hello all
just like to say thanks to the 3 guys who turned up last night hope you enjoyed the fun
steve
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Warming the Bed
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i certainly did...many thanks to both yourself and jane for the fun
certainly hope that another can be arranged soon
rob
certainly hope that another can be arranged soon
rob
Warming the Bed
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Careful Steve - one of these self styled mods might censor you if they don't like your post again
Sex God
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Bandit, its snipey little comments like yours that bring attention to posts like this -
So, Mr Bing - thankyou for telling us all you had a meet - marvellous. Why not just pm the people concerned ? ohhhh thats because its a 'look at meeeeeee' post isnt it :roll:
Discretion Discretion Discretion :jagsatwork:
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Quote by Darkfire
Bandit, its snipey little comments like yours that bring attention to posts like this -
So, Mr Bing - thankyou for telling us all you had a meet - marvellous. Why not just pm the people concerned ? ohhhh thats because its a 'look at meeeeeee' post isnt it :roll:
Discretion Discretion Discretion :jagsatwork:
I wasn't sure I could refrain from swear words when I read Bandtis post this morning so I'll just say :thumbup:
Warming the Bed
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the main reason i posted a response like thank you for the meet guys, was for the following reasons:
1. so many timewasters on this site so nice to meet genuine people
2. the people who dont believe you are genuine now do
3. this site is a swinging site and what is wrong with saying thank you
4. allows other cpls/single males/fems to know there are other genuine people out there
if i am wrong and have made a mistake posting a thank you message then i apologise but it was not offensive to anyone
steve
1. so many timewasters on this site so nice to meet genuine people
2. the people who dont believe you are genuine now do
3. this site is a swinging site and what is wrong with saying thank you
4. allows other cpls/single males/fems to know there are other genuine people out there
if i am wrong and have made a mistake posting a thank you message then i apologise but it was not offensive to anyone
steve
Forum Virgin
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steve, thanks for arranging things...
hope we can do it again some time... keep in touch
hope we can do it again some time... keep in touch
Sex God
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Quote by Darkfire
So, Mr Bing - thankyou for telling us all you had a meet - marvellous. Why not just pm the people concerned ? ohhhh thats because its a 'look at meeeeeee' post isnt it
Discretion Discretion Discretion :jagsatwork:
What's the difference between a thank you after a meet and a thank you after a munch or party? Why don't munch-goers just pm the organiser to say thank you? Why the need for discretion? No names were mentioned.
Sex God
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Quote by bing_steve
the main reason i posted a response like thank you for the meet guys, was for the following reasons:
1. so many timewasters on this site so nice to meet genuine people
definately :thumbup:
2. the people who dont believe you are genuine now do
ooo verification?
3. this site is a swinging site and what is wrong with saying thank you
unless its a social, and you're saying thankyou generally and dont mind confirming to the site you were 'there', thankyou threads for anything else are best left to pm - because as has happened here, the other people who were there (and it wasnt a social it was a gang bang) then come along and confirm their attendenace too. That's not discreet at all.
4. allows other cpls/single males/fems to know there are other genuine people out there
Yep. It also shows that people are happy to shout it from the rooftops when they do meet. Catch22.
if i am wrong and have made a mistake posting a thank you message then i apologise but it was not offensive to anyone
No hun it wasnt offensive - i'm simply suggesting that it could have been done by pm for reasons of discretion, because of the nature of the meet.
Sex God
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Quote by northwest-cpl
What's the difference between a thank you after a meet and a thank you after a munch or party? Why don't munch-goers just pm the organiser to say thank you? Why the need for discretion? No names were mentioned.
see above.
no names need to be mentioned, because they've joined the thread to confirm themselves!
Sex God
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Quote by Darkfire
What's the difference between a thank you after a meet and a thank you after a munch or party? Why don't munch-goers just pm the organiser to say thank you? Why the need for discretion? No names were mentioned.
see above.
no names need to be mentioned, because they've joined the thread to confirm themselves!
Presumably, if they've joined the thread then they are quite happy to state they were there, so why is there a need for discretion? Isn't this a swingers site where people actually meet for sex? Are people ashamed to admit that they meet for sex rather than alcohol? Should people only state that they meet by innuendo as seems the case in many signatures? Surely discretion is only needed when people don't want to be associated with the event. This is not the case here.
