are you ok?  That’s all i care about” I said

“I’m ok.  Just a long way to get home”

“Where are you”

“Near Paddington.  I’m in an uber.  Going to get the Lizzie Line and then the train”

“Ok”

2126

Lou messages “are you ok.  This feels weird.  I wish you were here”

“Ha.  I’m ok.  Really calm.  Surprisingly calm in fact.  I love you.  How was it”

“I love you.  It was fun, a bit drunk and silly.  I’ll talk you through it when I get home and have you in my arms”

“Ok.  We’re good you know.  Tonight changes nothing.”

2129

Me - “I have a few questions.  Can I ask them now”

“Of course - you can ask anything”

“Did you cum”

“No”

“Did Harry”

“Yes”

“Where”

“Inside me and I’m sorry.  We didn’t have a condom and it just happened.  I need to get the morning after pill tomorrow.  I feel shit about that and I’m sorry”

“I want to eat you as soon as you walk through the door.  I want you to sit on my face as soon as you come home.  Is his cum still in you now”

“Yes it is”

“Wow - did you go down on him”

“Yes”

“Did he you”

“Yes”

“Did you ride him”

“Yes”

“What position were you in when he came”

“I can’t describe it.  I’ll show you later”

That cut me - clearly not a position that we do.  How hard is a position to explain!

“Did he warn you that he was going to cum”

“Yes”

“Did you want his cum inside you”

“Yes, I love it when you cum inside me.  I wanted it inside me.  I’m sorry”

“His cock is bigger than mine isn’t it.  Did you feel it?  Did he cum a lot”

“I didn’t notice it bigger.  He did cum a lot.  It was all quite drunk and quick and he’s gone back out!”

“I’m amazed you didn’t go back earlier.  No way I’d have left it that long if I was Harry and had the chance to play with you.  I’d have gone back early and gone back out”

2149

Me “what was better.  Tonight or the club”

“The club defo”

“Would you do it again”

“I’m not sure”

“Did he take you from behind”

“Yes”

“Anal?”

“No”

“When did you first kiss”

“When we left the venue and went back to the hotel”. So much for nothing happening before I know!

“Taxi or walk”

“Walk”

“Hold hands?”  I know that’s a strange question but it means intimacy over fucking - if that makes sense

“No, well, I’m not sure - I think I was holding onto his arm”

“When did you decide you’d play?  You’ve said all day that you’re not sure but I think it was quite early.”

“Yes, I think after we spoke and you said you were ok with it.  I wanted too.  You wanted me too.  Harry wanted too”

Then nothing.  Nothing from me.  Nothing from Lou.

2228

Me - “how’s your pussy.  Still leaking”

2235

“Yes, big time”

“How does that feel”

“My pussy feels sore, but in a good way”

“Well, he’s a big boy and I guess you got quite the pounding.

No reply.

2240

“Did you send Harry an underwear pic”

“Yes” and she sent me a screen shot of her pic and his reply” “wow, so hot” was his reply

I noticed that the pic she sent Harry was different to the one that she sent me.  My mind was racing!  What else don’t I know?

I messaged “the pic you sent me was hot, but the pic you saved for Harry, much hotter”

“Oops - I thought I sent you the same - sorry”. I’m now uncomfortable!

2247

Me “did he fuck you good”

“He did indeed”

And that was like a dagger!

2250

Me “you said you are sore.  Too sore for me tonight”

“No, but be gentle”

“How are you.  Buzzing, relaxed, still horny”

“I’m tired. I’m ok.  How are you”

“I’m ok.  I’m calm”

At 2300 the door opened and she went straight to the downstairs loo.  I was gutted by that.  I wanted to see her used pussy.  She came upstairs and i got out of bed, naked, and we kissed.  It was soft but urgent.  I’m sure she had frantic and hard earlier.  I asked her to tell me what happened, but first I want to taste her.

She took her dress off - I was expecting some marks but there were none.

