Quote by Too Hot
Excellent????
How can Swinging be more dangerous than dogging??
Look at the sticky at the top of this page - 13 pages of WARNINGS
The safest way to involve others is in a secure Club environment, followed by a private meet (in a public place).
Most doggers appear to be frustrated married men who haven't the balls or decency to be honest with their Partner/wife about their fantasies and desires - mind you that is the problem with our country generally - too little honesty and too many two faced and hypocritical people starting at the very top
Jeez calm down! :shock:
First off, there are plenty of people who are not being truthful with their partners about their activities - in swinging and dogging so before you cast aspersions (again) on most doggers (who you seem to have a real dislike for btw) remember that we are not your enemy, no-one here has been rude to you, return the courtesy please!!
Secondly, what I said was:
With regard to reward, see above. There's a buzz in doing something that is still considered somewhat illicit and if you're lucky, you get to share that with a small number of other genuine people! It's no more dodgy or dangerous than swinging - possibly it's less so as swingers tend to share more personal info whereas dogging often has a much bigger element of anonymity, which we can maintain even when arranging meets!
Where in there have I said swinging is more dangerous than dogging as an absolute? you're talking only about physical danger, I'm talking about danger as a whole such as people knowing more about you than they should - and that possibly, that's more dangerous overall. We're allowed to post warnings here about locations but the site doesn't allow naming and shaming, if it did, I can assure you there would be even more pages of warnings in the Cafe, certainly more than 13 pages since September 2003!
The safest way to involve others is in a secure Club environment, followed by a private meet (in a public place).
In your opinion - but you're in the dogging section on the site, a large number of people here have no interest in clubs as I posted previously.
Quote by Too Hot
One evening in a new car park which we had not been to before we were surrounded by a leering mob of guys - and I mean a mob. We drove off quickly and went to a pub nearby to compose ourselves only to find that two cars had followed us and they guys inside felt it reasonable to ask Mrs Hot to expose herself to them and generally pass obnoxious comment.
That's absolutely awful, I'm sorry to hear that you had such a bad experience but those people weren't doggers, they're morons with no sense, no manners and no interest in the erotic side of dogging. But we are not those people, we didn't hurt, upset or scare you and your partner so your anger is misdirected.
Your experience is one that a number of couples have had and it's disgusting that people can act like that (ask Dirtydoggers about the Dogging Mafia he's seen) - but there are considerate doggers and idiot ones, just the same as there are genuine swingers and people who pretend to be something they're not, they're all people and while most are nice some are beneath contempt (yours and mine!)