Sex God
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There is always a need for discretion here in my oppinion. You are welcome to yours.
Sex God
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no, its not against the AUP. But there IS the unwritten ' way things are done' here - the etiquette - and imo the thankyou's in this thread are being done for the wrong reason - verification (oooo she said the V word again
) A genuine thankyou where an event is not a social should be done in pm, imo.
Sex God
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Quote by Darkfire
Bandit, its snipey little comments like yours that bring attention to posts like this -
So, Mr Bing - thankyou for telling us all you had a meet - marvellous. Why not just pm the people concerned ? ohhhh thats because its a 'look at meeeeeee' post isnt it :roll:
Discretion Discretion Discretion :jagsatwork:
Dark Fire.....you have a dig at Bandit for making a snipey remark which was wrong to do ....then you go and do one yourself......
i agree with North west couple(this is getting very scary)....if they want to put up a thank you thread...so what.....no names have been mentioned...so what has discretion got to do with it....there are other's who use this site that put up thank you threads after a meet and no one says that wrong.
Sex God
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Quote by Darkfire
no, its not against the AUP. But there IS the unwritten ' way things are done' here - the etiquette - and imo the thankyou's in this thread are being done for the wrong reason - verification (oooo she said the V word again
A genuine thankyou where an event is not a social should be done in pm, imo.
I have to disagree.....how many times have people come on here whinging "where are all the genuine swingers?".....a thank you thread highlights the fact that there are geniune people using this site and are prepared to say so.
Sex God
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I wonder why well known posters on here, who post very similar thank you posts for their parties, sometimes far more graphic than Steve Bing's, never encounter any problems.
Since we all do things in our own ways, why is it neccessary to try and impose our own view of the "unwritten rules" of Swinging Heaven. Live and let live. In this thread the only people who were mentioning names were mentioning their own. It seems the crime was to talk openly about a sexual encounter while not being particularly well known.
As for verification, I remember a single fem telling us in open forum what a nice person another member was when they wanted to pass on half a bedroom in Blackpool. Would that count as verification?
Since we all do things in our own ways, why is it neccessary to try and impose our own view of the "unwritten rules" of Swinging Heaven. Live and let live. In this thread the only people who were mentioning names were mentioning their own. It seems the crime was to talk openly about a sexual encounter while not being particularly well known.
As for verification, I remember a single fem telling us in open forum what a nice person another member was when they wanted to pass on half a bedroom in Blackpool. Would that count as verification?
Sex God
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I wonder why well known posters on here, who post very similar thank you posts for their parties, sometimes far more graphic than Steve Bing's, never encounter any problems.
Since we all do things in our own ways, why is it neccessary to try and impose our own view of the "unwritten rules" of Swinging Heaven. Live and let live. In this thread the only people who were mentioning names were mentioning their own. It seems the crime was to talk openly about a sexual encounter while not being particularly well known.
As for verification, I remember a single fem telling us in open forum what a nice person another member was when they wanted to pass on half a bedroom in Blackpool. Would that count as verification?
I know one very well known member who likes to put up a thank you thread,no one bats an someone does post a thank you thread up....and someone from that meet responds in that thread....that their choice....
Sex God
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i agree with North west couple(this is getting very scary)....
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Quote by Scandal
This site is purely for tellin people how many beers you've had or how crap you're day has been :x :x :x:lol:
:shock: :shock: :shock:
Do people really do that?
Warming the Bed
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hi all
well thanks for your responses and i dont see what is wrong with a thank you i never mentioned names, the guys who have come on and said they enjoyed it too, have put there own stamp on the post not me.
i have seen many meets on this site where certain individuals have posted thanks for the guys turning up last night but when its a woman or a cpl doing it nobody seems to jump up and down but because my profile says single male is this the reason im told what to do and what not to do!!!
well yes i am a single male but i have a swinging partner now n again we are discrete no names given and no locations. lets not stretch this into something it shouldnt be it was only a THANK YOU!
well thanks for your responses and i dont see what is wrong with a thank you i never mentioned names, the guys who have come on and said they enjoyed it too, have put there own stamp on the post not me.
i have seen many meets on this site where certain individuals have posted thanks for the guys turning up last night but when its a woman or a cpl doing it nobody seems to jump up and down but because my profile says single male is this the reason im told what to do and what not to do!!!
well yes i am a single male but i have a swinging partner now n again we are discrete no names given and no locations. lets not stretch this into something it shouldnt be it was only a THANK YOU!