She got on the bed, I went down on her and didn’t get the sensation that I wanted.  She was flinching.  She really was sore.  We always use lube and she didn’t have any with him.

And, he’s bigger than me.

She said “come here.  I want you inside me and I’ll tell you what happened”

I did.  I kissed her as I pushed inside her. I could feel her discomfort but she wanted me inside her and I wanted to reclaim her.

This is what she said, whilst I was gently fucking her.

“we left the venue and as soon as we got outside, I needed to change my shoes. I had my heels on and couldn’t walk in those. That was when we first kissed. We walked to his hotel me holding onto him.  When we got to his hotel, we went to reception to get the key card and then made our way to the lift as soon as we got into the lift he started to kiss me.  He pushed me against the wall of the lift and kissed me harder”

It was at that point I came deep inside my wife. They hadn’t even made it back to the room yet in this version of the night and I’ve already cum inside her..

Lou let out a disappointed sigh.  But also said “fuck, that was quick, but I’m sore.”

I pulled out and we laid on the bed. I apologised for cuming so quick and asked her to carry on telling me what had happened.

She said that when the lift stopped, Harry went in the opposite direction and they were laughing as they couldn’t find their room.  Lou said that she was trying to find her phone so she could contact me and tell me what was happening and she noticed that she didn’t have any battery left.  She said that when they got into the room she was fumbling through her bag trying to find a charger to plug in the phone. She had to wait for the phone to get some charge because the phone had died she said whilst she was waiting for the phone to charge she was sitting in a chair and Harry was going down on her licking her from her bum to her clit.  She said that she was really trying hard to concentrate and sent me the message saying that they were back in the room and what did I want to see? She said at that point she put a phone to one side and just concentrated on what was happening.  She hadn’t even read the messages that I sent back so if I wanted to see something, if I wanted to video call, that moment was gone.  I kind of felt cheated.

She carried on she said that he went down on her and then she got up and he pushed her onto the bed on her back and he went down on her again. She then said that she went down on him. He was standing up. She was on her knees looking at him all the time, and I know exactly what those eyes can do, but she’s just staring deep at him. She said he then told her to get on the bed on her back and he went straight inside her.  I asked her “ did you discuss a condom” no she replied he didn’t have one and we were past the point of doing anything about that.  She said that he fucked her on the bed for a little while and then he told her to turn over and he took her from behind. He then went down on her again and then got on top of her and continued fucking.  She said she told him to turn over as she wanted to ride him.  Again, I know exactly how that feels how she would’ve been staring at him, his hands all over her breasts, her hands on his chest,  riding him,  fucking him. Him taking her and her fucking him. She then described the position where he came.  They were laying almost side-by-side. Her left leg was up and he was on his side with his cock inside her touching her tits and kissing her he said he was gonna cum and where did she want it? She said “cum inside me” and he did.

She said that they laid for just a couple of minutes and then she wanted to phone me. She got up and got her phone and put a bra back on and that’s when they phoned me.

We got her toy and within about 25 seconds of me using the wand on her clit she came really hard. I know that she was thinking of him. I know that this is what I wanted.

I wanted, no, need and still need, a description of what happened in the 40 minutes from when she messaged me to when I got the FaceTime call.  The version I got was 40 seconds.

As I said, I’m a Details person. I knew that I would get off on being told what had happened. I knew that I’d get off on being told that he was bigger. He did this. He did that, he said this, he said that, she loved it etc.  but I got nothing. no more details.

When we spoke the next day she said she couldn’t really remember anything else other than what she said.  I was gutted I made it really clear that if they were going to play I wanted and needed the details. I really expected graphic information how it felt, what it was like,  how it was different to with me, how it was better, what she liked etc but I got nothing other than the briefest of descriptions.

We fell asleep and woke up the next day. I asked if she was okay.

“ I don’t feel good.  I feel like I cheated on you last night.”

