Quote by Seroxatmad
Well we have re joined SH and logged into out local chat room and found the same people sitting there as 9 months ago!!!
have you considered that the site is actually working for them and they are having meets, where it didn't work for you... hence why you went away and came back? after all it can't be that bad if you are getting your fun can it?
We log in when we want fun.....odd times for chat but these lot must be sit in front of there computers every night just using the chat room.
What is wrong with that? each to there own, they may want to talk to people a lot more than you do... noting wrong with that but with the greatest respect who are you to critise how people go about there swinging!!
We don't actually think they ever swing!
and that is a very dangerous assumption to make... so you have never seen the club jollies these guys have put up on "lets meet up".....you have never been to any of the house parties or socials there have been in the north east for the last 2 years, at the last social just before xmas, there was the best part or 70-80 couples and singles there... are you critising every one of them??????
The single guys get flamed for tring to chat with these gods!
actually, no they are not.. however people do then to mirror behaviour... if the single/couple are repspectful... they are respected back, if the single/couple are an arse for want of a better word, they are treated like arses back..
They sit half dressed then complain about guys directing them!
well you know as well as i do, that room normally has no whispering/no directing in the title..it is a simple instruction, maybe you should ask the people who decide they are above this rule why they do it???? so if people want to act like steven spielberg, there are other places to do it
All the guys we have met - 95% of them say they are treated like crap by these same lot. Yes I get annoyed and it is backed up by the many guys we meet.
obviously not the 70-80 people on average who go to all the north east socials then? and the best part of 100 going to the darlington social this evening.... maybe you should come to one, before you make gross generalisations
I am looking at organising a social soon.... I'll extend an invite to you both.... i hope both of you will come along??
Yes its a chat room but on a swing site. If they want virtual friends maybe they should try a general chat room like or Lycos etc. or maybe get a hobby.
this last bit is the bit that annoyed me most in all of the stuff you wrote...so people should only be on the site if they are looking for a meet that very moment...
a chatroom is a chatroom is a chatroom, the one thing we all have in common is they we are part of a swinging community... and to be as disrespectful and tell people to get a hobby smacks of the upmost arrogence....
tell that to the people in the north east room, or the north west room, or the yorks room, or the scots room, or the mids room, or the south west room, or even the kent room... and see just kind of reaction that statement would get
I put this bit outside for a reason.....
I saw the tirade the other night by this poster, wasn't the most pleasent ever...... it was nasty and vicious
I have also seen the OP whing and let out the tirade in the NW room, and then in the BBW room i was hosting at the time....
so don't quite paint yourself as being as "innocent" as you tried to.....
the way you both go about your swinging works for you..... others may not do it that way.... I am not going to critise the way you do yours, so why should you do the same to others......
open up your own room, put directing/whispers allowed in the title.... and people then know what they let themselves in for... if they then get accosted by film school dropouts, they have no one to blame but themselves......
sean xxxxx
Just because one pays membership does not entitle them to dis-respect others! And there is a thing called Common Sense too! Perhaps the AUP rules should state the definition of common sense and define rules for common sense as well.
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