Sex God
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Quote by bing_steve
hi all
well thanks for your responses and i dont see what is wrong with a thank you i never mentioned names, the guys who have come on and said they enjoyed it too, have put there own stamp on the post not me.
i have seen many meets on this site where certain individuals have posted thanks for the guys turning up last night but when its a woman or a cpl doing it nobody seems to jump up and down but because my profile says single male is this the reason im told what to do and what not to do!!!
well yes i am a single male but i have a swinging partner now n again we are discrete no names given and no locations. lets not stretch this into something it shouldnt be it was only a THANK YOU!
:thumbup:
Are we still allowed to do a quote with an emoticon?
Sexlightened
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We have to agree with bing_steve here we are always searching for the "elusive" genuine single guys and we get pissed off with guys who get in touch sing their own praises in 99 emails all the same content huge cock, very heavy cummer fuck all night bla bla bla and then dont show!
So to see a thread where guys have been invited "and turned up" can only be good for the site and as said before if the guys want to ad themselves to the post to confirm they are genuine, good for them.
We will also in future post thank you to the guys as we feel genuine guys deserve it.
Rant Over .. Betty and Biffa
So to see a thread where guys have been invited "and turned up" can only be good for the site and as said before if the guys want to ad themselves to the post to confirm they are genuine, good for them.
We will also in future post thank you to the guys as we feel genuine guys deserve it.
Rant Over .. Betty and Biffa
Warming the Bed
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betty n biffa
im genuine hehe
im genuine hehe
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Quote by Darkfire
the main reason i posted a response like thank you for the meet guys, was for the following reasons:
1. so many timewasters on this site so nice to meet genuine people
definately :thumbup:
2. the people who dont believe you are genuine now do
ooo verification?
3. this site is a swinging site and what is wrong with saying thank you
unless its a social, and you're saying thankyou generally and dont mind confirming to the site you were 'there', thankyou threads for anything else are best left to pm - because as has happened here, the other people who were there (and it wasnt a social it was a gang bang) then come along and confirm their attendenace too. That's not discreet at all.
4. allows other cpls/single males/fems to know there are other genuine people out there
Yep. It also shows that people are happy to shout it from the rooftops when they do meet. Catch22.
if i am wrong and have made a mistake posting a thank you message then i apologise but it was not offensive to anyone
No hun it wasnt offensive - i'm simply suggesting that it could have been done by pm for reasons of discretion, because of the nature of the meet.
For crying out loud. Thewhole point of the site and in particular the forum is to arrange meetings and promote open discussion. Bing has come on to pass thanks on to attendees of his meet. Big bloody deal. Good on him I say.
He even had the good grace to apologise if he had cause offence when in reality, it is Darkfire's cack-handed sarcasm which should be an issue. Darkfire - you weren't 'just simply suggesting' anything - you were being sarcastic and finnicky.
Just my opinion....I for one Mr Bing have no problem in you using the forum which by definition is a place of open discussion, if it's an easy way for you to collectively express thanks rather than send several separate messages.
And like Bing, I hasten to add I am not trying to cause offence either!
Warming the Bed
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i see its all gone quiet now people are standing up to be counted, this site is great for arranging meets and meeting like minded people lets remember what this is all about.
if saying thank you was such a problem so be it!
I would like to ask why does the site issue to one and all the locations of dogging sites? (see Dogging Sites) but in the dogging section if someone puts the location down in there post they get told off (naughty people) now i totally agree things like that should be in pvt messages not posted but lets set the rules, it cant be one rule for one and another rule for another!!! I wonder why dogging locations are full of boy racers and the boys in blue!
if saying thank you was such a problem so be it!
I would like to ask why does the site issue to one and all the locations of dogging sites? (see Dogging Sites) but in the dogging section if someone puts the location down in there post they get told off (naughty people) now i totally agree things like that should be in pvt messages not posted but lets set the rules, it cant be one rule for one and another rule for another!!! I wonder why dogging locations are full of boy racers and the boys in blue!
