gailen and terrald....it can sometimes appear like a shooting gallery,where every newbie that posts is shot down in flames in a torrent of abuse,therefore others sit on the sidelines preffering to keep their dignity intact!!!....i think the case from our perspective is that only a minority are into this game seriously,the others see it as an oppertunity for a quick shag with a slag thats gagging for it,and her pervie husband gets off on watching,well thats enough about us!!.......anyway,most couples that post on this forum really do like to help,after all,without you few serious guys,we will soon be shagged!,so there is a little self-interest there too.....another thing,and i cant speak for other couples here,if we wanted a private meet,we would look to this forum to recruit,and it certainly wouldn't be "who out toonite,need my cock suked"!1
Its kinda like this , people that go dogging quite like to talk about it and share experiences . It a bit like a small perverse little exclusive club . Truth is if the girls wanted to just get laid or touched up they could just pull up at any site and open the window , so its quite rare that anyone on the site is actually searching for doggers , more often than not they just having a chat about the scene .
thats why they get bored of all the posts for advise , because a quick read of the old posts , ten minutes max, would answer all the questions you had , and establish the only real way to get involved is just to go and try it!
Of course there are some organised meets here , but id guess they mostly happen with new couples testing the water or with couples meeting couples . Once they get a small circle of people involved they dont need the board any more for contacts , but they still like to share . So by all means see it as a resource for advise and sharing anecdotes , but its no substitute for getting in your car and going out .
Hope that doesnt get shot down as me being mean again , cos its meant as friendly advise xx
Big G (I think?) has hit the nail on the head (ouch!) with that post! It's true, the same questions get posted again and again so people lose the will to respond to them after a while. Any new members who actually do bother to read some of the threads here will find those answers very quickly and can move onto more interesting conversations very quickly......it's dead easy to have a friendly chat here, it just requires a little effort and sense :color:
so are we saying that experienced doggers have all gone into their groups and arent interested in anyone else?
I dont think thats the case - surely not?
But i do understand what was said about the same questions being asked and newbies reading older threads.
I think were just saying that a bit of effort on our part (single guys) will help to establish us as people the cpls and ladies would like to play with/for, and I for one can see their point, if it wasn't for the press exposure etc, how many single guys would even have found SH??? let alone tried to contact the cpls on here??
TonyCuk
What a blatant display of hussydom in front of the new boys, young lady!! *inspects palms of hands to decide which to use*
