Most of the couples (if not all) that I have known in dogging use the extra sex as an addition to their life together and not as a support or replacement.
Surely most people can see that if your relationship is f**ked. then shagging around is hardly likely to help salvage it ?
Maybe the reason behind the original post isn't as simple as it seemed ?
i once went to see a complete idiot at relate, hadnt got a clue about relationships, or sex for that matter ,i reckon she just worked there for the gossip, did nothing for me or my ex, in fact id go as far as saying she would have done well to come on here and ask a few questions .......
mind you there is nothing worse than busy bodies that offer advise about subjects they dont have a clue about.
staggy
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A bi girlfriend and I would be more than happy to be among those hallowed & feinted "female doggers"....that is,if we had ever witnessed anything at our local sites other than twatty teenagers and single men who just sit on their tod and don't give any signal that there's anyone there until you see them spark up a cigarette.
Ho Hum.....Still,we sit nattering in the darkness with a cheesecake or two,having a giggle and at least it gives us something other than "him indoors" and the mountainous laundry pile to complain about!