Sex God
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Quote by bing_stevehey think you were discrete mate ya broke no rules and they persons concerned came out and named them selfs ,and nothing about what happened on the night was dicussed just a few thanks and like to do it again,any way hope you have many more fun meets :thumbup:
hello all
just like to say thanks to the 3 guys who turned up last night hope you enjoyed the fun
steve
Warming the Bed
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Personally we find most sites, and especially this forum, lacks two of the politest and friendliest words you can use in the english language. THANK YOU.
The forum is called Lets Meet Up, and is all about arranging meets. Look at the list, 1000's of messages arranging stuff all over the UK. The event takes place, and then nothing!
No:
"Gosh what a great night"
"Thanks to everyone who made it along"
"120 couples can't be wrong"
or anything similar.
Discretion, yes, but good manners with a follow up can't be seen as wrong surely?
WC
The forum is called Lets Meet Up, and is all about arranging meets. Look at the list, 1000's of messages arranging stuff all over the UK. The event takes place, and then nothing!
No:
"Gosh what a great night"
"Thanks to everyone who made it along"
"120 couples can't be wrong"
or anything similar.
Discretion, yes, but good manners with a follow up can't be seen as wrong surely?
WC
Sex God
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Quote by WorcesterFun
Personally we find most sites, and especially this forum, lacks two of the politest and friendliest words you can use in the english language. THANK YOU.
The forum is called Lets Meet Up, and is all about arranging meets. Look at the list, 1000's of messages arranging stuff all over the UK. The event takes place, and then nothing!
No:
"Gosh what a great night"
"Thanks to everyone who made it along"
"120 couples can't be wrong"
or anything similar.
Discretion, yes, but good manners with a follow up can't be seen as wrong surely?
WC
You've never noticed the 'thank you' threads in the Cafe then? They are usually, if not always, posted to thank the organisers of a munch or social.
Sex God
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Quote by bing_steve
i see its all gone quiet now people are standing up to be counted, this site is great for arranging meets and meeting like minded people lets remember what this is all about.
Then there is no need to stir it up again is there, making remarks like that.
Quote by bing_steve
I would like to ask why does the site issue to one and all the locations of dogging sites? (see Dogging Sites) but in the dogging section if someone puts the location down in there post they get told off (naughty people) now i totally agree things like that should be in pvt messages not posted but lets set the rules, it cant be one rule for one and another rule for another!!! I wonder why dogging locations are full of boy racers and the boys in blue!
This may have been a question better asked in the relevant forum, where this particular thread is stickied:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/5700.html
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well id like to throw in my 2pence.
i posted on thewednesday thread asking for more details cos at first the post seemed a little tenuous... and didnt even receive a reply
i got a PM in the early evening from someone who was asking me if the meet was going ahead? me... like im the bloody expert!!!!!
i think it looked as though steve had been banned from the site too.....
the moral of the story is yet again...
you can miss the point of an origonal thread quite easily.... ive only just seen steve was planning it the week before and he gave out all the info i was looking for ...
genuine people are being thought of as being timewasters... he must have thouth i was a complete cock-knocker!
people are'nt even given the courtesey of a response to genuine replies.... ok i see steve was banned for a while and this could have been the reason..
and you cant please all of the people all of the time.....another thread turns into a war of words
then the bloody meet turned out to be genuine.... well slap my thighs and call me Rodger
funny thing is... jane could have had two more fine young men willing and able.....
SH...dont you just love it.
i posted on thewednesday thread asking for more details cos at first the post seemed a little tenuous... and didnt even receive a reply
i got a PM in the early evening from someone who was asking me if the meet was going ahead? me... like im the bloody expert!!!!!
i think it looked as though steve had been banned from the site too.....
the moral of the story is yet again...
you can miss the point of an origonal thread quite easily.... ive only just seen steve was planning it the week before and he gave out all the info i was looking for ...
genuine people are being thought of as being timewasters... he must have thouth i was a complete cock-knocker!
people are'nt even given the courtesey of a response to genuine replies.... ok i see steve was banned for a while and this could have been the reason..
and you cant please all of the people all of the time.....another thread turns into a war of words
then the bloody meet turned out to be genuine.... well slap my thighs and call me Rodger
funny thing is... jane could have had two more fine young men willing and able.....
SH...dont you just love it.
Orgasminator
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Blimey!, is it a full moon?
