The other side of Swinging-changes!!

Nope not a seedy side of swinging. However, as I was putting fake tan on (yes it’s a first!), I was wondering what changes have you noticed in yourself since starting this? Such as taking more pride in your appearance? Or has it brought you more confidence? Have you started looking at your diet or going to the gym? I genuinely am very curious to know the knock on effects that I never thought were possible including fake tan!! 😂🤣 I would love to hear your stories 😊

Funny you say that, I did work out for three months solid for 2 exceptional people. (no names) It was well worth it😉

Fake tan is probably gonna get laughed at if I tried it. I can hear the howls of derision in Wetherspoons already.

A new adventure brings new goals, we all want to look good right? when meeting potential new friends.

Trip to the barbers for good clean up and few new clothes are all part of the fun.

Absolutely! Now have you tried to veet your nads yet? 🤔

😲Oh my giddy aunt. That's an eye waterer. Maybe I can get Fake ones

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Absolutely! Now have you tried to veet your nads yet? 🤔

I Naired my balls once, never again.

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I Naired my balls once, never again.

I use a supermarket branded version It's ok for me.

being around the lifestyle, has made me more confident, i am me, and that wont change, accepting that has been really positive for me.

Swingy

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Absolutely! Now have you tried to veet your nads yet? 🤔

Did you know there is actually an Australian (I think) hair removal cream brand called "Nads" even better than that... have a guess what the address of the UK site is called.. 🤣

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being around the lifestyle, has made me more confident, i am me, and that wont change, accepting that has been really positive for me.

Swingy

That's interesting, it had the opposite effect on me

I've definitely noticed that in the 20+ years of swinging, there is less and less hair down there as the years go by! Which started a discussion - will it be like flairs, and suddenly hair will make return?!

Like beards lol

I've not really noticed much that has changed but then I've been swinging since I was 19.... perhaps a negative change has been that I feel that i trust less now.

That’s pretty sad but real and I completely get where you’re coming from. I think my tolerance level is going down, however, when you do find the real deal it’s so good 😉

I carefully shave with shaving soap and razor to get a smooth outcome. Not a cutthroat mind as don’t want to change my profile icon lol but yes always important to look your best for who ever you meet

I have definitely made more effort at the gym - and I bought a Manscaper too... Not gone so far as a fake tan yet (but I may have dyed my hair slightly.... shhhhh ;-))

Other than that, I have become far more confident and outgoing than I have EVER been.

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Like beards lol

Honestly, what's this obsession with beards nowadays?! I can't wait till clean-shaven is back in fashion! It's such a turn off for me.(( I wouldn't kiss a man with a beard (stubble maybe), neither he would be allowed anywhere near my pussy. I guess one thing girls have over men, I won't get a rash after being eaten out.)) Men think they look brutal and like vikings with beards. My thoughts - I don't know how your face actually looks like, you are a bit lazy, you gonna irritate my sensitive skin and generally nah... 😁

Lots of shaving going on now 😂

Obsession?

Let me see - a trim once a week versus shaving, sometimes twice a day!

Trying to minimise blood-loss too!

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Obsession?

Let me see - a trim once a week versus shaving, sometimes twice a day!

Trying to minimise blood-loss too!

Obsession because majority of guys now prefer to have beards.)) 😁 Yes, it's easier than shaving (sometimes twice a day). Hence I'm saying it's just a bit lazy. If you apply same principles to everything, you won't get far. 😉

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Obsession because majority of guys now prefer to have beards.)) 😁 Yes, it's easier than shaving (sometimes twice a day). Hence I'm saying it's just a bit lazy. If you apply same principles to everything, you won't get far. 😉

I shave daily and I've got a beard, what does that make me? 😉

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I shave daily and I've got a beard, what does that make me? 😉

Someone who can't make their mind up 😉😁

99% of bald guys have beards!

Tried a goatee once …only kidding lol

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❤️ I agree with Kitten ❤️...beards are a relatively recent pack-like fashion for young men who follow the crowd and lack the individuality or discipline to keep clean shaven. A beard hides good looks & good chins but covers up double chins and unattractive looks; beards also collect food, smells and crumbs and is simply unsavoury, unhygienic and unkempt - unless you're in the Navy! A light 'designer stubble looks ok but plays havoc with a girl's skin. Yuk! Not for Kitten or me!!! 🙁

Spot on!!

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Obsession because majority of guys now prefer to have beards.)) 😁 Yes, it's easier than shaving (sometimes twice a day). Hence I'm saying it's just a bit lazy. If you apply same principles to everything, you won't get far. 😉

I keep a beard, it takes more work than shaving! You still have to shave daily, and also trim, wash and brush. I get every girl has preference, but it's not quite the lazy choice for all of us 😁

I’m definitely not a beard fan, makes me look old. I’d have never dreamed about walking round a club in just my underwear before I started swinging, I’ve also lost 2 and a half stone since I started too

Sexualness has become easier when in the right situation. However, Gorgia feels trust has gone down, which is a shame. Real genuine people always shine through which has become fab.. As a single TGirl have found there are now more attached people swinginging. Enjoyment and pleasure always XX👄👄

We joined a naturist club as that is an interest of ours. Despite putting weight on, being with naturists who are friendly and non judgemental my confidence has grown about my body and that has made me much more open and thus have much more fun from these sites and at clubs

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Absolutely! Now have you tried to veet your nads yet? 🤔

only if you help x

Id say im more confident but the very Situational