EEK only went away from the computer for a few days and this thread got busy!
WoW some interesting posts there! Had a good read!
Well im quite new to all this dogging stuff, and havent been going that much only been maybe ten times max! - I have only known about it for about a year or so my one and only experiance if you can call it that!, I was in essex near a well known spot in essex, we had previously discussed the subject of dogging and we decided to go down there together! Unfortunatly we are just very good friends (who share almost everything)!
Anyway we went and sat in a space, and we sat there for a whille and then other cars pulled into the car park, and flashed their head lights etc we were sitting there, wondering if that was a sign at us or not...neither of us had the nerve to get out the car and investigate, anyway this car carried on flashing for another few mins, after that it left. then about ten mins or so later another car came and parked about two spaces next to us, and there was a young couple in there, they opened their doors, and were sitting chatting not really doing anything, but our hearts were beating and shereally seemed to like, even taking off her top! ( I dont know why -maybe she was trying to tell me something, but me being a nice guy didnt think anything of it - but it was nice all the same!)
In the end they drove off too!
With hindsight we still arent sure what to make of the events of that night.
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Ey up Essex welcome to the show ;-)
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Quote by bucksfuncpl
we "made our own entertainment" sitting in empty car parks.
Thats all very well and good for you couples but as a single bloke making my own entertainment consists of scanning through the two or so half decent signal radio stations I can pick up, in the hope of hearing a good song. Its okay down in Essex with Skues on, he once played Shaddap Your Face while I was sat alone in one dogging location and that was the highlight of the night, but more often than not they keep playing poxy Robbie, I mean apart from Strong and the early TT stuff I hate all of it. And when I go out on my bicycle I cant even listen to the radio!! I wonder if its time to invest in a personal CD player?
Regards all
Harry Jones
PS Those boots kill me
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Quote by HarryJones
we "made our own entertainment" sitting in empty car parks.
Thats all very well and good for you couples but as a single bloke making my own entertainment consists of scanning through the two or so half decent signal radio stations I can pick up, in the hope of hearing a good song. Its okay down in Essex with Skues on, he once played Shaddap Your Face while I was sat alone in one dogging location and that was the highlight of the night, but more often than not they keep playing poxy Robbie, I mean apart from Strong and the early TT stuff I hate all of it. And when I go out on my bicycle I cant even listen to the radio!! I wonder if its time to invest in a personal CD player?
Regards all
Harry Jones
PS Those boots kill me
Hey making your own entertainment is far from easy when you have limited space in the car. I thought at one point last Sunday when Jen and I had finished "entertaining ourselves" that I would need to call the fire brigade to extract me, or risk a gearstick somewhere that nature clearly did not intend ;)
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For us dogging is all about the build up, will there be anyone there, will we get 'caught', will the person want to watch etc.
Yes, I think a lot of the appeal is the chance of catching someone being a bit rude and the thing is that it is not a contrived experience, although everyone involved obviously has to be up for it. The anticipation is certainly a large part of it, and I think this would have a different quality going to a pre-aranged meet with all sorts of expectations. I also wonder whether it would lose some of this if it was "too easy".
Having said that, the uncertainty also makes me extremely cautious and I suspect I've missed some chances to enjoy some mutual fun with willing couples simply because of not being quite sure enough what was going on. Likewise, my exhibitionist side has maybe sometimes been held in check by being cautious, but I'd prefer to be like this than get into trouble!
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Having said that, the uncertainty also makes me extremely cautious and I suspect I've missed some chances to enjoy some mutual fun with willing couples simply because of not being quite sure enough what was going on. Likewise, my exhibitionist side has maybe sometimes been held in check by being cautious, but I'd prefer to be like this than get into trouble!
Nail on the head time mate. Over one year and 500 posts down the line I'm in the same boat as you.
Harry Jones