“ you didn’t.  I encouraged it. I wanted it. I wanted you to have him. I wanted you to have the night that you had.”

“ are you okay?” Lou asked.

“ yeah, I’m fine, but I’d like to know some more details.  You know me, babe I want all the details”

“ there really isn’t too much else to say. As I said in my message, it was a bit silly it was a bit drunk”

“ but it was good, yeah”

“ yeah, but it’s not something I want to do again. It doesn’t feel right. If anything else was to happen with Harry I’d want you there.”

And then we just got on with the day.

Midway through the next day, I messaged Harry.  He also knew I wanted Details if I wasn’t going to get them from Lou then maybe Harry would get off on telling me.

“ hi Mate this is a really strange message. Me thanking you for looking after my wife but thank you!  She got back safe about 11 o’clock and we had a chat but I haven’t had too many details but will chat again later.  All I’ve heard so far is it started in the lift.  Feel free to fill in the blanks.”

Harry replied

“ Love a strange message 😂.  To be honest, we were a few bottles deep by the time we left the venue and went back to the hotel so I can understand if Lou has blanks.  I’m pretty sure we got the ball rolling in the lift and then kind of fell into the room. Im fairly sure she was messaging you at that point. The rest is a slight but amazing blur. I’ll let Lou go into more details. It’ll probably be more exciting for you hearing it from her.”

It would’ve been more exciting, but I’ve heard nothing.  nothing else. It’s been four months now she said she can’t even remember it. Her brain doesn’t work like that. She’s not as descriptive as I am.

These are the things that I really want to know:

Was it just kissing in the lift or were they touching each other through their clothes?

When did she first touch his cock?.

Did she undress him? She said that all of a sudden he was just naked she doesn’t remember how.

Did he undress her? She said that she had a dress on while she was sitting in the chair texting me but doesn’t really remember how her dress came off.

What was being said? Was I mentioned? Did he ask “Is this better than your husband?” And how would she have answered

How did it feel when he was going down on her?

What parts were better than what we do.  What did she really like.

Did he just fuck her Hard? Was there any tenderness involved? Any kissing?

Just more details - to be fair, if I had ten answers, I’d have ten more questions - but, Lou knows what I’m like and knew that - what I needed from the event hasn’t been fulfilled.

We have agreed that playing alone is not something that we will do again.  For her, she said it feels like she’s cheating and for me, without the narrative, the description, the detail, it doesn’t really have any effect. If I’ve got to imagine what happened then I can do that without it actually happening.

So the unintended consequence and how do I feel about this now?  I think it was a mistake! one that I take full responsibility for.  I encouraged her to do it. I wanted it to happen and if it hadn’t have happened then I think that I would still be encouraging her to do that and probably with Harry at another event.

Harry’s messaged Lou a few times.  He said that he thought it was amazing and he couldn’t wait to play again. Lou didn’t respond with anything other than with a kiss. He’s then  messaged to say that he has a friend who would be interested in playing as well if she was interested, again, she didn’t reply with anything other than a kiss. I am a bit annoyed by that.  Lou isn’t a woman for multiple sharing with his mates …… unless she gave that impression to him in the moment.

I know they’ve met for lunch but that was just a chat..

The situation of that night has kind of been living rent free in my head for the last four months. It’s time to let it go. I wish I had the details to let this go!

So my advice if you’re considering this.  If you’re considering your partner playing alone and you not being there, be really, really clear as to what it is that you want out of this and I say that knowing that I was very clear what I wanted!   I just didn’t get it from the two people that I wanted it from, but it’s too late now we have to move on. I’m not sure I have moved on but I know I will do. I know I have to.  if in any doubt, show this story to your wife.  make sure you get what you want to get out of the moment so you don’t end up feeling like I feel right now.

All of that said,  in any moment of a boy time,  alone time, masturbation time, I just think about Lou and Harry going back to that room and generally I’ll make myself cum by the time he’s entered her for the first time. I just wish I knew more.